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What’s the end goal for parents who put their kids into competitive dance?

Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:03 pm
Posted by Tiger1242
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:03 pm
I know I’ll get a lot of funny comments here but I’m actually curious. I’m talking about young kids like 10yr olds and younger

People who push their young kids into athletics or theatre, music, they’re clearly thinking their kid is going to become some kind of pro or get a scholarship. What’s the goal of competitive dance? Can you do that professionally? In college? What’s the end goal here?
Posted by thefodgather
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:04 pm to
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What’s the end goal here?


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Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:04 pm to
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People who push their young kids into athletics or theatre, music, they’re clearly thinking their kid is going to become some kind of pro or get a scholarship.
meh. you have to push your kid for them to have a chance at varsity in some sports now
Posted by BigBinBR
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:04 pm to
How can mom relive her younger life, before she had a husband and kids, if she can’t have her daughter in dance???
Posted by WDE24
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:05 pm to
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People who push their young kids into athletics or theatre, music, they’re clearly thinking their kid is going to become some kind of pro or get a scholarship
There are plenty of benefits to these activities besides the extraordinary low chance of a scholarship or impossibly low chance of turning pro.
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:06 pm to
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How can mom relive her younger life, before she had a husband and kids, if she can’t have her daughter in dance???

No doubt, but if you asked that mom, what would she say is the reason?
Posted by Kafka
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:06 pm to
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People who push their young kids into athletics or theatre, music, they’re clearly thinking their kid is going to become some kind of pro or get a scholarship.
do fathers push their sons to play sports b/c they're thinking of a college scholarship 10 years in the future?

As for theatre, go watch the movie Gypsy & get back to me
Posted by James11111
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:07 pm to
Its healthy for kids to have extracurricular activities that involve physical activity; instead of playing video games.
Posted by LouisianimaI
Member since Dec 2023
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:08 pm to
Scholarships for dance, Jr. Miss, Miss Louisiana, Golden Girl, dance teacher with studio later in life, not pregnant at 16, no tats at 16, not a cum dumpster at 16, etc. It has its advantages.
Posted by Kafka
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:09 pm to
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There are plenty of benefits to these activities
piano, like chess & crossword puzzles, supposedly increases thinking skills (b/c of the patterns: black & white, checkerboard)
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
31927 posts
Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:09 pm to
Jesus guys I’m not arguing against extra curricular activities like sports or music I know the benefits are amazing for kids my kids play sports and take music lessons.

I’m asking specifically about people who put their young children into highly competitive dance competitions
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:09 pm to
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What’s the end goal for parents who put their kids into competitive dance?


I'll say this. Our experience has been that our kids have been around others with like-minded interests. They've picked up teamwork, responsibility, accountability, dedication, and understand what commitment means.

Could they have gotten this from a recreational dance team? Possibly, but generally speaking, the commitment isn't always the same.

It's very expensive, and as a father, it is my end goal that my girls never dance professionally.

Edited to add. I do believe that if you start your daughter(s) too early, it can potentially be a money ploy by the dance company. Yes, there is a chance they could develop better technique earlier, but unless you see a real commitment from your daughter(s), I'd be cautious about that. If you see her twirling around the house when no one is watching, her practicing by herself, etc., she may have a very strong interest in dancing, and you can proceed accordingly.
This post was edited on 1/8/24 at 9:13 pm
Posted by Big Scrub TX
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:11 pm to
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I’m asking specifically about people who put their young children into highly competitive dance competitions
Are you distinguishing these somehow from highly competitive, say, football?
Posted by Pax Regis
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:12 pm to
Onlyfans baw. That’s where the big money is
Posted by Hold That Tiger 10
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:12 pm to
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What’s the goal of competitive dance? Can you do that professionally? In college? What’s the end goal here?


Putting kids in something competitive:

1 - gives them something to do
2 - gets them exercising
3 - allows them to socialize
4 - teaches them that in life there is winning and losing

It also helps them not end up as a loser, like you seem to be. The people usually complaining about kids being active and competitive are just jealous because they wish they could be, but suck.
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54137 posts
Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:12 pm to
It’s a similar concept. They engage in an activity they enjoy while learning life lessons related to hard work, learning and growing from failure, the value of success, working with people you both like and don’t like to accomplish a goal, the value of time management and sacrifice… I could go on and on


Of course there are also less desirable aspects just like with competitive youth sports
Posted by GreenRockTiger
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Member since Jun 2020
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:14 pm to
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get a scholarship
there are plenty of those for dance - the Golden Girls at LSU have scholarships
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Can you do that professionally?
have you ever heard of Broadway? A woman is not becoming a Saintsation or Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader without years of dance or competitive dance.

I told my 8 year old that once she gets her black belt in taekwondo (which will be in October), she can try out for the dance team because she asked me if she could. She may not make it.

It’s no different than the baseball team my nephew is on.
Posted by Tdogg78
Member since Aug 2018
146 posts
Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:14 pm to
Strippers make good money.

Not every father is trying to keep his daughters off the pole.


Someone has to pay for their bologna in their old age.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:14 pm to
Sororities always need someone to dance in their Rush videos
Posted by KiwiHead
Auckland, NZ
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 1/8/24 at 9:16 pm to
Attempts to really piss Dad off with the 1500.00 +/ mo. bills this time of year between competition fees, hotel rooms, tuition and other associated expenses.
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