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re: Wife’s Photo Album

Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:18 pm to
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
104296 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:18 pm to
My wife's high school sweetheart was killed in a motorcycle accident when they were both 16. She thought he was the guy she was going to marry.

It's tough competing against a ghost.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
70592 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:19 pm to
quote:

Should I throw it away?


Why throw it away at this point? It's already done its damage to you. Discarded or not, the resentment about this is going to bubble eventually.
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
17125 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:19 pm to
quote:

She made a clear point when she moved in that I had to get rid of things involving other women. It’s the hypocrisy that’s offending me.


I get it….It’s a no brainer. Point out the hypocrisy and see where it goes.
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
4427 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:21 pm to
quote:

It's tough competing against a ghost.


Not even a ghost for me. I actually met this guy when we were tailgating with her cousins in the Grove (better than I thought it would be). He was definitely disrespecting me.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14904 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:22 pm to
quote:

Did she ever make you throw away similar items like pics and letters?

Yeah he stated that earlier.

Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
4427 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:23 pm to
quote:

Maybe because you’re not in college anymore?


She’s not in high school either. I’m happy that you feel comfortable making another man’s bed shake.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80477 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:24 pm to
Congrats on being her second choice.
Posted by JayDeerTay84
Texas
Member since May 2013
9956 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:24 pm to
She belongs to the streets!
Posted by SCLibertarian
Conway, South Carolina
Member since Aug 2013
40898 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:27 pm to
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but she made me throw away all the party cups girls made me for my fraternity parties in college

This should have been a red flag
Posted by TigerTitleHunter
Red Stick
Member since Jan 2008
507 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:27 pm to
quote:

There’s a pic here and there of her other friends but it’s mostly pics of her and her main high school boyfriend


Well, I'm no marriage counselor but you probably should talk to her about it. Best case scenario is she's okay with getting rid of it (or forgot she even had it) and you both can move on. Hopefully she doesn't justify why it's "different" for her somehow but be prepared for that.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
10514 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:27 pm to
Notes should be tossed without hesitation. Who cares about the CD. Pictures of her close to or kissing the men should be tossed and all others should be kept for memories, after all, she did have a life before you.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
84439 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:28 pm to
quote:

He was definitely disrespecting me.


Give us some examples
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
113887 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:28 pm to
I bet her FB messenger would be unsettling...
Posted by holmesbr
Baton Rouge, La.
Member since Feb 2012
3890 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:36 pm to
Just pop that mix cd in player at dinner. Give some background music for the show.
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
4427 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:37 pm to
quote:

some examples


I had assumed his referring to me in “you married this guy?” was because I’m a State fan and the good natured rivalry ha-ha way. He also wanted to talk with her out of ear shot from me on the other side of the chicken tender table.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
11785 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:38 pm to
You should frick her mom.

Sounds like you both need a lesson in purging. Who the frick keeps cups that skanks made for them in college? When I left Iowa after college, I took my clothes—everything else was discarded.
Posted by BigWillyMetry
Member since Dec 2021
1548 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:39 pm to
If He’s disrespecting you its bc you have what he wants and he’s likely an insecure prick.

The guy who doesn’t give a AF about the wife’s ex is the winner.

With that said, If she is somehow still in contact with this dude, then that’s a whole other thread.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
84439 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:40 pm to
How much taller is he than you?
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
113887 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:40 pm to
Sounds like it's time to challenge him to fisticuffs
Posted by STLDawg
The Lou
Member since Apr 2015
4427 posts
Posted on 7/8/22 at 9:41 pm to
quote:

How much taller is he than you?


He was probably 6’1. I’m 5’11.5.
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