re: Update pg. 7: How to handle a girl that worships her father

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Update:
Can't believe I didn't think to not try to have a conversation on a car ride.
Explained how I did not appreciate comparisons, how I respected her father and his relationship with his family.
But said that our relationship is not her parents, no matter how perfect it is (her words). How we had different up bringings and would likely have different opinions and that I believe it is crucial to work these out in an appropriate manner.
I was promptly shut down, and told her parents relationship is how she wants hers. That's her goal. Then questioned why I was trying to put her parents down when "I don't even know them".. 2 year relationship..
Now riding in silence. 3 more hours.


Eta. Whoever claims im not man enough, complaining, etc. I think you would be tired of dealing with this too. So kindly frick off and stay off my thread. I've surprisingly gotten useful information here and I really appreciate it.

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If you want this person for the rest of your life without a doubt...the only way I see: is for you to go to her father and have a private conversation and express to him what you told her in the car and how she reacted. His reaction will be all you need to know on continuing the relationship or not.

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is for you to go to her father and have a private conversation and express to him what you told her in the car and how she reacted. His reaction will be all you need to know on continuing the relationship or not.

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i don't get this line of thinking..... could you break it down a bit more?

Lacour is a spineless, beta cuck who likes being dominated.

Probably a millennial.

Ohh you got me.

Meanwhile, in my house, my wife and I don't tell each other how to act. We like each other for who we are. It's why we got married. Sorry your situation is different.

Bump...for OPs ole lady to read and kick his arse.

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while you are out doing everything you want to she is out boning BBC.

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NTTAWWT

Just read the update. If she didn't respond well to you telling her what you want, perhaps ask her what she wants. Meaning, what she feels like is lacking in y'all relationship in her opinion.

It really doesn't matter what she says. Because it sounds like you are going to do what you want anyway. But what is important, is to find out if she asks you the same question. If she doesn't, it might be a sign that she is not willing to compromise and it has to be her way or nothing. Then it's up to you to decide if you can live with that.

Good luck.

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I should hope so 

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I'm pretty sure of it.

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Does Mom really run household? Wow he goes middle manage is life away?

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it honestly seems as if he's a "store manager" taking orders from above, but the boss is never around. If you can smell what I'm stepping in

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 only advice you need from here on out is to read cajunangelle's post

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I say there is a 0% chance of this happening. He bows down to his ole lady. He will never bring up an issue with his future FIL.