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What drives someone to do something that has cost them so much already?

Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:50 pm
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
17328 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:50 pm
My wife took me to see the movie Adrift. After watching the movie I began to research the real life story behind the movie.
**Spoiler alert**

So even after losing the love of her life and being lost at sea for over 40 days and near dying while contemplating suicide, Tami Oldham Ashcraft still sails to this day.




Or what about that girl who had her arm bitten off by a white shark? They made a movie about her too, Soul Surfer. She still surfs to this day.


The one that really gets me is the story behind End of the Spear.


All of those dudes died with guns in their holsters and the capability to defend themselves from the hostile natives. The kicker is that their wives and children finish the job and end up planting a church in the jungles they were murdered in and with the very people that murdered them.

I mean it really defies my understanding. Maybe some of you can help me understand.
Posted by High C
viewing the fall....
Member since Nov 2012
62152 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:52 pm to
There's no single answer to this question.
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61451 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:55 pm to
Maybe they gain more than they lost from what they are doing
Posted by UGATiger26
Jacksonville, FL
Member since Dec 2009
9128 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:57 pm to
quote:

I mean it really defies my understanding. Maybe some of you can help me understand.


If there is nothing you value in life more than your own security, than I'm sure it would be very difficult to understand.

Of course, that's not to say I'm immune from the same line of thinking, but that's your answer in a nutshell.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 12:59 pm to
The ocean one is explainable to me.

Part of the reason people love to surf and sail is to experience the power of ocean and everything that lives in it. It makes you feel small and irrelevant. It is not the ocean's fault (or shark's) that they are who they are. These people don't blame them for being who they are and respect them even more.

Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
103862 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:09 pm to
Mostly because you shouldn't stop doing what you love because of one bad incident.

There is risk in everything that we do.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106066 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:12 pm to
I know, right? I keep going back to Taco Bell.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68609 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:14 pm to
quote:

I mean it really defies my understanding

It's called faith
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:17 pm to
Shocker you of all posters suck at given an appropriate spoiler alert
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:19 pm to
Challenge.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
15312 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:32 pm to
quote:

all posters suck at given an appropriate spoiler alert


Thought there was one. Or was it added after the fact?
Posted by celltech1981
Member since Jul 2014
8139 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:37 pm to
quote:

All of those dudes died with guns in their holsters and the capability to defend themselves from the hostile natives. The kicker is that their wives and children finish the job and end up planting a church in the jungles they were murdered in and with the very people that murdered them.

I mean it really defies my understanding. Maybe some of you can help me understand.




i wonder how many natives have been wiped out by diseases carried by missionaries.
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 1:47 pm to
You’re seeing the physical losses while ignoring the emotional gains.
Posted by oleheat
Sportsman's Paradise
Member since Mar 2007
14866 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 2:21 pm to
quote:

There's no single answer to this question.


There probably is- but what's known by Vegas stays in Vegas.
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
17328 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 2:45 pm to
I kinda think it boils down to statistics. If you are rational, you tell yourself that it was a statistical outlier. Psychologically I think the trauma is masked and revised. You spin it in a positive light and relearn the experience from a self deceptive perspective. Lastly, it is post traumatic response. Like marriage on the rebound.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 2:49 pm to
quote:

Thought there was one. Or was it added after the fact?


What is the point of a spoiler alert if you don’t even leave a decent gap of space before posting the spoiler?


Than again..,it’s a reboloke thread.
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
50939 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 2:51 pm to
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So even after losing the love of her life and being lost at sea for over 40 days and near dying while contemplating suicide


fricking spoilers man
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10951 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 3:14 pm to
Some might say it’s a disease
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
17328 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 4:52 pm to
Exactly
Posted by AUsteriskPride
Albuquerque, NM
Member since Feb 2011
18385 posts
Posted on 6/15/18 at 4:54 pm to
Because it's something they enjoy and the odds of what happened to them happening again (which were already slim to none) are almost zero. You can't say the same for something as simple as driving a car, where risk of death is much higher.

ETA:

As a whitewater kayaker, I get it, I can die on any run. But it comes down to my abilities in that moment with nature. I won't be killed by someone else's neglect, it will be my own. That makes you feel alive.
This post was edited on 6/15/18 at 4:57 pm
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