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Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:30 am to 50_Tiger
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:30 am to 50_Tiger
quote:
Rin,
Ive been giving you shite all thread but honestly throwing this girl out into the literal cold during the one time of the year where you want to have that special someone is about as shite of a thing a man could do to a woman he supposedly love.
Bro I could look away all the other shite because thats your prerogative but damn dude I dont think that's gonna do well for you in the Karma bucket.
Totally disagree, and everyone close to me who I've discussed with agrees sooner is better.
First of all, I can't pretend anymore. I've barely made it through the week. Another month? No way.
Secondly, dropping the bomb AFTER Christmas, when she probably feels most assured about our relationship will be even worse.
It happens now.
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:32 am to rintintin
quote:
rintintin
You just described my last relationship. Only 1 minor change... we actually got married. After a year of being miserable, we got an inevitable divorce. You're doing yourself a great service by ending it. I was young and dumb enough to think her ultimatum meant I would lose "the best thing to ever happen to me".
Your friends will call you more because they probably think she's the worst, and you'll meet someone that fits you perfectly. Good luck.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:33 am to stat19
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Yes, many times over.
Like I said, it's a hamster wheel.
quote:
've read through your replies to other posts and this does seem to be a constant. However, in your thinking through it, have you discussed, with her, the issues the two of you are having?
If these issues have been brought up and discussed in a mature and sober manner then she shouldn't be so surprised and hurt when the finality of a break up occurs.
Yes, many times over.
Like I said, it's a hamster wheel.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:34 am to rintintin
quote:
It happens now.
Go get em, champ. Proud of you.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:34 am to rintintin
you are doing it right. I support you. Get it over wtih, everyone is better off.
relationships are hard, but if you have already checked out then that is it.
My wife and I had a rough patch, and one of the reasons I didn't break up with her is my family loves her. So do all my friends. Maybe not the smartest move, but we worked through it and are good now.
relationships are hard, but if you have already checked out then that is it.
My wife and I had a rough patch, and one of the reasons I didn't break up with her is my family loves her. So do all my friends. Maybe not the smartest move, but we worked through it and are good now.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:36 am to Hawkeye95
Well Godspeed rintintin Cat 5 Shitticane heading directly your way.
Please provide adequate Jim Cantore like updates.
Please provide adequate Jim Cantore like updates.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:39 am to Guido Merkens
quote:
I can't believe half the OT feels for this chick:
She hates his friends and is jealous when they do stuff together- HIS SIDE OF STORY
No sex for a month and they are under 30 - EASILY REMEDIED. PATHETIC HE'S ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN. SEX SOLVES MANY ISSUES. LACK OF SEX CAUSES MANY ISSUES.
Financially Irrespnsible chick - HIS SIDE OF STORY
He hates being home with her - HE STILL HASN'T EXACTLY EXPLAINED THIS
Daddy Issues involving abuse - HIS SIDE OF STORY
fify
Why should we believe him when he lied in the OP, changed the story to make her look like a needy emotionally unstable girl at about the point in the thread when he was being criticized for being the issue, later admitted to having trust and commitment issues, and through silence has essentially admitted to being bipolar?
Seriously...why should we trust his side of the story? It doesn't add up.
This post was edited on 12/1/16 at 10:43 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:40 am to yoga girl
quote:
You are mean and you will regret it if you break up (at least when you become a grown up man).
You're a dude pretending to be a woman on a message board. You have no room at all to talk.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:41 am to mizzoukills
quote:
Why should we believe him when he lied in the OP, changed the story to make her look like a needy emotionally unstable girl at about the point in the thread when he was being criticized for being the issue, later admitted to having trust and commitment issues, and through silence has essentially admitted to being bipolar?
maybe you care too much about a poster on an internet forum.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:41 am to rintintin
It sounds like you are making the right decision. Just do it tonight and don't push it off anymore. She needs time to find a new place and you don't want to be stuck with the lease for next year. Oh and post updates after. 
Good luck
Good luck
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:42 am to Wimp Lo
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:42 am to rintintin
/threadover
When do we get update? She sounds stabby.
When do we get update? She sounds stabby.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:43 am to Hawkeye95
quote:
maybe you care too much about a poster on an internet forum.
I mean...he did ask for advice.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:44 am to TigahJay
whats your future exGF's number? She may need a little comforting and support when you dump her. Maybe I can help .
In a good christian way, of course.
In a good christian way, of course.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:44 am to rintintin
Break up with her stat. There are plenty of other broads out there. Most of the dudes shite talking in this thread are just bummed that they're married tbqh
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:44 am to ZappBrannigan
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This post was edited on 12/21/21 at 10:46 am
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:44 am to mizzoukills
he asked for support, not advice.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:45 am to rintintin
quote:
It's unfortunate timing, but it's really the only time to do it. Any earlier and we're stuck in a lease for much longer.
This makes no sense to me. How can your lease be extended longer because you break up with your gf earlier than 30 days before the lease ends? Do you have some strange lease related to your relationship?
You break up when you know it won't work. You still give whatever notice to the landlord as required in the lease not to renew for another 12 months.
You're the one breaking it off. Move out to temp digs and pay the rest of your part of the lease until the end of it.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:45 am to yoga girl
quote:
You are mean and you will regret it if you break up (at least when you become a grown up man).
That sounds like a 7 year old talking.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 10:49 am to rintintin
my ex gf was so unstable that if a good looking woman would pull up next to us on the street she'd mutter under her breath "Bitch".
I was like "WTF?" You know her?
"No" she'd say.
I was like "WTF?" You know her?
"No" she'd say.
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