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re: What age did you tell your children that Santa isn't real?

Posted on 12/1/17 at 1:35 pm to
Posted by eric4UA08
Member since Nov 2008
2016 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 1:35 pm to
Yeah my parents never even told us he was real. I got everything I asked for almost every year, so couldn't have cared less whether he was real or not. To each his own. Dad said no way he was giving credit to Santa when it was his own hard earned money that paid for the gifts
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 1:45 pm to
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That seems to just rob them of a wonderful part of childhood. But hey, they're your kids.


I get that opinion. I disagree but I get it.

Our kids are equally excited about Christmas as those who believe in Santa. And they get that excitement without the expense of us letting them believe an untruth.
Posted by tss22h8
30.4 N 90.9 W
Member since Jan 2007
18657 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 1:45 pm to
You mean Santa's not real???
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
6392 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 1:48 pm to
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Yeah my parents never even told us he was real. I got everything I asked for almost every year, so couldn't have cared less whether he was real or not. To each his own. Dad said no way he was giving credit to Santa when it was his own hard earned money that paid for the gifts


Exactly.

“Santa is bringing you a hover board”

“Dad is buying you a hover board”

Pretty sure that, from a kid’s perspective, the most important part of those two sentences is at the end, not the beginning.
This post was edited on 12/1/17 at 1:49 pm
Posted by AtticusOSullivan
Member since Mar 2016
2255 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 1:55 pm to
Kid on the bus did this to my kid when he was about 6. Came home and said he had told him Santa wasn't real and your parents buy the presents. He looked to me for answers. All I could do was look him in the eye and say "Son, that kids an idiot."
Posted by AvidLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2015
657 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 2:39 pm to
I have 6 kids and NEVER broke the news to any of them. I sincerely hope they still believe in Santa Claus.

ETA: They're all over 24 now.
This post was edited on 12/1/17 at 2:42 pm
Posted by JEAUXBLEAUX
Bayonne, NJ
Member since May 2006
55358 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 2:41 pm to
They never believed that bs
Posted by NOSHAU
Member since Feb 2012
11872 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 2:57 pm to
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I had a 12-year-old guitar student who still believed in Santa and the Easter bunny. It was sad and pathetic.

Please tell them way before then.
What is sad and pathetic about that? Let kids be kids and enjoy their childhood.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:02 pm to
A 12 year old who still believes in Santa and the Easter Bunny, legitimately, is from a social and maturity standpoint far, far behind his peers. It is not a good thing. It is sad. It is getting to the point where I would be worried about long term social adjustment issues. In fact they might already be there if the 12 year old hadn't figured it out just from interacting with his peers at that point. I suspect the parents have to be over sheltering him, or he has legitimate developmental issues.
This post was edited on 12/1/17 at 3:03 pm
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65553 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:03 pm to
RA'ed

Add "Spoiler Alert-There Is No Santa" to Thread Title
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5153 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:06 pm to
Why tell him? My son never let on that he knew. My daughter believed till she was 11. Life's a lot better when they believe, in my opinion.
Posted by Maytheporkbewithyou
Member since Aug 2016
12603 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:12 pm to
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RA'ed

Add "Spoiler Alert-There Is No Santa" to Thread Title


My sincere apologies.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:14 pm to
My kids both figured it out by 8 or 9.
Posted by Maytheporkbewithyou
Member since Aug 2016
12603 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:15 pm to
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Might as well tell them about Jesus while you're at it.


He already knows who Jesus is.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:17 pm to
I knew when I was at least 6, maybe sooner. I "played along" until I was 10 because my parents liked doing the whole "I wonder what Santa got you!" song and dance.
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
10695 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:24 pm to
When my son was 9 he did a Google search to find out.
Posted by the paradigm
Moon Township, PA
Member since Sep 2017
5417 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:34 pm to
My son is 8 and he's started asking about it. He doesn't buy the part about the flying reindeer, mainly. However, he still believes in Santa because he just can't figure out how else all the gifts end up under the tree
This post was edited on 12/1/17 at 3:34 pm
Posted by the paradigm
Moon Township, PA
Member since Sep 2017
5417 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:35 pm to
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A 12 year old who still believes in Santa and the Easter Bunny, legitimately, is from a social and maturity standpoint far, far behind his peers. It is not a good thing. It is sad. It is getting to the point where I would be worried about long term social adjustment issues. In fact they might already be there if the 12 year old hadn't figured it out just from interacting with his peers at that point. I suspect the parents have to be over sheltering him, or he has legitimate developmental issues.


Damn dude I bet you're the life of the party
Posted by ellishughtiger
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Member since Jul 2004
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Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:36 pm to
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I don’t have kids, but i would hope you would tell them before the hit kindergarten.



please don't have children
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 12/1/17 at 3:42 pm to
Let them figure it out on their own. It's one of the last little bits of magic in the Western world.

And when they do figure it out they get to be on the other side of the coin keeping the magic going.
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