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re: What's the worst divorce horror story that you've witnessed ?

Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:20 pm to
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:20 pm to
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nope, the guy gets screwed in divorce court 110% of the time


I don’t disagree that guys get fricked, but I want to see some back up for why he had to replenish her trustfund that she spent exclusively on herself AFTER they were separated.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:30 pm to
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@ 10 years ago I had a married friend w/4 young kids go though the ringer. His smoking hot nurse wife goes to Florida for a girl's long weekend. She meets a guy and "falls in love." Comes back and tells husband she's leaving him for this guy. He begs her to reconsider. She says no, she needs to be free and take care of herself then gets bellybutton piercing and tramp stamp. BTW sleezy guy has a 60 ft Hatteras and a plane, tells her to leave husband and come back to Florida because she's the one.
They get separated and start divorce proceedings. My buddy has just started a new business and borrowed a ton to do that, they had moved into a new house prior to separation, and it had ZERO equity. She doesn't want custody because boyfriend isn't interested in being a dad. She goes back to Florida.

2 months later, at the end of the summer, the boyfriend dumps her.

She comes crawling back, begging for forgiveness. He says F you. She says ok I'm suing you for alimony and half of business. Since all they had was debt, she ends up with nothing and paying child support.

10 years later, he's remarried, business is through the roof, now has 6 kids and his ex has little to no interaction with her kids. I think she moved to Houston and is still single.


You're doing this thread wrong. That sounds glorious sans the 6 kids
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:31 pm to
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Explain how you had to reimburse your wife for her inheritance she spent on herself while you were not living together?

No details left out. I don’t know the specifics but I thought it was pretty fricked up but apparently something about separate property reimbursement and La’s fricked up laws. And I’ve run this through three lawyers, two of them are a couple of the best in the state and host family law CLEs. If anyone wants to file an appeal they can have whatever they recover.
This post was edited on 7/10/23 at 3:32 pm
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:38 pm to
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I want to see some back up for why he had to replenish her trustfund that she spent exclusively on herself AFTER they were separated.



the judge is the weak link and family court is the minor leagues of the judicial system, I would venture to guess that a lot of times the judge never even makes a decision, just relies on what the clerk has written up, think there's any room for influencing there?
Posted by kennypowers
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Member since Mar 2009
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 3:47 pm to
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The married friend used to go jogging at a local high school track. She noticed another jogger (former NFL player) jogging too. Over time they struck up a conversation, then more conversation, and it led to an affair. They decided to tell their spouses and ask for a divorce. She did. He didn't. He ghosted her instead.


I knew a guy once that would go jogging at night to get in better shape. Turns out he was jogging his arse around the block and laying up with some other woman. The (ex)wife was a knockout and a really nice person to boot. He, on the other hand, is/was/and always will be a shite hook.
Posted by billjamin
Houston
Member since Jun 2019
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 4:22 pm to
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I don’t disagree that guys get fricked, but I want to see some back up for why he had to replenish her trustfund that she spent exclusively on herself AFTER they were separated.

Not just separated, we had a judge signed off divorce. Then they said nah you aren't divorced.

IDK the legal rationale behind it. Maybe a family lawyer who has experience in the people's banana republic of Louisiana and kangaroo courts can give some more insight. I fought it hard.
This post was edited on 7/10/23 at 4:23 pm
Posted by EZE Tiger Fan
Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 7/10/23 at 4:40 pm to
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Not just separated, we had a judge signed off divorce. Then they said nah you aren't divorced.

IDK the legal rationale behind it. Maybe a family lawyer who has experience in the people's banana republic of Louisiana and kangaroo courts can give some more insight. I fought it hard.


Dealing with a similar deal here as well. We were separated, and she purposely spent everything despite already having signed legal documents. I wanted to fight it, but my lawyer straight up told me "if you were a woman, they would give this to you. Since you are not, save the money and time you would spend with me and just write it off an move on. Courts LOVE to frick the husband, especially if you are someone that is a good father and easily accessible".

Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
40237 posts
Posted on 7/10/23 at 4:53 pm to
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Dealing with a similar deal here as well. We were separated, and she purposely spent everything despite already having signed legal documents.


But by “spent everything” are you talking about money she inherited from her family?
Posted by Sweep Da Leg
Member since Sep 2013
2215 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 10:43 am to
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happened in the 90s, but was quite the gossip amongst coworkers then.


Where did this happen? Nola? I still don’t believe you but in case I might want to believe you tell me more details
Posted by Ben Hur
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2013
991 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 1:30 pm to
Original post said Nola, city park.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61275 posts
Posted on 7/11/23 at 1:37 pm to
For those of you who have had multiple divorces, did you all have a long dating period before you got married? Did you look around and think about how their mom and dad are, how he/she was raised, what the family seems like, think at all about how this person you are with might be 10 years down the road with a few kids and life getting stressful?

Just curious. Not blaming or shaming. None of that in any way is a sure fire way to weed out a bad partner.
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
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Posted on 7/11/23 at 2:51 pm to
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This post was edited on 7/11/23 at 2:52 pm
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
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Posted on 7/11/23 at 2:54 pm to
Posted by LSUDad
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Posted on 7/11/23 at 3:49 pm to
A buddy of mine divorced his wife, then the worst thing happened, she returned and he remarried her.
Posted by Sweep Da Leg
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 7/14/23 at 9:23 am to
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