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Posted on 3/23/17 at 9:57 am to BayouNation
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Tell the groom.
this.... i would absolutely tell one of my friends if i knew their fiance' cheated. and i would expect them to do the same.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 9:57 am to MorbidTheClown
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then, the marriage would likely end soon anyway.
Why? Are people not capable of working issues out?
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Every time she's working late or out with the girls or has to go out of town you'd be wondering.
Some people feel that way even with a spouse that hasn't cheated.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 9:57 am to LNCHBOX
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So it's not "no question?" That's enough of an answer.
....what?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 9:57 am to Ross
You need to man up and tell him. Only once he has the information can chose what to do.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 9:59 am to LNCHBOX
But does the same apply if you find out before actually getting married? Is cheating (however one defines it) while engaged or dating a 100% deal breaker? I think so regardless of circumstances.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 9:59 am to Salmon
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....what?
You've gone from no question ending it to needing variables. Do I need to draw you a diagram?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:00 am to Displaced
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But does the same apply if you find out before actually getting married?
It would depend. It's not a "no question" for me.
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Is cheating (however one defines it) while engaged or dating a 100% deal breaker? I think so regardless of circumstances.
Clearly I disagree. Not saying cheating is OK, but it would absolutely depend on the situation.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:00 am to LNCHBOX
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You've gone from no question ending it to needing variables.
You keep changing the question
I never stated the I would it end it "no question" on just simply cheating
I said that in response to the scenario presented in the OP
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Do I need to draw you a diagram?
it might be helpful
This post was edited on 3/23/17 at 10:02 am
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:01 am to Ross
Women are completely devoid of loyalty.
Was it with a male stripper or some random dude?
Was it with a male stripper or some random dude?
This post was edited on 3/23/17 at 10:03 am
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:01 am to LNCHBOX
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Clearly I disagree. Not saying cheating is OK, but it would absolutely depend on the situation.
I suppose that's fine, but what situation would make it ok/forgivable in your mind?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:01 am to Displaced
i remember in highschool we were out at a club and this one chick blew 3 guys in the parking lot. an hour later one of not so close friends was making out with her. we didn't tell him until the following monday.... man was his pissed... 
This post was edited on 3/23/17 at 10:03 am
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:02 am to Displaced
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I suppose that's fine, but what situation would make it ok/forgivable in your mind?
Don't know. I wasn't faced with it.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:04 am to MorbidTheClown
gross
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:04 am to LNCHBOX
We are in a thread of hypotheticals... You aren't even willing to make up a situation to support your position?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:06 am to Ross
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gross
yeah.. we probably should have told him..
he stopped talking to us.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:06 am to Ross
I hate these threads, there is never an after story
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:07 am to Displaced
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We are in a thread of hypotheticals... You aren't even willing to make up a situation to support your position?
There's not even really a way to answer that. My position is that I would not automatically end my relationship due to cheating without considering the circumstances. I don't know what I'd be OK with because I haven't had it happen to me. By just by being willing to consider the details, I don't see how I'm not supporting my "argument."
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:08 am to Ross
Is it a one time thing that you know would not happen if it wasn't at a bachelorette party? If so, let her deal with it. She has to live with it so maybe stay out of it and just never admit you knew. White lies never hurt anyone.
If she is a serial cheater and they are about to get hitched and he has no clue. Then tell him, but make sure you can prove that shite. It's not what you know, its what you can prove.
If she is a serial cheater and they are about to get hitched and he has no clue. Then tell him, but make sure you can prove that shite. It's not what you know, its what you can prove.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:09 am to LNCHBOX
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I don't know what I'd be OK with because I haven't had it happen to me.
what if she blew the male stripper then came home and kissed you? would that be ok?
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