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re: When did you let your daughter start going on dates?
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:44 am to tiggerthetooth
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:44 am to tiggerthetooth
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What makes you think its "innocent"?
Holy shite, you're just sick in the head. Got it.
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Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:48 am to tiggerthetooth
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No reason to send 2nd graders on dates. Should boy/girl relationships be prevalent at that age?
Children should start learning how to be adults from a young age. You raise your son to be a man and your daughter to be a lady.
This encompasses many, many aspects of life. So even from a young age your son should be holding doors for women, learning to charm, learning how to treat them.
Just as your daughter should be learning how to appreciate these acts and act graciously. “More flies with honey than vinegar” I tell mine. You establish the norms of behaviour. They are learning from you, in what they see.
Now there is ZERO reason for any sexualization, but the social interaction is essential to raising well asjusted kids.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:51 am to tiggerthetooth
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What makes you think its "innocent"?
What makes you think it's not?
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Nice. I take a different perspective than you and somehow by your own logic that means I have a whore daughter.
You have a different perspective than the mom chaperoning the "date" in the OP and declared that the little girl was destined to be a whore.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:54 am to Tyga Woods
would you let your daughter date a cripple ?
not a wounded vet, but someone with fricked up DNA?
asking for a friend, who I really have, even if you dont believe me
not a wounded vet, but someone with fricked up DNA?
asking for a friend, who I really have, even if you dont believe me
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:55 am to OWLFAN86
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would you let your daughter date a cripple ?
Best part about the Doublewide? Stairs at every entrance
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:56 am to fr33manator
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Best part about the Doublewide? Stairs at every entrance
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:57 am to Tyga Woods
Depends on how old the guy is.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 11:58 am to Tyga Woods
Most kids in my day didn’t stop thinking girls had cooties until 5-6th grade when the hormones kicked in.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:10 pm to Tyga Woods
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:14 pm to The Pirate King
Middle school= group dates. Nothing more. (Allowed at least, obviously she is going to go lie sometimes and pull fast ones) love your daughters and be a good example of what she should look for in a boyfriend. That’s the only hope you really have. If she’s low hanging fruit you will know because she will attract all the trash dick dipshits
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:17 pm to Tyga Woods
her senior prom was her first date. she was home by 11pm.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:17 pm to Pectus
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Pectus
at you giving dating advice. 
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:21 pm to BatonrougeCajun
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If she’s low hanging fruit you will know because she will attract all the trash dick dipshits
This
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:25 pm to fr33manator
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Children should start learning how to be adults from a young age. You raise your son to be a man and your daughter to be a lady.
At age 7?! Teaching your child how to date at 7/8 years old will be completely different at 13/14.
Why not focus teaching the 7/8 year old general proper behavior? How do you leap to one on one dating?
7/8 year olds dont even know how to act right among adults yet, but hey lets get the dating scene going so mommy can post cute pics on Facebook for her moms club.
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This encompasses many, many aspects of life. So even from a young age your son should be holding doors for women, learning to charm, learning how to treat them.
Your son should hold doors open for anyone in need, not just women, have they learned that yet or is it just women that hes told to respect and adore?
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Just as your daughter should be learning how to appreciate these acts and act graciously. “More flies with honey than vinegar” I tell mine. You establish the norms of behaviour. They are learning from you, in what they see.
My daughter will learn to be a good human and treat all others with respect. Until she learns general social skills from person to person interaction I think ill leave the non-sexual complexities of dating out of the equation.
She doesnt even know algebra yet.
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Now there is ZERO reason for any sexualization, but the social interaction is essential to raising well asjusted kids.
One on one dating between BOY and GIRL. Why is the mom sitting behind them? These 2 need their privacy? Lol what they might kiss?
A million other skills kids need to know and could know, and million other hobbies they could adapt to develop yet dating is the one ZEROED in on? I fail to see how it's a good thing.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:28 pm to tgrbaitn08
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My daughter won’t be going on any “dates” until she’s 17
That’s too strict. She’s going to rebel.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:30 pm to JohnnyKilroy
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What makes you think it's not?
Because as I stated young children are impressionable and there are a million other positive and useful skills they can learn without setting a bad precedent. Are dating skills useful at 7 years old?
Know a lot of good women that started dating at 7 years old?
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You have a different perspective than the mom chaperoning the "date" in the OP and declared that the little girl was destined to be a whore.
Never said she was destined to be a whore but what skills is the daughter supposed to take away from a one on one private date at 7 years old? And why couldnt she get those skills in another way?
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:36 pm to tiggerthetooth
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Never said she was destined to be a whore but what skills is the daughter supposed to take away from a one on one private date at 7 years old? And why couldnt she get those skills in another way?
But that's not what happened. Try to keep up.
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:38 pm to tiggerthetooth
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At age 7?! Teaching your child how to date at 7/8 years old will be completely different at 13/14.
You are being obtuse. Not “dating”...but definitely start teaching them how to interact with people and the opposite sex. Was at a kids party yesterday and the kids were play fighting with some foam mat things. Little girl kept hitting my son with hers, and after about 5 times he whopped her back and she started crying.
Had to explain to him the dynamics of the situation.
Life gives us so many opportunities to mold our children, and if we don’t do it, the world and the media will. So yes, there are aspects of interaction with the opposite sex that kids should learn from a young age.
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Your son should hold doors open for anyone in need, not just women, have they learned that yet or is it just women that hes told to respect and adore?
“Oh, look at me, i’m Tiggertooth and i’m Going to misrepresent everything you say”.
Of course he knows to hold doors and help out the elderly especially too. But once again there are dynamics of social mores in play.
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One on one dating between BOY and GIRL. Why is the mom sitting behind them? These 2 need their privacy? Lol what they might kiss? A million other skills kids need to know and could know, and million other hobbies they could adapt to develop yet dating is the one ZEROED in on? I fail to see how it's a good thing.
You are writing all sorts of things I didn’t say anything about into your own commentary. What is your major malfunction? Just because I didn’t mention other things doesn’t mean i’m excluding them.
Take a chill pill. Merry Christmas
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:38 pm to Tyga Woods
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Ok, Derrick
okay...but don't be mad at the second grade boys who sexualize your daughter in a few years. don't be the guy who says...'i'll kill any boy who grabs my daughter's...' while you ogle some other man's daughter yourself.
quite a double standard you have for the sexuality of your daughter...not the same standard you hold for yourself
Posted on 12/16/18 at 12:40 pm to tgrbaitn08
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Now, she allowed to meet her friends that are boys at dances and sock hops, but she’s not dating anyone. FTR, she’s 11
She's probably dating someone right now and you don't even know about it
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