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The adult male will mature only when he's exhausted all other options.

Posted on 12/29/14 at 10:55 am
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
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Posted on 12/29/14 at 10:55 am
T or F?

I heard this on NPR this weekend, but I had just turned the station and didn't get what it's in reference to. My dad and I got s kick out of it. He paid for the grand majority of my 8 years at LSU, so I just basically laughed and left it at that.

As a father of a son I wonder what I can do to speed up this process when the time comes. I probably won't be able to afford him 8 years of college to figure it all out.
Posted by Nado Jenkins83
Land of the Free
Member since Nov 2012
59603 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 10:55 am to
Don't raise a slacker like your father did
Posted by msutiger
Shreveport
Member since Jul 2008
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Posted on 12/29/14 at 10:56 am to
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This post was edited on 4/15/23 at 3:13 am
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 10:56 am to
quote:

8 years at LSU


wtf?

that would be depressing
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52925 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 10:58 am to
Why were you listening to Never Patriotic Radio?
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67027 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 10:59 am to
It's kinda true much of the time.

In the old days, people were going to work out of high school, getting married, and having kids before they turned 20. Why? Because they had to.

The economy has made such a lifestyle unnattractive, and the federal government has made the "slacker" lifestyle easy and comfortable. Why mature when you don't have to?
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38943 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:01 am to
I graduated twice, but I studied a different field in grad school. I was grown up when it was over though, moved out west and started work before the ceremony even happened.
This post was edited on 12/29/14 at 11:03 am
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:03 am to
F.

Social norms and expectations have something to do with it.
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
42459 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:04 am to
Pretty sure you and 911moto are twins
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38943 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:05 am to
I'll never get to retire though.
Posted by Grassy1
Member since Oct 2009
6250 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:17 am to
So, you consider graduating and getting a job maturing?
Posted by JETigER
LSU 2011 National Champions
Member since Dec 2003
7081 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:18 am to
the exception to this rule is if the male A.is not lazy and B.he finds what he believes is the "best option he will ever have"
Posted by 911Moto
Member since Sep 2013
5491 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:29 am to
quote:

Pretty sure you and 911moto are twins


You're comparing me to someone who took 8 years to graduate? I had my career planned out by 6th grade. Went to UNO on a top 10 scholarship (full tuition plus they paid for my car stereo and rims), got into dental school after 3 years of college (no summers - just 6 regular semesters, and still got my degree), and was the youngest in my class at dental school. I'm the definition of maturity.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38943 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:29 am to
No, I matured at some point in there...on the cusp between wandering around and putting in 2+ all nighters a week studying enough to graduate in physics. It wasn't as easy as I thought it would be for me and there were many 'come to Jesus' moments that pushed me toward maturity. Slowly, painfully...I also made a few friends who got me into climbing...that had a parallel effect to instill the 'giving up, failing, is not an option' part of maturity.

I moved to San Fran with my gf, wife of 12 years now, and left every security blanket and person that we knew. That wasn't the moment of maturity but a product of it.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
38943 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:33 am to
I think he's comparing our awkward message board personalities.
Posted by vl100butch
Ridgeland, MS
Member since Sep 2005
34625 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:35 am to
Considering the normal male known to the NPR employees....not surprised...

I don't want to go back to a draft, but you want to see some people grow up quick...run their rear ends through two years in the miliary...
Posted by HeavyCore
Member since Sep 2012
2552 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:42 am to
quote:

As a father of a son I wonder what I can do to speed up this process when the time comes. I probably won't be able to afford him 8 years of college to figure it all out.
You could do what my dad did and go into a coma and force the son to take care of everything. Worked wonders for me.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72029 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:46 am to
quote:

As a father of a son I wonder what I can do to speed up this process when the time comes. I probably won't be able to afford him 8 years of college to figure it all out.
You could do what Scruffy's dad does.

You get 4 years of college. If you can't graduate by then, you pay for it yourself.
Posted by 911Moto
Member since Sep 2013
5491 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 11:49 am to
quote:

I think he's comparing our awkward message board personalities.


I know - I was just utilizing the opportunity to insert my obligatory brag.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68446 posts
Posted on 12/29/14 at 12:17 pm to
College didn't write a check out to your car stereo dealer now did they.
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