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re: Wife’s Photo Album
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:23 pm to STLDawg
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:23 pm to STLDawg
The ex of my good buddy reconnected w/ her middle school boyfriend “randomly”…a year, she was pregnant w/ the other guy’s baby and my buddy divorced her.
I’d be checking texts and fb messages _ her cousin wouldn’t have invited him to the tailgate w/o your wife’s permission
I’d be checking texts and fb messages _ her cousin wouldn’t have invited him to the tailgate w/o your wife’s permission
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:24 pm to 850SaintsGator
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her cousin wouldn’t have invited him to the tailgate w/o your wife’s permission
yeppir
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:26 pm to STLDawg
Don’t chunk it, but definitely point it out and see if she sweats.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:30 pm to STLDawg
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We recently moved to a new house. I was unpacking a box and came across a binder I hadn’t seen before. It’s full of pics of my wife and a boyfriend of hers from high school. There’s even a mix CD and some handwritten notes.
I would be ok with this, but she made me throw away all the party cups girls made me for my fraternity parties in college. Also, she never told me that she kept this.
Should I throw it away? Could always blame it on being lost in the move.
You've been cucked bro. Serve the papers tomorrow.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:34 pm to STLDawg
By getting outraged, you're letting her know he's a threat. It will cause her to re-evaluate him and you may not come out on top because you're reality and he's plastered in ancient sentimentality. That's part of the reason he was screwing with you at the tailgate to set you off balance.
If you are going to approach this, you need to stay cool and calm. Make it a joke. But understand she may come up with 1000 bs reasons to keep the album and you have to make a decision. I would just toss it.
She can't admit she has it and you don't know what she's talking about if she asks. Life goes on and eventually she grows up and realizes she's better off.
If you are going to approach this, you need to stay cool and calm. Make it a joke. But understand she may come up with 1000 bs reasons to keep the album and you have to make a decision. I would just toss it.
She can't admit she has it and you don't know what she's talking about if she asks. Life goes on and eventually she grows up and realizes she's better off.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:37 pm to squid_hunt
frick it, get a bottle and smash a bunch of shots. Start burning it page by page on the grill. When she comes out and asks what is going on, start screaming’You count, You count’ over and over.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:39 pm to Pfft
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Start burning it page by page on the grill. When she comes out and asks what is going on, start screaming’You count, You count’ over and over.
Nice. Women are mercenaries. Going up against feminine imperative is 50/50 at best.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:42 pm to squid_hunt
Just toss the box without her knowledge and move on. Never admit to it. She can't accuse you of it without having to admit she kept it hidden from you, especially after she had you throw out ex girlfriend shite. You want equality bitch, you got it! 
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:47 pm to STLDawg
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There’s even a mix CD and some handwritten notes

Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:47 pm to STLDawg
People are, in general, weak. They will often disappoint you. I agree with the guy who said you can’t base your whole self-worth on your relationship.
What i think is the right thing to do is tell her you found it. No more, no less. See how she reacts. Use that as a data point to dispassionately evaluate if she is someone you can see spending the rest of your life and having kids with. Act accordingly. Now, is that what i *would* do? I hope but i don’t know.
What i think is the right thing to do is tell her you found it. No more, no less. See how she reacts. Use that as a data point to dispassionately evaluate if she is someone you can see spending the rest of your life and having kids with. Act accordingly. Now, is that what i *would* do? I hope but i don’t know.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:54 pm to STLDawg
Get some cool arse glitter pens and make you some new party cups from Haley <3 and Samantha ;) and drink everything from them. Didn’t know those cups ever survived their born on day to be honest.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:56 pm to STLDawg
During the Korean War, my dad was stationed at Schofield Barracks which is on Oahu, Hawaii. He had a box that was mostly pictures of he, and his buddies, posing with girls in grass skirts. Many of them were posed in front of the convertible three of them bought together. Columbia Pictures filmed From Here to Eternity while he was there. Some of his pics were of Sinatra, Burt Lancaster, Deborah Kerr, Donna Reed on the base, and out at nightclubs.
I used to love looking at those old B&W photos. I wish my mom hadn't thrown the whole box away. Either Roy did something that pissed her off, or she hated seeing my brothers and I looking at them. One day it was just gone.
I used to love looking at those old B&W photos. I wish my mom hadn't thrown the whole box away. Either Roy did something that pissed her off, or she hated seeing my brothers and I looking at them. One day it was just gone.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 2:58 pm to StringedInstruments
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It’s your weak frame that’s failing you. Your feelz are hurt, and because you’ve allowed your entire existence to become dependent on your wife’s validation of your value, you’ve come running to the OT to figure out how to fix your problems.
Want some advice for this situation? Shut the frick up. Don’t say a word about the binder. It doesn’t matter. Not regarding whatever dumbshit branch swinging whore-mindset your wife has. And not for your sensitive emotions that got rattled.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 3:02 pm to STLDawg
This is what you should do...start singing humming, whistling songs off of that mix CD, every day when you are around her. Gauge her reaction. You need to think outside the box on this one.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 3:04 pm to StringedInstruments
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It’s your weak frame that’s failing you. Your feelz are hurt, and because you’ve allowed your entire existence to become dependent on your wife’s validation of your value, you’ve come running to the OT to figure out how to fix your problems.
Used to b a blogger called Adam Piggott (Pushing Rubber Downhill) who would blabber on about frame all the time. He lived in Australia. His wife tricked him into moving to the Netherlands and then dumped him. He's now living in New Orleans. I'm sure you're much too alpha for that to happen to you and your frame, though.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 3:28 pm to StringedInstruments
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Want some advice for this situation? Shut the frick up. Don’t say a word about the binder. It doesn’t matter. Not regarding whatever dumbshit branch swinging whore-mindset your wife has. And not for your sensitive emotions that got rattled.
This is the worst advice given yet in this thread. Did you not read beyond the title? fricking moran.
Posted on 7/9/22 at 4:17 pm to StringedInstruments
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StringedInstruments
Yes, exactly.

Posted on 8/23/22 at 9:58 pm to STLDawg
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I was unpacking a box and came across a binder I hadn’t seen before. It’s full of pics of my wife and a boyfriend of hers from high school.
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We’ve been married about 4 years.
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It’s been 5 years since they were dating and we’ve been happily married now for 4 years.

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