re: What’s Your Niche In Life?

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control issues

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Nooooo

But thinking about it, what I listed, not sure of that is my niche.

I can read people well. Of course I am not always spot on, but it is something I have been able to do since a kid and part of it is contributed to how people respond when I meet them/they meet me for the first time.

The whole "wheelchair" thing helps me pick up on someone pretty quick. Let's say me and a friend/associate goes to an event in which we are introduced to/meet a lot of people. More times than not, a person doesn't act any different, but there are times when a person will. I can pick up on it right away. Instead of talking to me and the person I am with, they will look directly at that person and have an AB conversation. Sometimes a person will ask a question that is intended for me, to the person I am with.

When that happens, I have a habit of aggressively get in front of the person I am with and give that person a very direct answer as if to say "no one speaks for me, ask me questions about me".

If I am part of a group and someone is introduced to us, if that person instantly treats me different than anyone else, they are usually the full of shite type. They are not original. They adapt to the people they are around and act how they THINK they are suppose to act. And when I say "different", I mean they sort of talk in a patronizing way towards me. They will talk in a more casual way to others then when talking to me, it's in a patronizing way.

I can go on, but besides that I am good at fishing for information and connecting the dots using information that doesn't really seem relevant. Anything from what people wear to how they address whatever topic is being discussed, etc.

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I bet you find yourself in many weird situations dont you

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i used to be insanely interesting for an entirely boring person

I have the ability to fix processes that other leaders have screwed up and turn under performing teams into efficient ones

I can wreck shite on Jeopardy!.

I've gotten two auditions, but they just don't like me for some reason, I guess.

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SJS101

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Very interesting. I assume you do this for a living?

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I've gotten two auditions, but they just don't like me for some reason, I guess.

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I retain useless knowledge as well.

Diplomacy with others. I can usually level with anyone about anything

Also, I have a gift when it comes to message board posting.

Meandering through life, figuring things out as I go. It's amazing

Being too organized or knowing for sure what's going to happen makes me a bit uneasy. I thrive on dealing with the unexpected

I'm also really good at talking to strangers, getting them to drop their guard. Reading people is easy