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re: Weekend Dating Advice - Primal vs. Transactional Intercourse

Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:49 pm to
Posted by Godfather1
What WAS St George, Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
85011 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:49 pm to
quote:

You give too much attention to a subject that comes easily and naturally for most of us. I believe that proves you are a total failure with women.


Yeah. He overthinks it, too analytical.

It's a dead giveaway. If he were getting laid, he'd have neither the time nor the need to overanalyze things.
Posted by amabala
Member since Jul 2011
35 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 12:51 pm to
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Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

You are better off having no sex at all


The Virgin Motto
Posted by cattus
Member since Jan 2009
14638 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 1:35 pm to
quote:


-You are a nice guy with a big bank account, and she wants you to stick around and continuing to be a nice guy who invests time, money and gifts into her, so she feels like she has to muster up the will to frick you in order to keep the spigot flowing
Ho Lee shite I still got a chance
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
6885 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:30 pm to
I bet it sucks so hard to have a micropenis gn. I feel for you bud.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16736 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:34 pm to
quote:

There has to be attraction involved for a man to have sex because he has to get an erection in order to do so. Can't get an erection without the attraction centers of the brain being activated.


I have to firmly disagree. If horny enough, I can get a hard on looking at the slit between the couch cushions because it vaguely resembles a vagina.

Don't have sex or jack off for a few weeks then come back and tell me you have to be physically attracted to someone to get a hard on.
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
20739 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:38 pm to
Posted by texag7
College Station
Member since Apr 2014
39645 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:38 pm to
You copy pasted that off Reddit
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
21498 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:39 pm to
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once got busy in a Burger King bathroom


Working there probably sucks, so this could be real.
Posted by MottLaneKid
Gonzales
Member since Apr 2012
4543 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:39 pm to
Do you own the Station bar ?
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27739 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:47 pm to
Didn't read. You do not know how to attract women no matter how much you try. Kill yourself.
Posted by Jorts R Us
Member since Aug 2013
15945 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:48 pm to
Hey GN, post some pics of your past conquests so we know what we have to look forward to if we follow your teachings. Help me upgrade from this!

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Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11594 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:49 pm to
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Explain what she is gaining from it. Based on your premise, he has to be providing some benefit to her. Sounds like he's doing the opposite.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
66146 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 3:51 pm to
quote:

Only women are capable of having transactional sex


Well that's not how this works.
Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11594 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 4:08 pm to
quote:

I have been married for 15 yrs


Me too.

quote:

I refuse to work hard for it so I only make a move when I know it's right for both of us.


I don't work for it (and it sure as heck isn't for the money or chores.......she beats me in both by a good margin), but we both know when timing is likely to be good (i.e., work schedules will allow).

quote:

3 children in the home makes it difficult to have sex very often


Also have 3 kids. We average a solid 3-4 times a week. It's not the backbone of our relationship, nor should it be; but when both partners recognize and anticipate opportunities for intimacy (and mutually want to have that component in their relationship), there's no reason you can't have more "time together".

I'm not sure that what I describe fits into Goldenugget's black and white frame, though.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 5:33 pm to
IWEI
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
118239 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:03 pm to
Are you saying men are not cabable of having sex with a woman only because he has something to gain from it?

You don't think a guy has never developed a relationship with a female who is from a wealthy family or has something else to gain by doing so?
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
44823 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:31 pm to
Spot on here GN, I'm a huge believer in your knowledge on this topic. Everyone dogging you is so insecure about their own sex life, they don't understand how right you are here.
Posted by TheWalrus
Land of the Hogs
Member since Dec 2012
44823 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 6:32 pm to
quote:

You don't think a guy has never developed a relationship with a female who is from a wealthy family or has something else to gain by doing so?


That's transactional sex, just the opposite way around.

Oh I read he denied that, well then he's wrong. IDK
This post was edited on 4/9/17 at 6:34 pm
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 4/9/17 at 7:46 pm to
Changed to apply to men
quote:

Transactional sex is when a man has sex with a woman he is not attracted to, but chooses to have sex with her anyway
I've had plenty of transactional sex then
quote:

"What do I have to gain from having sex with her?"
pew pew pew pew

So just fricking to get off isn't in this playbook? FYI, both girls and guys do that


Some of your shite makes sense. A small amount, but some. Vast majority reads like someone who could get some arse, but doesn't because he won't go outside and spend the time talking to girls. My advice is to quit talking to guys who talk about how to get girls, and start hanging around guys who actually get girls
This post was edited on 4/9/17 at 7:48 pm
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