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re: What would you do?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:09 am to LNCHBOX
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:09 am to LNCHBOX
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My position is that I would not automatically end my relationship due to cheating without considering the circumstances.
It's not really a stretch to ask you what circumstances would make it ok. Your unwillingness to answer makes me think you don't even believe yourself.
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Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:10 am to LNCHBOX
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There's not even really a way to answer that. My position is that I would not automatically end my relationship due to cheating without considering the circumstances. I don't know what I'd be OK with because I haven't had it happen to me. By just by being willing to consider the details, I don't see how I'm not supporting my "argument."
so the scenario in the OP
you find out your bride to be had sex with some random during her bachelorette party
what do you do?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:10 am to OweO
It's probably for the best if the groom knows imo
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:11 am to Salmon
quote:
so the scenario in the OP
you find out your bride to be had sex with some random during her bachelorette party
what do you do?
The marriage would be getting rescheduled at the very least. I honestly can't say I'd definitely end it though. People make mistakes.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:12 am to Displaced
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Your unwillingness to answer makes me think you don't even believe yourself.
Or I don't have a ready made set of scenarios I've sat down and thought about. Why would I?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:13 am to Ross
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100% certainty
Tell him.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:14 am to LNCHBOX
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I honestly can't say I'd definitely end it though. People make mistakes.
as someone who works in risk assessment, that mistake is too much of a risk to move forward on IMO
that is not a contract that I would sign nor would I advise any client to sign
This post was edited on 3/23/17 at 10:15 am
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:14 am to LNCHBOX
What a cuck
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:15 am to Displaced
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What a cuck
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:16 am to Salmon
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as someone who works in risk assessment, that mistake is too much of a risk to move forward on IMO
that is not a contract that I would sign nor would I advise any client to sign
There are worse things than getting some strange on your bachelor party. Just my opinion.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:19 am to LNCHBOX
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There are worse things than getting some strange on your bachelor party. Just my opinion.
like I said in my post, it's not so much the act that is the deal breaker, but moreso the decisions and character flaws that led up to those decisions that should be the main red flag
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:21 am to Salmon
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like I said in my post, it's not so much the act that is the deal breaker, but moreso the decisions and character flaws that led up to those decisions that should be the main red flag
Those existed before she cheated, why would you even be with that person?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:22 am to LNCHBOX
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Those existed before she cheated, why would you even be with that person?
maybe you were not aware of them or the extent of them before?
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:22 am to LNCHBOX
shows a lack of respect for you and a complete disregard for your relationship IMO and I personally couldn't get the trust back.
To each their own, I suppose. Kind of a different topic than the OP though.
To each their own, I suppose. Kind of a different topic than the OP though.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:23 am to LNCHBOX
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Those existed before she cheated, why would you even be with that person?
Probably because most people don't tell EVERYTHING to their SO or potential husband/wife.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:23 am to Salmon
Like my grandfather always said, "nothing shows a girl's true colors like a stranger's dick in her arse"
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:24 am to Ross
Idk how this is always a question for people. If one of your buddies is getting cheated on fricking tell him.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:25 am to LSU-MNCBABY
Only if you know 100% without a doubt. Don't throw away a friendship on hearsay.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:26 am to Displaced
Why would you being throwing away a friendship?
I'd be happy they told me rather than years later finding out then finding out they all knew and didn't say anything, that would be more likely a friendship ender.
I'd be happy they told me rather than years later finding out then finding out they all knew and didn't say anything, that would be more likely a friendship ender.
Posted on 3/23/17 at 10:27 am to OweO
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but make sure you can prove that shite
No one on here ever really explains this comment. What do you mean by prove that shite? A picture? You saw it happen? The difference being one of these is intangible and you bring in the who does he trust more factor.
If it was something that I had heard from someone else...then that's probably not good enough. But if the only proof I had was that I saw it...well why in the hell didn't I interject in the situation in the first place... Even then, I'd rather lose a friend than keep something like that from them forever because it is at that point, where you don't tell, that you are no longer a true friend.
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