re: Talk about a time you found the ability to finally forgive someone

Years ago my best friend (who was my roommate) was having an affair with the next door neighbor even though I warned him it would cause problems. Well, the neighbors husband found out and he moved out. The day after he moved out I had a knock at the door and when I answered the door two guys with guns tied up and robbed myself and my future wife (to this day I don't know why I didn't ask who it was before answering the door).
I can't prove it but I'm pretty sure the husband set that up. I moved out that day and didn't talk to my best friend for years. One Christmas he sent me a text and I decided to finally forgive him. I figured he didn't mean for that to happen and was just thinking with the wrong head.