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re: Why would anyone have kids before their 30’s?
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:28 pm to Nutriaitch
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:28 pm to Nutriaitch
quote:
really?
no, not really. I'm arguing with an idiot and just being a dick.
but statistics do show that the poor and uneducated tend to have more kids and at a younger age. It doesn't mean that's you (or Demon, again, I'm just being an a-hole right back at him)
This post was edited on 5/3/19 at 12:29 pm
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:28 pm to WaydownSouth
Because I'm gonna be an emptynester at 45 while you're still hauling kids all over town.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:28 pm to cas4t
quote:Lol, really? You don't know me and you "know" I'm stupid? Not poor, strike one. Not uneducated, strike two. What else you got? GTFO with you "I know" BS.
I know you’re stupid because you had multiple kids in your early 20s it’s really that simple. Statistics show the poor and uneducated are the ones that do this. That’s you. You’re not a smart man.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:29 pm to DemonKA3268
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Lol, really? You don't know me and you "know" I'm stupid? Not poor, strike one. Not uneducated, strike two. What else you got? GTFO with you "I know" BS.
you live in Alexandria?
This post was edited on 5/3/19 at 12:29 pm
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:29 pm to cas4t
quote:Talking to yourself again? Yeah, I would say you are definitely arguing with an idiot then.
no, not really. I'm arguing with an idiot and just being a dick.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:30 pm to cas4t
quote:Wow, what a catastrophe.
you live in Alexandria
Strike three, got any other pearls of wisdom?
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:32 pm to cas4t
quote:
I know you’re stupid because you had multiple kids in your early 20s
it’s really that simple. Statistics show the poor and uneducated are the ones that do this. That’s you. You’re not a smart man.
WTF dude? You’re being an arse for no reason by making a lot of assumptions.
My wife and I both have degrees and we had our kids in our early 20s after we were married. I’m not going to sit here and say I’m rich bitch, but I’m doing pretty well by most standards.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:33 pm to WaydownSouth
Just leave it in too long??
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:33 pm to DemonKA3268
Listen, I don't actually think having kids young means you're stupid. I also don't think you're stupid. I simply take issue with you digging your heels in the sand and seemingly demanding that having kids younger is THE best option, when clearly it always isn't for many people. And just "getting it done" is not the mentality I have. My dad raised me just fine, but having my brother so young hindered his ability to do a lot of other things. So I don't want to just "make it happen" as you said. I want to be as stable as I can be before having kids. I wasn't at that point in my 20s. I am now.
We get it; you had kids young, and you're happy about that. I personally chose not to do that for various reasons, and am still happy with mine. You will enjoy your 50s without raising kids and I enjoyed my 20s and a couple of years into my 30s.
It's all good, we are all different.
We get it; you had kids young, and you're happy about that. I personally chose not to do that for various reasons, and am still happy with mine. You will enjoy your 50s without raising kids and I enjoyed my 20s and a couple of years into my 30s.
It's all good, we are all different.
This post was edited on 5/3/19 at 12:35 pm
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:34 pm to WaydownSouth
I don’t understand why people are so judgmental of couples who don’t have kids. I see these 19 year old kids walking around the store with toddlers and they look absolutely miserable. I’m also pretty sure the younger you have kids the more likely you are going be impoverished. I’d say 30-35 is the best age.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:34 pm to 3nOut
quote:
WTF dude? You’re being an arse for no reason by making a lot of assumptions.
definitely was being an arse.
quote:
My wife and I both have degrees and we had our kids in our early 20s after we were married. I’m not going to sit here and say I’m rich bitch, but I’m doing pretty well by most standards.
i'm happy for you
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:38 pm to cas4t
quote:
i'm happy for you
5 posts ago you said I’m stupid for having done that.
doesn’t seem appropriate. Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:38 pm to DemonKA3268
quote:
Wow, what a catastrophe.
Strike three, got any other pearls of wisdom?
not strike 3. Alexandria is a horrid place. I would know. My grandmother lives in Vernon parish and my mom lived in Alexandria for 30 years.
anyways
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:38 pm to 3nOut
quote:
5 posts ago you said I’m stupid for having done that. doesn’t seem appropriate.
you'll live
listen, if you were financially and emotionally mature enough at 21 or whatever to have kids, then you're not stupid. For those that weren't/aren't, yes, it's stupid.
Take that however you wish.
This post was edited on 5/3/19 at 12:40 pm
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:39 pm to WaydownSouth
I’m almost 40. Nobody should get married till at least 25 preferably longer. No kids before 30. That would cut down on the divorce rate and single parent problems we see today.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:39 pm to cas4t
quote:Like you said earlier, we all have different circumstances, right? I honestly don't care when people have kids, that's their business. What I do know is that it worked for me. Of course it wasn't always easy but who says life is? I can say without a doubt that I am glad that I had mine younger. Does that make you wrong for having them later, absolutely not. I wish you well
Listen, I don't actually think having kids young means you're stupid. I also don't think you're stupid. I simply take issue with you digging your heels in the sand and seemingly demanding that having kids younger is THE best option, when clearly it always isn't for many people. And just "getting it done" is not the mentality I have. My dad raised me just fine, but having my brother so young hindered his ability to do a lot of other things. So I don't want to just "make it happen" as you said. I want to be as stable as I can be before having kids. I wasn't at that point in my 20s. I am now. We get it; you had kids young, and you're happy about that. I personally chose not to do that for various reasons, and am still happy with mine. You will enjoy your 50s without raising kids and I enjoyed my 20s and a couple of years into my 30s. It's all good, we are all different.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:39 pm to cas4t
quote:
you'll live
i just expect more from you. you're normally more level headed than calling somebody stupid. i mean that as a compliment.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:40 pm to MorbidTheClown
quote:
gotta have them when have energy to keep up with them
Maybe people can eat decently, and workout, and actually have energy?
People being broken down physically by age 40 is sad and almost always unnecessary.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:40 pm to 3nOut
quote:
i just expect more from you. you're normally more level headed than calling somebody stupid. i mean that as a compliment.
I edited
if you go back to the conversation I was having, it was quickly escalating.
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:41 pm to cas4t
quote:Lol, your opinion doesn't matter except for Vernon Parish, you are right about that. Armpit of Louisiana. Of course Alexandria isn't great but there are much worse out there.
not strike 3. Alexandria is a horrid place. I would know. My grandmother lives in Vernon parish and my mom lived in Alexandria for 30 years. anyways
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