re: Tomi Lahren melts down on IG "Men are Trash"

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big breakup, woman bashes all men on social media


Damn, that rarely happens.

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But she's unique and special. You clearly don't value value.

She sounds like she really needs a reality check, but doesn’t have the self awareness to have one. Her issue is shared by lots of “high value” women. They’re all going after the same guys, and there’s not enough guys that meet their standards, so the dudes just play the field as long as they can. These women have their own money, but they still need a man who is “ambitious”, i.e. one that makes more money than they do. They won’t settle for anyone under 6ft tall so “they can wear heels”. Their man has to have at least as many degrees as they do because they won’t date below their intellectual level (because we all know college degrees = intelligence!)

They flirt with lots of different guys and then wonder why the guys aren’t loyal to them. The reality is that they need to lower their standards, but they’re too shallow, conceited, superficial, and concerned with one-upping everyone else to do the same. They’ve deluded themselves into believing that there should be no give/take in a relationship, so if everything’s not 100% on their terms, that the man’s clearly not up to the task. Any man weak enough to change for them isn’t worthy of respect (acquiescence isn’t attractive), and any man who calls her out on her bullshite is too “controlling” or “emotionally abusive”. She’s not attracted to weak men, but won’t tolerate a strong one.

I hope she learns some much needed humility, but I doubt it.

I think she's probably just a slut.

She isn't all that attractive anyway, I'm not sure what republican trust fund pussies want, but I have to believe it isn't her.

Most conservative men want a woman who will be a wife, a caretaker, a mother to his children, and maybe a homemaker as well. Conservative men want to work hard and come home to a peaceful place. I have a hard time believing a girl like Tomi would ever even think of compromising her career even one iota in order to have and care for a family. She would never want to stay at home with kids. Her ego won’t allow her to put anyone else’s wants or needs before her own success or vanity.

Everything has to be her way on her schedule, and everything has to flatter her image or career because that’s her god. All she cares about, all her lauded “value” are things that hold little value to a conservative man with options. Until she learns to put her ego and image aside and put other peoples’ wants and needs ahead of her own, she will continue to have “trash” outcomes from “trash” men who want her for the only thing men want which she seems willing to provide, her sex.

She won’t learn her lesson. She’s attractive enough to have hundreds of dms in her inbox from pathetic simps for her to largely ignore but feed her ego that every man wants her. She’ll have enough high-value dudes giving her attention to think she can turn a man whore into a husband when she’s not worth sticking around for. She lacks the self awareness to recognize her own role in relationships and why she picks shite men. So, she’ll keep blaming men for her failures and the loop will continue to feed itself.

The misogyny on here is pathetic and disgusting. I can’t imagine having someone talk about my daughter the disrespectful way people talk about women here.

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The misogyny on here is pathetic and disgusting.

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Get the frick over it, call a spade a fricking spade, she isn't a trustworthy individual.

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The misogyny on here is pathetic and disgusting. I can’t imagine having someone talk about my daughter the disrespectful way people talk about women here

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What is “misogyny”? Nature has ordained that society and individuals function in a certain way. There will always be power structures. Some are beneficial and some are detrimental. History has shown that usually when a man acts as provider and protector for his brood, and his mate acts as a nurturer and caregiver, the family unit can thrive.

The problem is modern society throwing it all out of whack and attempting to subvert the paradigm.

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We’re criticizing this woman for what she said and how her words indicate actions on her part that are responsible for her dissatisfaction with the opposite sex.

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Which is really created by social media, and how our brains are overloaded by instantaneous connectivity.
Dunbar’s Number/Monkeysphere theory

We aren’t equipped for real, true interaction with more than about 150 people, give or take 100. So social media inflates our ego, our sense of worth, our concept of what is acceptable/unacceptable. With the ability to have an audience, (thus a false social group) of thousands or more, people can usually find a crowd that validates most any behavior while ignoring those who disagree as wrongthinkers.

With a limited social group, it’s much more difficult to find validation for antisocial behavior (and vica versa) and so our moral compass is easier to define.

This is all very meta and honestly deserves its own thread.