Why do women get so overwhelmed at work?

I know plenty of baws including myself who work outside in the extreme heat, often times for long grueling hours, and mostly take it in stride with minimal complaining

My wife is a teacher of small children. She works in a climate controlled environment and goes home in the early afternoon. Mostly she does basic paperwork, works with the kids, and watches the same 4 videos on Tik Tok over and over again.

Every day after work she is stressed out and ready to fricking explode. Why is it that women are so terrible at stress management and refuse to make simple adjustments to control what they can control?