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re: Why do women make men do things they don't want to do
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:40 am to poncho villa
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:40 am to poncho villa
Ask Eve
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Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:40 am to poncho villa
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Why do women make men do things they don't want to do
I don't know if I know the exact answer to this but I'm pretty sure it's related to the same reason they close their eyes during sex. They just can't stand seeing a man having a good time
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:41 am to Duckhammer_77
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You must endure 3 hours of shite and like it so that you can go enjoy those things you like
I'm hosting a sleep over for eight 9 yr old girls this week, then dealing with three sets of family in four days. I wear a smile because my wife knows that come December 26th, I go to the woods and don't emerge until 2nd week of January...and she cannot stop it.
It sounds like she most certainly could stop it if she wanted though.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:41 am to poncho villa
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Is it a power trip?
of course.
worst thing you can do is give an inch...now she will try to get you to do other mundane things that suck
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:44 am to poncho villa
Tell her no.
Sorry, if she is unwilling to do things I find enjoyable, I am unwilling to do things she finds enjoyable.
If she is stable, she won't have a problem with this.
Sorry, if she is unwilling to do things I find enjoyable, I am unwilling to do things she finds enjoyable.
If she is stable, she won't have a problem with this.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:44 am to RogerTheShrubber
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Yep, some dudes are just doormats. They'll sell their soul to get laid one time.
They talk a big game about women being loose yet they cant tell a whore to go kick rocks when shes throwing that nasty coochie there way.
Its hilarious to me. Banging broke broads in it for attention instead of handling up on a chick that makes North of 100K and hasnt fricked half a small industrial city.
Ill never understand these types of men but I see them often and I think I know the reason but thats neither here nor there.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:45 am to UtahCajun
Because pussy remains undefeated.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:45 am to poncho villa
Because women are a man's weakness
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:45 am to poncho villa
This reminds me of a great quote I found a few years ago
And they get salty over the opposite as well, when confronted with their partner not enjoying a situation they enjoy a great deal.
It's an insecurity thing. Most stuff like this about modern women is insecurity. And contrary to their belief, the insecurity comes from other women projecting their insecurity in a pathological way.
The flip side is men having emotional pathologies that create all sorts of negative externalities in society. We're not perfect, either.
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Women get unreasonably salty when confronted with a situation they can't fit in.
And they get salty over the opposite as well, when confronted with their partner not enjoying a situation they enjoy a great deal.
It's an insecurity thing. Most stuff like this about modern women is insecurity. And contrary to their belief, the insecurity comes from other women projecting their insecurity in a pathological way.
The flip side is men having emotional pathologies that create all sorts of negative externalities in society. We're not perfect, either.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:48 am to poncho villa
I was honest early on in my relationship with the ex, and said no, regularly. Our therapist after dating (I know, red flag) a year or so told her to stop asking me to go to useless shite after I said no. Then I spent a marriage going to the beach (I hate sand), blowing money that could have taken the family to Europe on 30A because it was her sister's family, my kids would love it, blah blah.
But I got the ultimate (so far) revenge. Son said the happiest time in his life was our trip to France and Spain. Didn't mention 30A or the beach, at all.
I agree with most of the other stuff in the thread, I'm just admitting how we get roped into this shite, especially once kids are involved.
But I got the ultimate (so far) revenge. Son said the happiest time in his life was our trip to France and Spain. Didn't mention 30A or the beach, at all.
I agree with most of the other stuff in the thread, I'm just admitting how we get roped into this shite, especially once kids are involved.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:48 am to Jcorye1
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Sometimes women want to be told to shut the frick up.
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I love my fiance, glad we are getting married
Good luck!
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:49 am to poncho villa
When getting married a woman takes a vow to take her man for better or worse. Six months later she's trying to change everything about him that she doesn't like about him.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:49 am to WhiskeyThrottle
I think you acknowledge her concern , hold your ground politely if you are correct but always affirm her feelings and your commitment to her . She doesn’t truly care if you enjoyed the Nutcracker where her gay nephew pranced around on stage, but she does want to know she was heard and that you are committed to her.
Something like:
Well baby, I disagree and here is why————-but I totally understand why you feel that way and I will remember that next time because I love you so much and want you to be happy.
( FTR , I don’t say this because I’ve spent a life doing this we’ll, but I’m learning)
Something like:
Well baby, I disagree and here is why————-but I totally understand why you feel that way and I will remember that next time because I love you so much and want you to be happy.
( FTR , I don’t say this because I’ve spent a life doing this we’ll, but I’m learning)
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:49 am to SlowFlowPro
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And they get salty over the opposite as well, when confronted with their partner not enjoying a situation they enjoy a great deal.
It's an insecurity thing. Most stuff like this about modern women is insecurity. And contrary to their belief, the insecurity comes from other women projecting their insecurity in a pathological way.
The flip side is men having emotional pathologies that create all sorts of negative externalities in society. We're not perfect, either
Well said.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:49 am to poncho villa
Yeah, you know better! Just lie and say ya had a headache. Your fault
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:50 am to Joshjrn
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Probably, but not because you didn’t enjoy it. In those moments, is it more important for you to voice your displeasure even if it hurts her? Was there a way you could have responded that was both true and less blunt?
Participating in activities with women is a form of intimacy in their genes. Most men don't understand this and see it from their individualistic/selfish perspective.
The problem is that without understanding why this happens, the guy can't effectively communicate with his partner to discuss these things clearly. Guys just bury it inside and get all emotional and bitch in the comfort of other guys (like this message board), while ironically claiming women are the ones always acting emotional and bitching/complaining.
This is part of the emotional pathology I referenced in my post above. It nerfs effective partner communication which destroys both the two-way street of understanding in the relationship and building boundaries for both. What happens is this builds like a snowball rolling downhill and THEN guys just blow up about it and it leads to arguments and is inefficient in resolving the problem.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:53 am to Homesick Tiger
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Six months later she's trying to change everything about him that she doesn't like about him.
Some advice I learned on here years ago (and I'm butchering the exact wording but you'll get the gist).
Women always think they can mold/develop their husband.
Men always expect their wife to remain the same as when they first met.
Our expectations of change long-term are complete opposites and it leads to a lot of conflict down the road.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:56 am to SlowFlowPro
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Guys just bury it inside and get all emotional and bitch in the comfort of other guys (like this message board)
A lot of people would do well to remember this.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:56 am to White Bear
Yeah I get it. I’ve spent a lifetime banging my head against a wall like you too. 30 years of it in fact. I’m giving that up.
I think you are looking at it the wrong way; your goal is to exert your will when maybe you could spend that energy mastering female psychology. You get your way both times if you are masculine and strong, but the latter is a win- win with far less conflict where your woman feels secure. If she’s not secure, even if you don’t know it, you are in the process of losing her.
I think you are looking at it the wrong way; your goal is to exert your will when maybe you could spend that energy mastering female psychology. You get your way both times if you are masculine and strong, but the latter is a win- win with far less conflict where your woman feels secure. If she’s not secure, even if you don’t know it, you are in the process of losing her.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:57 am to poncho villa
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Why do women make men do things they don't want to do
Bc they can. They got that wet hole we need, and they know it.
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