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re: Why would anyone have kids before their 30’s?

Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:16 pm to
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:16 pm to
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I don’t need kids to know a 20-22 year old is less mature than a 30-32 year old. I’m 31. I know what I was like at 21. I can assure you it’s the truth. Do you disagree? Arguing otherwise is idiotic. I’m not surprised, you seem like a grade A dullard. Although you might be the exception. You seem to be about as mature in your 40s as I was in my early 20s.
Wow, such a compelling argument from a retard. No fricking shite the maturity level is different, are you that stupid to think people don't know that? I'll be enjoying myself while you are still wiping arses and bringing kids to little league.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:18 pm to
At 21 I was a college senior and renting an apartment with 3 other guys

At 31 I use a steady career and make great money, own a home, and have plenty saved for retirement

There is no feasible argument that having kids at 21 makes more sense than 31. Yes, I’d have “gotten it done” but I can “get it done” much better now and actually provide for my kid immediately instead of scraping to get by
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59103 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:19 pm to
I think 30 is the perfect age

You get to enjoy being young, but you're also not the weird, old parents at the t ball game
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72011 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:20 pm to
I’m simply arguing against points you’ve angrily made. You told me to shut up because I don’t have kids when I said being more mature is ideal when raising kids

You are a box of rocks. No surprise you had kids at like 20 or whatever. That’s what stupid people do
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:20 pm to
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Are you really going to attempt to argue that 20 year olds are as mature as 30 year olds? I love the go to "you can't comment because you don't have kids". Forget kids, on average is a 20 year old as mature as a 30 year old?
What is this bullshite? Where did I ever say someone in there 30's isn't more mature than someone in their 20's? Go ahead, you can't.
Posted by Sweltering Chill
Member since Aug 2017
2150 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:20 pm to
I actually know more than one guy (not women) who have had/are planning to have their first children in their 50s and, in the case of one, guy i know- 60s... One thing that most (not all) of them have in common- $$.

Maybe the key here is, if planning to have children, we should all wait a while and then marry women 15 or 20 yrs younger than ourselves. :-) ... or in the case of people like myself, dont have them at all, then retire on the early side.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36442 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:20 pm to
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I'll be enjoying myself while you are still wiping arses and bringing kids to little league.

And do you not understand that some of us who waited were enjoying our 20's while you were wiping asses and bringing kids to little league?

You'll have your free time when you're in your 40's, we had ours in our 20's. 6 one way, half a dozen another
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72011 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:20 pm to
Go back and see where you responded to me

You are seriously off your rocker
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112626 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:21 pm to
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I’m 26 and the SO and I have agreed not to start having kids until 32/33. Going to fully enjoy all my time while I’m young to travel and knock things off the bucket list before all my money goes to raising kids.

I did it this way, having my kids(twins) at 32.



I prefer it that way but thinking on it now, if you're married and pretty stable, there's merit to having a kid at 22-25 as the thought of your kids being 18 and on their own when I would have been 40-43 or so...that's not bad either.
Posted by DemonKA3268
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Member since Oct 2015
21116 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:22 pm to
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I’m simply arguing against points you’ve angrily made. You told me to shut up because I don’t have kids when I said being more mature is ideal when raising kids You are a box of rocks. No surprise you had kids at like 20 or whatever. That’s what stupid people do
Aw, the little bitch boy thinks I'm mad. If you want a constant reminder of what stupid looks like, just look in any mirror. Got to love when retards think they're cute.
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72011 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:22 pm to
Watch out, the had kids way too young brigade are gonna pounce on you

Your kids are gonna be in high school when you’re in your 50s!!! The horror!
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
36442 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:22 pm to
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What is this bullshite? Where did I ever say someone in there 30's isn't more mature than someone in their 20's? Go ahead, you can't.

You refused to answer, insulted him, and told him to shut up when he stated that 30 year olds are more mature than 20 year olds
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72011 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:23 pm to
I know you’re stupid because you had multiple kids in your early 20s

it’s really that simple. Statistics show the poor and uneducated are the ones that do this. That’s you. You’re not a smart man.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59103 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:23 pm to
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Your kids are gonna be in high school when you’re in your 50s!!! The horror!
how could this be a bad thing? I don't get that at all
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72011 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:23 pm to
Glad someone else caught that
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
72011 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:24 pm to
Same bro, same
Posted by Nutriaitch
Montegut
Member since Apr 2008
10610 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:26 pm to
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No surprise you had kids at like 20 or whatever. That’s what stupid people do


really?
had my kids a 23 and 26.

i’ll be semi-retired, house paid off, and “empty nester” by 47ish.
with all the freedom and time in the world.
and i’ll have more money to enjoy it than i did in my early 20s.
by early 50s i’ll theoretically have grandkids AND the ability to spoil the shite out of them.


you may consider that stupid, but i think it worked itself out pretty good.

Posted by GOAT4LSU
Northshore
Member since Dec 2003
1184 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:27 pm to
Wouldn't you want to be active for your kids and grandkids?

i.e. 35 when you have kids... your children wait till 30 to have kids. You will be 75 when your first grandchild is 10.

Especially don't be like my dad. He had me when he was 53. He never go to see my kids.

ETA: 28-32 are the perfect ages IMO.
This post was edited on 5/3/19 at 12:29 pm
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
59103 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:27 pm to
If anyone wants to explain why being in your 50s and having kids in high school is a bad thing, please do
Posted by Sweltering Chill
Member since Aug 2017
2150 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:28 pm to
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Your kids are gonna be in high school when you’re in your 50s!!! The horror!

how could this be a bad thing? I don't get that at all



The people in here who feel like it’s a bad thing to have high school kids in your 50s, are the same people who typically become *grandparents* in their 40s... Seriously, that actually happens in the South , and more than you’d think.. it’s crazy, and they usually think it’s weird to *not* be a grandparent at 48 or something.. diff’rent strokes, thankfully.
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