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re: Terrible twos - when will it end?

Posted on 9/4/17 at 10:36 am to
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
26094 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 10:36 am to
Our 23 month old son never throws a tantrum. Seriously absolutely never. He is tall and likes to get into things like climbing on kitchen counter standing on chairs to climb on cabinets and such. But attitude wise this kid is amazing.

Now our almost 5 year old daughter is a whole other animal. Assitude
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120019 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 10:50 am to
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I think one of the issues is she spends the most time with him in the evenings. Both she and I work and I drop him off at daycare in the mornings and don't come home till 7:00-8:00.


So every day during the week you are not home for 12+ hours? Getting home at 7-8PM every weekday leaves your wife dealing with a lot when she gets home.

When kids throw their fits, ignoring them doesn't work? I do this to my nephew and friends kids. It might be different for parents, but when they throw a fit, I laugh at them and just ignore them.. When I laugh at them they try to hind the fact they are laughing and then realize I am not giving them attention for acting up.
Posted by chef tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2009
694 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 10:53 am to
It ends about 25.
Posted by Catman88
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Dec 2004
49125 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 11:31 am to
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Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
79034 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 11:34 am to
Patience, grasshopper.

Tantrums are annoying but they're not that important in the greater scheme of things. Kids will figure out they can't win.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60639 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 11:36 am to
We just suspended our life for about two years.

People will say they have an answer, they don't, their kids were just little shits that pissed everyone else off.

One word of advice, limit electronics. Let them figure out something else to appease themselves.
Posted by Polycarp
Texas
Member since Feb 2009
5722 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 12:45 pm to
It will end when you decide to make it end. Don't be a snowflake and start disciplining your child. Yes, I have raised 3, and no, we didn't put up with that crap.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 12:45 pm to
Lasted only about 4 months for us.
Posted by Restomod
Member since Mar 2012
13493 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 12:46 pm to
3 is like... Hold my sippy cup, watch this.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34400 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 12:59 pm to
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but I think sometimes you have to give in and try to have a conversation with the kid, no matter how futile.
WIITH A TWO YR OLD?

You tell that little fricker how it is and that's how it is. To do otherwise, that little fricker will grow up to question authority- teachers, cops, etc.
This post was edited on 9/4/17 at 1:01 pm
Posted by GeauxWrek
Somewhere b/w Houston and BR
Member since Sep 2010
5022 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 1:34 pm to
OP sounds like stereotypical beta. Jesus son grow a pair of balls and lay down the law.
Posted by Popths
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2016
4396 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 1:53 pm to
It stops when you start whipping dat arse.
Posted by Jumbo_Gumbo
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2015
5960 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 2:28 pm to
It's the terrorist 3's you have to look out for. All 3 of my kids were good till they hit 3.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
68950 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 2:30 pm to
My 3 year old just lost his mind because Alexa wouldn't play the song that he just made up.
Posted by Sheep
Neither here nor there
Member since Jun 2007
19694 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 2:38 pm to
I'm lucky - Mrs. Sheep (no pics) is just as much of a hard arse as I am.
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
14797 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 2:38 pm to
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My 3 year old just lost his mind because Alexa wouldn't play the song that he just made up.


Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
41382 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 2:39 pm to
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When will these terrible twos end


When he starts school, so about 5. Ages 5-12 are when they are at their most tolerable. Once they hit junior high and discover that you've been feeding them bullshite for years, the a-hole really comes out. High school is a challenge also. He will probably return to normal around 24-25.

As for your wife, make sure you're pulling 50% of the weight at home. It doesn't matter that you work longer hours, because it's still easier than dealing with a two year old.

Also, PIIHB.
Posted by saintforlife1
Member since Jul 2012
1370 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 5:43 pm to
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I feel for you brother. I would read over the replies to your second post and heed their advice.

You and your wife will be fine but you should definitely tow her line. At least until you're around a lot more.


Thanks. There is some good advice in this thread. I think my wife and I need to start communicating better. That would be a good place to start.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
14691 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 5:49 pm to
Here is the good news, somebody, one of you at least, has his attention as he is pushing back/exerting his will....is how we learn and grow

Enjoy the ride and the parents better get on the same page, FAST, as the challenges only increase

P.S. be wise and pick your battles
This post was edited on 9/4/17 at 5:56 pm
Posted by HubbaBubba
North of DFW, TX
Member since Oct 2010
50772 posts
Posted on 9/4/17 at 5:49 pm to
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3 is like... See that car coming towards the house?
Hold my sippy cup, watch this.
FIFY.

Replaceable with, "Is that really a pool? Hold my sippy cup, watch this."
This post was edited on 9/4/17 at 5:50 pm
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