re: Why is "slut shaming" suddenly frowned upon?

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Any decently attractive man with a hint of self confidence can get laid whenever.

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yea they can, by the sluts

Well that's some circular logic.

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bullchit. In a typical male-female relationship (where there is no slut shaming possible) - it's the woman that wants sex about 10% as much as the man

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I have always felt sorry for men who have to live this sad trope.

Variations of slut-shaming are big reasons this disparity exists. Some men actively seek out the women that either has a low sex drive or have repressed it due to societal pressures then bitch and moan because they only want sex 10% as much.

Men in general simply refuse to see that slut-shaming is an action against ineterest.

Nothing like fricking strippers

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You don’t have to hate on them, but fricking multiple men shows emotional baggage that most should want no part of.

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But not for men?

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Are you such an annoying bitch on every board or just the PT and OT?

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Another guy who can’t get laid.

Yea, people are moving the goalposts trying to sound woke

No guy i know dislikes sluts. Theyre just never going to meet the parents or have kids usually. And theres several reasons for that, all of which are known to most guys here unless you playing stupid

If i found out my mom or sister had banged 40-50 dudes in their lives id want to off myself lol So im certainly not entering a legal, lifetime arrangement likely producing children with someone whos been out there like that. No way in hell

Im just waiting for one single poster to drop in and admit his wife use to be a total whore before they met. Just one

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Where are these men who are doing this slut shaming? Maybe times have changed, but when I was young guys loved sluts, it was the other girls that criticized the promiscuous girls.

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Women and girls certainly do it also but you are naive and/or sheltered if you think boys/men don't add to the "reputation".

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Bullchit. In a typical male-female relationship (where there is no slut shaming possible) - it's the woman that wants sex about 10% as much as the man. Anyone who has been married can tell you that. This men and women are the same crap is a bunch of lies that have have been programmed into your mushy brain.

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I love it when problem expose how bad their lives are and think everyone’s is similar.

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Exactly what I thought when I read that post.

I love sex like any other guy but I never have the chance to initiate it because my woman is always doing it first.

I feel really sorry for couples who aren't in tune with each other enough to have great frequent and spontaneous sex. How awful it has to be to constantly be playing a game where you have to coax sex from your partner

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So you would be ok marrying a woman who has banged the entire New Orleans Saints football team because she felt like it and it's a double standard to find her gross?

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So would you be OK with marrying a woman who is OK with her husband having banged every slut at all the local bars?

Neither gender wants overly promiscuous partners, but we shame one gender and congratulate another