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re: What is an appropriate time to start dating seriously after a separation?

Posted on 8/12/15 at 11:18 am to
Posted by EyeoftheEldrick12
Member since Jul 2012
1949 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 11:18 am to
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What is an appropriate time to start dating seriously after a separation?


On the way way from signing the divorce papers.
Posted by Artie Rome
Hwy 1
Member since Jul 2014
8757 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 11:24 am to
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Probably more my inability to communicate my emotions and General frickery, but sure.


Your honesty is beyond refreshing. At times.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17755 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 11:24 am to
If you have kids,

Do not enter into any relationship while the divorce "negotiations" are still proceeding. Have everything in order before you seriously date someone. Not just for the kids but also for the new woman. There is simply WAY too much drama in the first few months of the separation to be bringing into the new girl's life.

If you don't have kids, it depends on how bad the marriage truly was. If you were emotionally checked out already, your recovery time should be rather short.

Don't be that dude who gets all lonely and lands with the first girl who shows interest after your divorce. She won't be the one...

Posted by Austin Cajun
Austin, Tejas
Member since Aug 2013
1884 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 11:36 am to
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As someone who went through the emotional and mental agony of a marriage ending last year, I will say it will take a little while for your head to get right and for you to actually have the emotions necessary to date.


No wonder your wife left you. She's supposed to be the emotional one. It was your job to be a man and clearly you failed.
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
41402 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 12:33 pm to
My ex was a cruel, unemotional, selfish, money grubbing, loud and foul mothed drunken bitch. I'm fairly certain the crazy bitch poisoned our three pets at the end and killed them. She abandoned her own daughter for financial gain.
I was two years checked out before it was final. I was perfectly capable of jumping right into the single life. Depending on the circumstances, there is no time line. Obviously not having kids is a big factor.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 8/12/15 at 12:38 pm to
Why would you want to date seriously after being married? Give yourself a couple of years of play time.
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