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re: What is the OT's take on the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater?"

Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:06 pm to
Posted by NOSTRODAMUS
Prairieville/Dutchtown
Member since Dec 2003
16755 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:06 pm to
If one is married and cheats on the spouse, that’s the type of person he/she is. You can bank on it that it will happen again.
Posted by Barney Rubble
Hattiesburg MS
Member since Oct 2010
825 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:08 pm to
If a fully functioning, rational adult had a long term affair in the recent past, I would assume they would cheat again until proven otherwise and I would not date/marry them.

If she gets drunk and has a one night stand, I would be more inclined to let that slide.

An affair is a long term relationship, not sure I can get past that.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48994 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:13 pm to
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I’ve been cheated on 7 times. It’s heartbreaking


Those breathalyzers were calibrated perfectly. You weren't cheated, faqbutt.
Posted by LSU6262
Member since Jun 2008
7930 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:15 pm to
I have a cousin that cheated on his wife for 2 years while she was cheating on him for 3 years. Neither knew the other was cheating.

They both remarried. From the outside looking in, she is definitely still a slut. Not sure about him
Posted by CptRusty
Basket of Deplorables
Member since Aug 2011
11740 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:17 pm to
quote:

If one is married and cheats on the spouse, that’s the type of person he/she is. You can bank on it that it will happen again.


+1
Posted by Barstools
Atlanta
Member since Jan 2016
11205 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:19 pm to
You want to have a relationship with the woman who is cheating on her husband with you? What could go wrong? Put a ring on it.
Posted by MardiGrasCajun
Dirty Coast, MS
Member since Sep 2005
5942 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:21 pm to
quote:

What is the OT's take on the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater?"


I once had this little female collie dog that figured out how to escape over my 8' fence. Absolutely amazing for such a small dog. She'd show up on the porch each time she returned. I never made it a point to go out of my way to make sure she couldn't escape.....seemed pointless. Once a dog knows they can clear a fence, they will always clear the fence.

Good luck keeping your bitch fenced in.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
108138 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:24 pm to
I think this:


Just because someone cheats once, does not mean they will cheat again. However, it does mean they are always someone with the moral fiber capable of cheating.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:28 pm to
baw you thinking about getting back with your ol lady who let another man dip his stick when yall were married?
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12528 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:28 pm to
You'll also tend to find that their close group of friends tend to be cheaters as well; think of it along the lines of like minded individuals naturally congregate together.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19915 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:29 pm to
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Wait


Pretty much. I was the other man
Posted by Barstools
Atlanta
Member since Jan 2016
11205 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:32 pm to
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Let's say the affair lasted a year. And they divorced. Now, half a year later still going. Would she get antsy?


Why do you care if she cheats? She was cheating on you with her husband for a year and you didn't care.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12528 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:32 pm to
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Pretty much. I was the other man


Dude, don't walk, fricking run. If she's willing to cheat on her husband then it's only a matter of time before she finds a new Jody.
Posted by BiggerBear
Redbone Country
Member since Sep 2011
3146 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:38 pm to
There are certain things that a person does that tells you something about their character. They only have to do it once for you to know all you need to know. Ignore that sort of thing at your own peril.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83012 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 3:40 pm to
Pussy is magic. Strange pussy is mysterious magic.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77878 posts
Posted on 5/31/18 at 4:13 pm to
As far as the veracity of the statement goes, it depends on the age the person was a cheater. Those who cheated before age 25 can grow up to be reliable.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19915 posts
Posted on 6/6/18 at 10:28 am to
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This post was edited on 8/3/18 at 11:35 am
Posted by AnorexicGator
northshore
Member since Apr 2018
258 posts
Posted on 6/6/18 at 10:39 am to
A wife/husband might forgive their better half for cheating, but they never forget and the mental wound never completely heals.
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 6/6/18 at 10:44 am to
I aint cheated on any gash in almost 20 years after doing it for sport for nearly 10.

Sometimes people grow out of childish behaviors like mine...I still have a shitload more I need to outgrow.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
294899 posts
Posted on 6/6/18 at 10:47 am to
The temptation is always there, so the odds aren't very good.
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