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re: Update to missing 6 y/o autistic child in NC: A body has been found in a creek

Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:49 pm to
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
144668 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 2:49 pm to
Oh no.

I was so hoping this wouldn't be the way this story ended.
Posted by danfraz
San Antonio TX
Member since Apr 2008
24550 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:26 pm to
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Doesn't look good for dad


Nope. Matter of time till they nail him for this with a body found. They already didn't believe his story
Posted by bubbz
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
23138 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:30 pm to
I honestly think no foul play will be discovered, the dad just did a poor job of keeping an eye on his son.

As a father of an autistic child, I can relate to a lot of what has been said. Any time we are in public, my eyes are locked in on my son at all times. If his son was known to do that, then the father should have been more aware. Poor parenting on the father’s part and his son is now dead because of it.

I had a very similar instance with my son a year ago. He was 3 at the time. I was outside doing some yard work and my in laws were over to visit. My father in law wanted to take my son for a walk. I sat and thought about it and opted to go with him. I almost let them go together but I thought better of it because he was not accustomed to my son and things that he does.

We get to walking and we come up to the pond. We were standing on the pier and my son was walking around the grass area. My FIL was not paying attention, and I saw my son make a B line to the pond. I knew what was about to happen. I jumped off the pier and into the water as my son hit the water. I had him in my arms as he slipped into the pond.

I thank God everyday that I was there, because I know if I wasn’t, I would have lost my son.
Posted by Big Balls
Texas
Member since Nov 2014
846 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 3:53 pm to
I agree with all of this. At the very least, the dad was negligent in taking care of his son in public. Even if he didn't kill the kid, it would not be a shock to me to learn that he was paying to much attention to his "friend" and lost sight of the boy a good bit longer than he's letting on.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 4:34 pm to
Pretty obvious that the dad (most likely) did it.
Posted by 337tigergirl
Houston
Member since Jan 2012
6556 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 5:14 pm to
My niece is autistic and she was nonverbal at 4.
My sister and her husband took all 3 kids to the children’s museum in Houston. My sister watched the 2 boys and my BIL was tasked with my niece. He was too busy looking at his phone. They lost her a hour and a half. I felt so bad for my sister. She was crying in there. She told him she would divorce him if he don’t find her.
It’s really hard to find them when they are nonverbal
I’m hoping that it was just an accident in this case. This breaks my heart. My niece is so wonderful despite her condition.
Posted by PiscesTiger
Concrete, WA
Member since Feb 2004
53696 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 5:26 pm to
I hate this world. Thankfully I have a family of my own that I will love just a bit more tonight.
Posted by kemowasabi
river parishes
Member since Jun 2018
1248 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:18 pm to
Heartbreaking...Precious little guy...my youngest son is autistic..he's 26 now...This little fella looks alot like him when he was young..wrenches your heart..prayers sent to this family and community...
Posted by JBrignac
Member since Oct 2017
195 posts
Posted on 9/27/18 at 6:21 pm to
You are wrong.
Elopement is one of criteria for diagnosing individuals on the spectrum.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
49636 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 12:21 am to
A mile away from where he was lost.
Posted by supatigah
CEO of the Keith Hernandez Fan Club
Member since Mar 2004
90297 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 12:30 am to
I have an autistic nephew, non verbal
Whenever he sees water he goes right to it, he loves being in the water
My BIL has a pool and last XMAS my nephew saw the pool and had a total meltdown because they wouldn’t let him swim (too cold)

Tragic how so many times these autistic kids get away and they find them drowned
Happened here in Houston a few years ago at Marcus Camby’s House when his nephew wandered off and drowned in a community pond

Article in USA Today

Posted by DBama1
Atlanta
Member since Dec 2009
1296 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 9:38 am to
Damn! Another body was found near the place they found the child
Posted by danfraz
San Antonio TX
Member since Apr 2008
24550 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 9:41 am to
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A mile away from where he was lost.


How does this child get a mile away from where he running from?
Posted by Radler_the_weinerdog
New Orleans
Member since Oct 2016
1482 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 9:56 am to
Or a couple lette
Posted by real turf fan
East Tennessee
Member since Dec 2016
12211 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 10:06 am to
One news story yesterday said the child was found four miles away from the park.

There's also the guy who told them where to look who was helping the father search for the child at the park.

Yesterday's reporting may have been full of bad info, but it's worth listening for.
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
21274 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 10:22 am to
Was riding in a SxS with my 5 yo.

Got stuck in a creek

5 yo gets upset and says she is going to find pawpaw.............10 miles away.

Before I could even fit up the creek bank she was gone.

I had no idea in what direction she went. Scary thing is neither did she she just bolted in a random direction she thought may be the way back.

I screamed to the top of my lungs frantically for what seemed like an eternity until she just appeared. She said when she stopped running she heard me and came back.

I don’t know the facts here but I do know that it takes seconds for a kid to disappear in the woods and it is terrifying.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19897 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 11:44 am to
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How does this child get a mile away from where he running from?


By being scared he's lost and walking/running a mile
Posted by idlewatcher
Planet Arium
Member since Jan 2012
98674 posts
Posted on 9/28/18 at 12:00 pm to
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They lost her a hour and a half


That museum is big but 1.5 hrs?? And they have tons of security to boot. I'm sure your BIL and sis were freaking out.
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