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Talk about a time you found the ability to finally forgive someone
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:15 pm
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:15 pm
Years ago a good friend of mine killed himself over a girlfriend of his who cheated on him and got pregnant. It goes so much deeper than her just cheating and getting pregnant, though, but I'll spare y'all the tldr version.
Anyway, the girlfriend was someone I had known my entire life and I didn't forgive her for what she did for years. Then finally one day I just realized that I was only hurting myself by not letting go. The entire time I held that resentment toward her I found that getting over his death was one of the hardest things to do. Once I forgave her, in my heart, I felt so much better.
What's the OT's story of forgiveness?
Anyway, the girlfriend was someone I had known my entire life and I didn't forgive her for what she did for years. Then finally one day I just realized that I was only hurting myself by not letting go. The entire time I held that resentment toward her I found that getting over his death was one of the hardest things to do. Once I forgave her, in my heart, I felt so much better.
What's the OT's story of forgiveness?
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:17 pm to TDsngumbo
Im trying to forgive my 6 year old for eating the last bowl of Cinnamon Toast Crunch saturday morning..
Im not ready yet
Im not ready yet
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:18 pm to TDsngumbo
quote:i've got time
I'll spare y'all the tldr version
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:19 pm to Rouge
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quote:
I'll spare y'all the tldr version
i've got time
It is centered around a topic that is extremely political and controversial so I won't go there here.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:20 pm to TDsngumbo
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It is centered around a topic that is extremely political and controversial so I won't go there here.
Why would you start the topic if you were unwilling to talk about it?
This post was edited on 6/18/19 at 1:23 pm
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:21 pm to TDsngumbo
I forgave a wayward fart after misplacing my trust in it.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:22 pm to TDsngumbo
I held on to hatred of two people for many years. As I got older I realized that they probably didn't even know how much I hated them. I was finally able to understand that I was doing myself more harm than harm to them by holding onto the hate. I am very happy that I was able to let it go.
A very wise person once told me that holding onto hatred for a person is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
A very wise person once told me that holding onto hatred for a person is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:23 pm to IonaTiger
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holding onto hatred for a person is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
I've heard that too and that's 100% true.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:25 pm to TDsngumbo
quote:all you had to say is that she aborted the baby
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I'll spare y'all the tldr version
i've got time
It is centered around a topic that is extremely political and controversial so I won't go there here.
sucks all around, bro
you still lied about having a wife, tho
trust me...i kno
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:25 pm to shutterspeed
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forgave a wayward fart after misplacing my trust in it.
Did this happen in Lowe’s? Did your girlfriend do it as well?
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:25 pm to TDsngumbo
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It is centered around a topic that is extremely political and controversial so I won't go there here.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:26 pm to TDsngumbo
Did you put it in her pooper after you forgave her?
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:26 pm to TDsngumbo
I forgive you for this thread....I feel better already
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:27 pm to Rouge
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all you had to say is that she aborted the baby
I could have because yes, that's what happened. But it goes a lot deeper than just that and I won't go into all those details.
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you still lied about having a wife, tho
trust me...i kno
I have literally no idea what you're talking about here.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:28 pm to TDsngumbo
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I'll spare y'all the tldr version.
I'd actually read this one.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:28 pm to TDsngumbo
I've forgiven Derek Dooley for 3 years of ineptitude and for making me waste the first two years of my college career watching shitty football. I just realized that he was never cut out for the job and at least he fessed up to his mistakes (for the most part, aside from ruining some recruiting relationships).
I haven't forgiven Botch Jones yet. frick that guy.
I haven't forgiven Botch Jones yet. frick that guy.
This post was edited on 6/18/19 at 1:30 pm
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:28 pm to TDsngumbo
I forgiven more times than certain people deserve.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:30 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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I've forgiven Derek Dooley
That was a mistake.
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:37 pm to TDsngumbo
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It is centered around a topic that is extremely political and controversial so I won't go there here.
She took the BBC
Posted on 6/18/19 at 1:40 pm to TDsngumbo
I forgave my roommate for adopting a pitbull puppy when it “went missing” and he got real tore up about it. Just doing my best to comfort a friend.
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