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re: Why is it that even when I win an argument with my wife I feel like I’ve lost?

Posted on 6/1/24 at 9:52 am to
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
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Posted on 6/1/24 at 9:52 am to
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Your wife doesn’t want to go alone because then her friends will think she has a bad marriage.
if they’re real friends of hers they talk often and I’ve already met them. Why the frick do I have to sacrifice instead of her? If one of us has to sacrifice it sure as shite won’t be me. Bunch of pussy whipped cucks in here.
Posted by bluedragon
Birmingham
Member since May 2020
7989 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 10:07 am to
The only one with a legit excuse is me. I graduated in Tokyo and my wife’s High School closed. We use a month to celebrate, between our birthday’s and go out to play golf and go to dinner.

Teach her to golf.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 6/1/24 at 10:42 am to
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If one of us has to sacrifice it sure as shite won’t be me.
Spoken like a teenager.
Posted by imjustafatkid
Alabama
Member since Dec 2011
58023 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:00 am to
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Got out of going to her high school reunion when I explained to her I’m not going to enjoy myself and I don’t know anyone who will be there, but it seems like it’s the calm before a storm. She hasn’t spoken to me in about 30 minutes and seems to be sulking and brooding

For those saying I should just suck it up and go, I would if I was just planning to sit at the house by myself, but instead I am choosing to golf with friends of mine from college I actually know and like.


Dude...this is a really bad look.
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
43337 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:03 am to
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I’m also missing out on golf. Why the frick can’t she have fun without me, I plan on having fun without her.

Better draw up divorce papers
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
34708 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:08 am to
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Bunch of pussy whipped cucks in here.


I think you meant so say “bunch of very loving husbands who value their wives and her needs and desires and as a result, said wife makes it her mission to keep him well pleased in the bedroom, well fed, tends to their home and kids and doesn’t bitch and complain when husband wants to play golf on the regular with his buddies.”

But you keep on with your “very loving marriage”

Fkn douchebag.
Posted by imjustafatkid
Alabama
Member since Dec 2011
58023 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:10 am to
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if they’re real friends of hers they talk often and I’ve already met them. Why the frick do I have to sacrifice instead of her? If one of us has to sacrifice it sure as shite won’t be me. Bunch of pussy whipped cucks in here.


You've got to be trolling. You're comparing a class reunion that happens maybe every year, at most, to a golf outing that can happen literally any day of the week.
This post was edited on 6/1/24 at 11:11 am
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:10 am to
OP was more succinct...


you were wordy ..just like a woman blah blah blah
Posted by iwyLSUiwy
I'm your huckleberry
Member since Apr 2008
38338 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:16 am to
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Got out of going to her high school reunion when I explained to her I’m not going to enjoy myself and I don’t know anyone who will be there, but it seems like it’s the calm before a storm. She hasn’t spoken to me in about 30 minutes and seems to be sulking and brooding



Lame. Just went t my 20 year last weekend and the wife went along even though she knew maybe one person. Even went to an after party with me to a persons house she had never met before the reunion. She drank and had fun and met a lot of my longtime friends.

Not trying to be mean but you come across as a pussy in this post. She understandably should be mad at you. Has she never went to anything with you even though she didn't want to go? I'm sure she has, yet you can't do the same. Marriages fail quite often because one side is never willing to give in to the other and support them even when they don't want to. Marriage is give and take. You can go golfing with your buddies anytime, she is only going to have a few reunions in her life.
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
34708 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:17 am to
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you were wordy ..just like a woman blah blah blah


Yeah well I’m in a bad mood today so I’m taking it out on this douche bag.
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
188879 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:19 am to
someone needs a good 2 minutes

hope the day improves don't let the frickers get ya down
Posted by tigernurse
Member since Dec 2005
34708 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:21 am to
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hope the day improves don't let the frickers get ya down


#metoo

Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49093 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:29 am to
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I’m also missing out on golf.


Was your golf game planned months in advance?

Why can't you do both, play golf in the early daytime and go to the reunion at night? Compromise.

You haven't won anything. You've hurt your wife. It's obviously special to her. Others will have their spouses/significant others with them because they cared enough to attend. You've made this all about you when it should be about her. There are a lot of "I's" in your posts. It's really a shame. I feel sorry for your wife.
Posted by supatigah
CEO of the Keith Hernandez Fan Club
Member since Mar 2004
88716 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:40 am to
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Old friend: so are you married? Single?

Wife: I’m married, he just couldnt come.

She then has to repeat some made up story 37 times through the night to protect her ego but each time she hates you a little bit more.


exactly

and she either has to keep bouncing around the room engaging new people or she has to find a party buddy to talk to and hang with so she is not just standing there alone all night
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17184 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:44 am to
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Was your golf game planned months in advance? Why can't you do both, play golf in the early daytime and go to the reunion at night? Compromise.
she told me 2 days ago about the reunion next weekend. The golf outing was planned a month ago. I never ask my wife to go anywhere with me she doesn’t want to. I don’t need emotional support from someone else to have a good time. I like going to the movies but she doesn’t like violent movies or sci fi movies so she doesn’t go with me I go alone. I don’t ask her to go with me hunting or fishing, in fact I’d prefer she didn’t. I don’t mind eating out by myself if she doesn’t want to. I really and truly do not need her to go anywhere with me. I love her because she isn’t (totally) bat shite crazy like every other woman I’d ever dated. We’ve been married 8 years 3 kids and have a very loving marriage. It’s funny to see all the salty people in this thread who don’t have that
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
29922 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:46 am to
Going to a movie or hunting alone has very little in common with going to a reunion alone where she’s going to be asked to explain your absence by everyone she speaks to.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17184 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:48 am to
She’s back to talking to me btw she said she understood and gave me a BJ and sex last night so she seemed to get over it
Posted by iwyLSUiwy
I'm your huckleberry
Member since Apr 2008
38338 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:48 am to
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In a few years when you get home and all her stuff is gone and there's a note on the refrigerator telling you that she's leaving you for another guy, I have a feeling you're going to be surprised.

Remember this post, because I'm telling you right now, you shouldn't be surprised.


For sure. This post tells you a lot. If he can't make a sacrifice for something that comes around once every 10-20 years, then he damn sure isn't making any sacrifice on the little things.

I'm sure they watch all the TV shows he wants, goes to the restaurants he wants to go to, when they bought "her new car" it was the one he thought they should go with.

Might not be this year or next, but she'll eventually be sick of his non supportive/uninvolved arse before long.
Posted by Czechessential
Member since Apr 2024
1437 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:49 am to
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It’s funny to see all the salty people in this thread who don’t have that


you just crawfishin' now baw
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17184 posts
Posted on 6/1/24 at 11:52 am to
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I'm sure they watch all the TV shows he wants, goes to the restaurants he wants to go to, when they bought "her new car" it was the one he thought they should go with.
actually I didn’t go with her when she bought her car, I didn’t even go with her when she bought my truck I let her pick because I DONT CARE. same with where we eat I never pick. I don’t care. We find shows we both like to watch on tv or we watch in different rooms. She doesn’t watch much tv anyway other than tlc shows and mostly just plays on tik tok Instagram or Facebook.
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