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What is an appropriate time to start dating seriously after a separation?

Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:46 am
Posted by 1964
Member since Jan 2013
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Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:46 am
Any advice from divorced OT's?
Posted by yellowhammer2098
New Orleans, LA
Member since Mar 2013
3864 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:47 am to
As soon as the papers are filed.
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
40907 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:47 am to
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What is an appropriate time to start dating seriously after a separation?


A couple of months before the separation if you see it coming.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:48 am to
5/1 rule
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
41402 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:49 am to
quote:

A couple of months before the separation
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
49101 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:50 am to
quote:

Any advice from divorced OT's?


GTFO here and get on POF, Tinder, OkCupid.

If you like boys, Grindr and Manhunt.

Do not get on MeetMe. That's trash as frick.


SO I've heard about all this.
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:53 am to
As soon as you get the final divorce papers signed and filed.

Don't do it before that.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
26452 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:54 am to
As soon as you find one that swallows.
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:54 am to
According to my whore ex, about three months prior to the breakup.


ETA dammit Clyde
This post was edited on 8/12/15 at 9:56 am
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
89438 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:54 am to
Whenever you want. There's no such thing as appropriate times. IF something feels real and feels right, no sense waiting for some imaginary timer to go off.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135055 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:55 am to
Seriously dating? Factor in 1 year wait for every 5 years you were married.

In the meantime stick your dick in every chick who will give it a lick. Sow those wild oats far and often.
Posted by BRIllini07
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Feb 2015
3211 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:57 am to
For hooking up: Start now, who cares, get out there the next day and see what happens

For serious dating: Whatever time period it takes to not mention your ex every in every conversation. Could be a month, could be a year, you'll know better than any of us.
Posted by ipodking
#StopTalkingAboutWomensSports
Member since Jun 2008
59054 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 9:57 am to
My brother had his court date yesterday and I told him as soon as it was over to head to the bar and pick up a random to smash.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135055 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 10:03 am to
Best way to get Over someone is to get on top of someone else.
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 10:04 am to
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My brother had his court date yesterday and I told him as soon as it was over to head to the bar and pick up a random to smash.
If he's been listening to you, I can see why he's divorced. Do you people even listen to yourselves? Why do you want your brother to make big mistake on top of big mistake?
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25428 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 10:04 am to
Not divorced but I think the answer is when you are ready. Life is too short to wait on arbitrary time expectations.
Posted by RATeamWannabe
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2009
26018 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 10:06 am to
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5/1 rule


Still seems too long, but better than the 3/1 rule I heard after I got out of a long term deal
Posted by meauxjeaux2
watson
Member since Oct 2007
60283 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 10:06 am to
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 10:08 am to
If you are looking for other arse then I'm guessing you were the problem in the relationship. I hope you don't have kids.

Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70474 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 10:09 am to
15 seconds.

If she is hot.
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