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re: Wild Oats Project: Woman took year off from her marriage to sleep with strangers
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:05 pm to Dam Guide
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:05 pm to Dam Guide
So how many of those dudes did she allow to knock her up?
And why even reference only sleeping with 4 partners, if childbirth is really what is the impetus?
And why even reference only sleeping with 4 partners, if childbirth is really what is the impetus?
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Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:08 pm to ShortyRob
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Except, I'm going to be blunt here. She's lying.
She used the kid thing to rationalize doing what she wanted to do already. Hell, she'd been married to the dude for 16 years so the whole kid thing was hardly news.
And, ya know how you know what was driving her actions? Easy. How many kids does she have now?
Boom
You don't know she is lying. One of couples from our group of friends basically told us that the wife refused to be friends with us after we all started having kids because her own husband refused to have children with her. She stopped speaking with her best friends that she had been friends with since before high school.
It was really sad and her husband just played it off as nothing. I can't imagine their home life is happy in that situation with such a fundamental difference.
I could see someone in that position, especially living in a place like San Fran doing something like this when they break.
This post was edited on 3/18/15 at 9:11 pm
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:10 pm to ShortyRob
A midlife crisis is a powerful thing. I've passed that age and fortunately am content with my life. My friends wife had one a few years ago and it wasn't pretty...she moved to New York and started banging dudes who had money (so she could afford to live there). She's still at it, fascinating to see someone just throw all pretense away and just become a whore because she's bored and not reaching the heights she expected growing up as a small town moron.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:10 pm to boosiebadazz
quote:
So how many of those dudes did she allow to knock her up?
And why even reference only sleeping with 4 partners, if childbirth is really what is the impetus?
She said in the article that if she wasn't going to have children and grandchildren surrounding her deathbed, she didn't want to die with regrets and wonders. She wanted to live it up. She did it for selfish reasons.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:13 pm to Bench McElroy
Pretty sure they are both shite bags.
I don't get it, just divorce.
I don't get it, just divorce.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:13 pm to boosiebadazz
I'd just like to point out that this is another example of the shite we're teaching in our society when it comes to boys and girls.
For women, everything is a "choice".
For men? Yeah. Right.
If a man said, "hey, I changed my mind after 15 years and told my wife I'd leave her if she didn't have my baby", he'd be BLASTED as trying to "force" her blah blah blah.
This bitch does it? "Empowerment".
It's everywhere. Women "Choose" to work. They can even "choose" not to after having agreed differently with hubby prior to having the baby. Then, they think that after doing so, it's "unfair" that upon return, the guy who was their peer now outranks her. Somehow, she believes she deserves BOTH!!
Meanwhile, if a man looks up at his wife after she has the baby and says, "hun, my paternal instincts just won't allow me to go back to work, I'm staying home". He's gonna be called lazy, mooch etc etc. Oh yeah yeah. I know. Mr. Mom is a WEE bit more common now, but he has to overcome some shite to do it.
The lack of typical SJW type outrage over this bitch is very telling.
For women, everything is a "choice".
For men? Yeah. Right.
If a man said, "hey, I changed my mind after 15 years and told my wife I'd leave her if she didn't have my baby", he'd be BLASTED as trying to "force" her blah blah blah.
This bitch does it? "Empowerment".
It's everywhere. Women "Choose" to work. They can even "choose" not to after having agreed differently with hubby prior to having the baby. Then, they think that after doing so, it's "unfair" that upon return, the guy who was their peer now outranks her. Somehow, she believes she deserves BOTH!!
Meanwhile, if a man looks up at his wife after she has the baby and says, "hun, my paternal instincts just won't allow me to go back to work, I'm staying home". He's gonna be called lazy, mooch etc etc. Oh yeah yeah. I know. Mr. Mom is a WEE bit more common now, but he has to overcome some shite to do it.
The lack of typical SJW type outrage over this bitch is very telling.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:15 pm to dagrippa
quote:Yes. It is. I understand that.
A midlife crisis is a powerful thing.
quote:But, if you'd gone this bitch's route and wrote a book about it, you'd be annihilated in the press.
I've passed that age and fortunately am content with my life
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:16 pm to ShortyRob
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We've completely divided our society into "rules for group A" and "rules for everyone else"
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:18 pm to ShortyRob
I agree that some of the SJW stuff is ridiculously overblown, but I don't see a problem in encouraging girls/women to strive for equality in things they can achieve.
I disagree with watering standards down for the military/law enforcement so we can have en equal umber of women, but I have no problem with encouraging women to become educated and think more of their lives that simply being a baby machine.
I disagree with watering standards down for the military/law enforcement so we can have en equal umber of women, but I have no problem with encouraging women to become educated and think more of their lives that simply being a baby machine.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:18 pm to Dam Guide
quote:Yes. I do.
You don't know she is lying.
She'd been married to him for more than 15 years. The baby shite was yesterday's news. She wanted to frick other men(she admits it in her video). The rest is rationalization on her part.
I mean, she had just enough social awareness to realize that it would be helpful to have a rational for up and leaving your husband of 15 years just so you could frick half the town.
People do get divorced over the kid thing sometimes. Generally speaking, that ends up with the one who wanted them HAVING KIDS!!!!
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:21 pm to ShortyRob
quote:This is truth. And this woman is a real piece of work. She's obviously still stuck in her childhood abuse scenarios that she's never resolved. Sad for her. Sadder for her husband.
If a guy wrote a book about how one day, when his wife told him they just weren't going to have children so, he said, "ok, I'll frick everyone I want for a year", the book would've never gotten published. And, if some idiot publisher DID publish the thing, it would be lambasted as misogynistic, sexist, blah blah blah blah bull shite.
The last line in the WAPO article linked on the OP is the real zinger; it says it all...
quote:Amen. She deserves to spend her last years alone. Irony, bitter irony would be or her to go to her deathbed (see linked OP article) not only childless, but also haunted by memories of her epic infidelity.
"...Maybe sometimes “empowerment” is just another word for self-absorption."
I hope she finally finds peace.
This post was edited on 3/18/15 at 9:25 pm
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:23 pm to boosiebadazz
quote:I 100% believe in equality for women.
but I don't see a problem in encouraging girls/women to strive for equality in things they can achieve.
They don't want equality. They want equality PLUS.
The first problem is thinking that where they were in 1950 was 100% bad. Nope. EVERYTHING has trade offs. Sure, many men were shite and treated their stay at home wives like shite. But, many weren't shits and treated them like saints.
Sure, not working for the most part has serious downsides. But, it isn't 100% downsides. And, HAVING to work isn't 100% upside.
Today, women want ALL of the upside of the "choice" to work, but, they'll be damned if they want to give up any prior advantages. Hence, women can talk openly among themselves about whether they will "choose" to work after having children but you walk into that SAME group of women and say, "hey, did you hear Joe quit his job because he's just decided he didn't like having to work" and watch the blasters come out.
That's how you end up with literally INSANE logic that says that an employer is somehow sexist when Joe and Jane work together and Jane goes home for 3 years only to return and Joe is higher up than she is despite "equal educations". I mean, women literally consider this to be something the government should solve!!!!
Posted on 3/18/15 at 9:56 pm to ShortyRob
quote:
Yes. I do. She'd been married to him for more than 15 years. The baby shite was yesterday's news. She wanted to frick other men(she admits it in her video). The rest is rationalization on her part. I mean, she had just enough social awareness to realize that it would be helpful to have a rational for up and leaving your husband of 15 years just so you could frick half the town. People do get divorced over the kid thing sometimes. Generally speaking, that ends up with the one who wanted them HAVING KIDS!!!!
lol, no you don't...
She decided not to have kids and fulfill this desire instead.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 10:05 pm to Bench McElroy
I'm sorry- did they not discuss the topic of children before getting married? Or did she think she could lock him down and change him?
Posted on 3/18/15 at 10:15 pm to PBnJ
fricking hippie slut, I hope she got herpes on her 1 year stint
Posted on 3/18/15 at 10:19 pm to Bench McElroy
...Well that was a really frustrating story.
If you're not in agreement about kids and whatnot, I could think of dozens of better things to do besides whatever bullshite she did.
If you're not in agreement about kids and whatnot, I could think of dozens of better things to do besides whatever bullshite she did.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 10:40 pm to PBnJ
quote:
I'm sorry- did they not discuss the topic of children before getting married? Or did she think she could lock him down and change him?
I used to be shocked at things like this, but I've come to realize there are far too many marriages out there that discuss nothing important beyond the glitz and glamour of the then and now, and to be honest, I have no idea wtf is so compelling that you absolutely have to get married without any further time to consider the rest of your life with that person, and then they go "oh wtf we have nothing really really important and emotional in common", and divorce sets in. I just cannot fricking understand any of this shite. So I give up, but yes, I understand that question.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 10:40 pm to Ignignot
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fricking hippie slut, I hope she got herpes on her 1 year stint
$20 says she had something before they were even married.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 10:42 pm to Bench McElroy
This is why, before you get married, you:
1 - make sure you're on the same page on big things like children. and
2 - make sure one of you doesn't have hidden whorish tendencies.
1 - make sure you're on the same page on big things like children. and
2 - make sure one of you doesn't have hidden whorish tendencies.
Posted on 3/18/15 at 10:55 pm to Methuselah
This also gets me thinking.....who in the hell would take this book into publishing? If I had to guess its a publishing company with strong LBGT ties, or maybe even extremely feminist.
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