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re: The number of times you should be having Sex every month, according to your age group
Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:06 pm to LittleJerrySeinfield
Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:06 pm to LittleJerrySeinfield
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The week of her period: 0-1 (she sometimes has very short periods)
The week after her period: 4-5 times (Young men, this week your wife will be at her horniest, take advantage, but also at her most fertile, so take precaution)
2 weeks post period: 2-3 times
3 weeks post period: 1-2 times
the national average is 3 times, and you are 49 and having sex 7 times a month if you are conservative with your numbers
In 24, that's sex almost every other day..
Amen to you both! That's how it should be IMHO I am 58 and wife is 52, empty nesters... we work more than we ever have as we're putting our 2 kid through college, so the sex is maybe 3 times a month, that's the sad reality
if my wife didn't work, I wonder how much more sex we would have? I am certian it would be more
after she puts in 11 hours in as a Pharmacist, I've learned to let her have her wine and let her be when she comes home worn out from dealing with the public and the none stop of a busy pharmacy...she needs about 1 day to recover after some shifts
I own a business and often work 6 days a week...
I've working on my weight and eating habits which is helping my sex drive
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Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:12 pm to RLDSC FAN
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Millennials and Gen X reported slightly higher figures, with both groups having sex five times in the last month.
That would be low in my household. I'd say conservatively we average every other day. I'm very lucky in that regard.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:17 pm to LNCHBOX
I’m lucky if she lets me jerk off 5 times a month.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:18 pm to ApexTiger
It hasn't always been this way mind you. There were years when 3 times a month was a good month, but about 2 years ago that changed.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:26 pm to LittleJerrySeinfield
What’s a baw to do about the ol bait and switch???
Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:31 pm to LNCHBOX
Married 15 years. Gen X (57 yo), wife is late GenX (49 yo).
When we first got married it was about 2-3 times a week. Over time it faded to less than once a month. Stress, work, and some other issues got in the way and it happens so slowly that you are deep in it before you realize you can't remember exactly when the last time was.
Last year was miserable. She had a terrible time with mood and other issues and I came close to calling it quits. But I thought about the timing and suggested she get her hormones checked. She had pre-cancerous cells in her uterus about 7 years ago and had a partial hysterectomy so she doesn't have a period. SO, she did not know that she was going through menopause. When she got tested her estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone were all in the close to zero range. Her thyroid was super low too. She got on hormone replacement therapy and it was rocky at first but now that they've figured out the correct doses for her she's a new person.
To add to that, back in 2020 I got tested and my testosterone was super low so I started getting weekly shots too. It's made a HUGE difference in my give a shite. I have more energy, more drive, and I'm a lot more active. I've lost weight and gained muscle mass.
During that rough year last year I also came to the realization that I needed to be more straight up with her about things. I have always been very laid back and super chill so I didn't push back much on anything she wanted. But she began to see that as a weakness and I realized there were some things that I was NOT chill about. So I put my foot down and pushed back. I was at a point where if things didn't get better I was going to cut bait so I had nothing to lose. My honesty and show of backbone snapped her out of a lot of the shite she was dealing with and she saw for the man she married. I have NOT backslid on that.
All of that has lead to a great year this year. Her sex drive is back, she's attracted to me, and we are working through other issues couples face like money and savings etcetera.
Guys, if you and/or your wife are hitting mid 40s and up, get your hormones checked.
Oh, and before this year we had sex maybe twice the year before.
This year we're averaging once every week and a half or better. With some weekends turning in to a double header (pun intended)
When we first got married it was about 2-3 times a week. Over time it faded to less than once a month. Stress, work, and some other issues got in the way and it happens so slowly that you are deep in it before you realize you can't remember exactly when the last time was.
Last year was miserable. She had a terrible time with mood and other issues and I came close to calling it quits. But I thought about the timing and suggested she get her hormones checked. She had pre-cancerous cells in her uterus about 7 years ago and had a partial hysterectomy so she doesn't have a period. SO, she did not know that she was going through menopause. When she got tested her estrogen, testosterone, and progesterone were all in the close to zero range. Her thyroid was super low too. She got on hormone replacement therapy and it was rocky at first but now that they've figured out the correct doses for her she's a new person.
To add to that, back in 2020 I got tested and my testosterone was super low so I started getting weekly shots too. It's made a HUGE difference in my give a shite. I have more energy, more drive, and I'm a lot more active. I've lost weight and gained muscle mass.
During that rough year last year I also came to the realization that I needed to be more straight up with her about things. I have always been very laid back and super chill so I didn't push back much on anything she wanted. But she began to see that as a weakness and I realized there were some things that I was NOT chill about. So I put my foot down and pushed back. I was at a point where if things didn't get better I was going to cut bait so I had nothing to lose. My honesty and show of backbone snapped her out of a lot of the shite she was dealing with and she saw for the man she married. I have NOT backslid on that.
All of that has lead to a great year this year. Her sex drive is back, she's attracted to me, and we are working through other issues couples face like money and savings etcetera.
Guys, if you and/or your wife are hitting mid 40s and up, get your hormones checked.
Oh, and before this year we had sex maybe twice the year before.
This year we're averaging once every week and a half or better. With some weekends turning in to a double header (pun intended)
Posted on 9/4/24 at 4:55 pm to RLDSC FAN
Those #s seem ridiculously low.
I'm aware I'm an outlier in a positive way, but the friends I'm close enough to talk about these things with are still at least 4-5x per week.
I'm aware I'm an outlier in a positive way, but the friends I'm close enough to talk about these things with are still at least 4-5x per week.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 5:20 pm to White Bear
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What’s a baw to do about the ol bait and switch???
You mean having a ton of sex before marriage and then it dries up once hitched?
Posted on 9/4/24 at 5:21 pm to LittleJerrySeinfield
quote:yes
You mean having a ton of sex before marriage and then it dries up once hitched?
Posted on 9/4/24 at 5:26 pm to White Bear
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yes
That's a tough one. I didn't have that issue. We decided to cool it sexually for a while before we got married. Maybe that helped? Do y'all have young kids?
Posted on 9/4/24 at 5:48 pm to LittleJerrySeinfield
quote:yeah but not too young 13-10.
Do y'all have young kids?
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:00 pm to deltaland
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I’m a millenial and when I was their age I was having sex 3x a day when in a relationship
Tell em’ man.
Back when I was a student at A&M and in my prime, I went through about 3 or 4 girlfriends in one year.
We fricked in my dorm, we fricked in my 1973 Camaro, we fricked in the bathroom of a Texaco gas station, etc. Hell, we even fricked in a grocery store with people in it!
Female Aggy students are some the wildest people you’ll ever meet. Those Latino girls are always up for Sex, doesn’t take much effort to convince Them !!
This post was edited on 9/4/24 at 6:15 pm
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:24 pm to JasonDBlaha
Whatever
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:26 pm to wmtiger69
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Whatever
Whatever? Come on man!
That’s just how us Ags go about our sex lives. We’re just a wild bunch of rootin-tootin Texans who love have to sex with beautiful women.
Guns, Beer, and Sex. Can you get any more Texan than that?
This post was edited on 9/4/24 at 6:28 pm
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:27 pm to N2cars
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I'm aware I'm an outlier in a positive way, but the friends I'm close enough to talk about these things with are still at least 4-5x per week.
Man, I'm not going to lie, I don't want sex 4-5x per week anymore
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:30 pm to fallguy_1978
Hey man, you planning to move out of state next year?
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:36 pm to fallguy_1978
That's fine, if you & Mrs. Fall Guy are a match in that respect.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:36 pm to SelaTiger
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I’m skeptical of anyone who has been married for 30 years claiming to have sex 3 or 4 times a week on average.
Why? Life doesn’t suck for everyone.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:38 pm to Alyosha
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Hey man, you planning to move out of state next year?
Not sure right now man. Our youngest is going to graduate HS in 2025. We are trying to figure out college and all right now.
Posted on 9/4/24 at 6:45 pm to fallguy_1978
At almost 70, and married for 45+ years, I still want sex daily. But I don't think I would survive....... sometimes all I need is a good pork roast.
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