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Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:12 am to mizzoukills
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:12 am to mizzoukills
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She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal,
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sounds like a great thing!
There's more to life than loving, caring loyalty when it comes to the rest of your life chief.
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:13 am to Bluefin
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If OP is in his mid-20's, he's got plenty of time. Especially if he lives in a bigger city.
Sounds like he wants plenty of time to frick doodz.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:15 am to TigerFanInSouthland
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You strung this girl along for four years all while knowing you were never gonna marry her?
He's strung her along because he knows she's a gift and he cannot do better but he also knows he will eventually destroy the relationship because he doesn't believe he deserves her. He thinks she can do better and one day she will realize this and leave him.
Bipolar is a terrible world to live in. That's why he's miserable. He's creating what his mind has convinced him will one day happen. He's convinced himself that he'll be happier alone than constantly paranoid in a relationship.
He's trapped in his mind and that must suck.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 8:22 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:16 am to rintintin
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She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal,
At 60 you're going to be sitting on a park bench alone asking yourself why you were such an idiot.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:16 am to rintintin
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She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal
Wow, what a c[un]t. Get out while you can.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 8:17 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:18 am to TbirdSpur2010
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quote:She's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loyal
quote:when she's there I just need to get the frick out.
What the frick is wrong with you?
You found a keeper. Don't be a frickboi and frick the shite up. You'll regret that shite for the rest of your life.
This This This. probably a quarter of us on here have already done this, been exactly in that spot, and did the frick up. It is an unfortunate thing that you can't sometimes realize what you had until it's gone.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:19 am to GetCocky11
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There is something about her that makes you miserable. What is it?
It's not her, it's him.
Nothing about this situation is original. All the old guys here(and IRL) will warn him to no avail. Fast forward to 2025, he'll be at the bar or on some shitty date wondering "what if I had gotten my shite together that Christmas 2016?" and then order another shot or glass of wine to drown his regret.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 8:41 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:20 am to AnonymousTiger
What things about her make you miserable? Have you thought about having a serious conversation with her about how you feel about it as opposed to breaking up? Obviously you've thought about it for a long time, but sometimes the conversations that are not easy to have (Ex: I dont like this about you, do you think you could work to change it) will cause short term problems, as opposed to making a permanent solution for fixable problems.
In any case, good luck, only you know the right decisions for you. Hope it's well going forward. Like some said, this will cause people to choose sides. She is evil, no matter what you think, she will skew the events to your mutual friends, be prepared. Start getting involved in new things immediately, and find things that make you happy.
In any case, good luck, only you know the right decisions for you. Hope it's well going forward. Like some said, this will cause people to choose sides. She is evil, no matter what you think, she will skew the events to your mutual friends, be prepared. Start getting involved in new things immediately, and find things that make you happy.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:21 am to Chuker
Because coming home to a 60 year old woman who you have now been with for 35 straight years is a better alternative.
OK Jeff
OK Jeff
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:22 am to rintintin
You are not attracted to her physically anymore
Be a man and admit it
Be a man and admit it
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:26 am to mikelbr
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It's not her, it's him.
Nothing about this situation is original. All the old guys here(and IRL) will warn him to no avail. Fast forward to 2025, he'll be at the bar or on some shitty date wondering "what if I had gotten his shite together that Christmas 2016?" and then order another shot or glass of wine to drown his regret.
people here trying to convince him to do otherwise are equally as absurd.
You gotta let these young people make their own mistakes as we did.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:27 am to TheBoo
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There's more to life than loving, caring loyalty when it comes to the rest of your life chief.
Bingo.
And I haven't noted any of the bad things. So it makes it seem like she's an angel and I'm making a mistake.
Not the case.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:27 am to meauxjeaux2
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You gotta let these young people make their own mistakes as we did.
That's a Geaux Tigers!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:27 am to rintintin
i lived with a gf for 4 years. It got pretty bad because we didn't have chemistry.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:28 am to rintintin
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And I haven't noted any of the bad things. So it makes it seem like she's an angel and I'm making a mistake.
Not the case.
So list them.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:29 am to darnol91
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She is evil, no matter what you think, she will skew the events to your mutual friends, be prepared
Why? She has apparently done nothing wrong? What skewing does she have to do. He can't even tell us the exact reason he is miserable, she probably won't get a straight answer either.
All she has to do is say it like it happens and it paints him as the bad guy, because...let's face it, it's a bit of a dick move.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:31 am to VaBamaMan
List the negatives then bro. Apparently, even in your mind you cant think of them because you literally list nothing but positives in a shite post about dumping your 4 year term GF.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:31 am to rintintin
Did the same thing man. Dated for six years, after 5 I thought it was just me and held on trying to fix it. Shes an awesome girl, but it had to be done. Sucks for a bit as expected, but I did the right thing and if you feel this way, you are doing the right thing as well.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:32 am to rintintin
Sounds smart. Do it.
If you're miserable now, its not going to get any better...
Dont settle. Make it happen.
If you're miserable now, its not going to get any better...
Dont settle. Make it happen.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:32 am to rintintin
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And I haven't noted any of the bad things. So it makes it seem like she's an angel and I'm making a mistake
So you lied to us? She isn't has great as you first described her?
No one is perfect. Relationships have good times and they have bad times. Commitment is about pledging to be a loyal partner in the good and bad times. That takes courage.
Perhaps you should consider if leaving her makes you a coward?
Or, perhaps you should be honest and admit your failings. This is a two way street. I guaran-damn-tee you haven't been perfect in this relationship. I suspect you're bipolar and have extremely low confidence in yourself.
It's a very bipolar thing to ignore your problems and blame everyone else around you.
Why don't you at least be honest in this thread (assuming this is real and not a troll).
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