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re: Spinoff: bigger red flag- 35 and divorced twice or 35 and never married?
Posted on 5/4/15 at 4:30 pm to soccerfüt
Posted on 5/4/15 at 4:30 pm to soccerfüt
Imagine divorced twice with two different sets of kids.
Jesus... kids from 2 broken homes and throw in the X's for a special pain in the arse.
Jesus... kids from 2 broken homes and throw in the X's for a special pain in the arse.
This post was edited on 5/4/15 at 4:31 pm
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Posted on 5/4/15 at 4:36 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Never married may be a career woman
Divorced twice means bat shite crazy
Divorced twice means bat shite crazy
Posted on 5/4/15 at 4:37 pm to Sandy_Ash
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Never married may be a career woman
So, a red flag, right?
Posted on 5/4/15 at 4:41 pm to Sandy_Ash
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Never married may be a career woman
Divorced twice means bat shite crazy
Why does never married get the excuses, but divorced lady goes straight to batshit?
Never married could also mean she thinks you and her dog should wear matching outfits every day.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 4:53 pm to kingbob
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divorced twice
Either she is the problem or she has horrible judgment. Both are deal breakers
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:02 pm to lsuwontonwrap
I only have my own experience to speak from. A woman twice divorced at 35 would be a huge red flag. Not having been married is not, unless she is a clinger-on type. Example:
My wife was 33 when we met. She'd never been married. No kids. We've now been together 18 years and married 16 years with two kids. However, that early focus on her career paid off. She's sold one successful business enterprise she started to Ross Perot and has been a corporate exec. at Dell/Perot for the last ten years, only recently leaving to help start another business and also accepted a senior management position for a Forbes top 25 company as a cloud systems architect.
So my experience would say, nope, not a red flag to have not been married previously.
My wife was 33 when we met. She'd never been married. No kids. We've now been together 18 years and married 16 years with two kids. However, that early focus on her career paid off. She's sold one successful business enterprise she started to Ross Perot and has been a corporate exec. at Dell/Perot for the last ten years, only recently leaving to help start another business and also accepted a senior management position for a Forbes top 25 company as a cloud systems architect.
So my experience would say, nope, not a red flag to have not been married previously.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:03 pm to OchoDedos
Divorced twice. I feel like some of my friends that got married were just settling on the first girl they had a serious relationship with. I'm not married and in no rush to do so if ever. I feel like it doesn't mean as much to people anymore and they give up to easily.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:08 pm to dgnx6
I'm 25 and single and I feel like I'm nothing close to the norm around here. I don't want to be married until 30ish or a little after. If I'm in some major city then add even more years.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:15 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Divorced twice by far
35 and single isn't exactly a green flag either though
35 and single isn't exactly a green flag either though
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:36 pm to yellowfin
Yeah, I'm 31 and the age range I shoot for is 24-29. They start getting cooky after 32. I'm also not looking to take over someone else's sloppy seconds, so a divorcee is out of the question
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:49 pm to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
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alot of people especially in bigger towns are waiting to their late 30s to get married
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not in the bumfrick south. All my friends are getting married in their early to mid 20s.
I cannot understand why, other than family pressure.
So true. I try to explain to my parents that just because all 50 or so people from my podunk high school class are married (mostly to people from other podunk high schools), having kids, and/or divorced by now (I'm 27), doesn't mean that's normal. It's a big world out there, and the rural South is a small sample size.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:56 pm to Slingin Pickle
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Exactly why there is a name for 35 + and never married. Noone wants them.......
Get out more.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:57 pm to LucasP
quote:You serious with this?
Shitty advice as always. Just more kids these days refusing to grow up, "hey you're not married yet, don't worry man let's just get drunk every night like we're 22 forever".
If you haven't met "the one" that's no excuse not to get married. At a certain age you do certain things. Grow the frick up.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 5:58 pm to lsuwontonwrap
You know how I know you don't live in the northeast. Majority of successful women worth a crap up here are single in their mid 30s
Posted on 5/4/15 at 6:00 pm to Jack Daniel
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I was in Livingston parish the other day and met a girl 35 and 2 grandkids.
I met an under-40 double-grandparent the other day too, at the hospital. They (grandma, mom, son + daughter) were receiving "free care", of course.
'Merica
Posted on 5/4/15 at 6:16 pm to Salmon
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35 and divorced twice
this
easily
Posted on 5/4/15 at 6:29 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Started dating my previous gf when she was 35 and had just ended her second marriage.
Current girl I'm dating is 35 and never married.
Previous is way crazier.
Current girl I'm dating is 35 and never married.
Previous is way crazier.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 7:00 pm to lsuwontonwrap
Single just means you haven't found the right person.
Divorced once might mean their ex was a bad apple.
Divorced twice? Good chance the problem is you.
Divorced once might mean their ex was a bad apple.
Divorced twice? Good chance the problem is you.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 7:22 pm to Bestbank Tiger
Yep two divorces at any age is a red flag.
Posted on 5/4/15 at 8:30 pm to lsuwontonwrap
I've been dating a lot of women in their mid 30s. That's a really tough call.
I haven't met anyone yet that was 35 and never married where there wasn't a noticible reason why. Either they were batshit crazy or the were impossible to please and had their standards set way too high that no man could ever make them happy.
Haven't dated a chick that had been divorced twice so hard to compare. I do have two buddies that have been divorced twice in their late 30s. Both are really solid guys, just gullible and easily taken advantage of.
I haven't met anyone yet that was 35 and never married where there wasn't a noticible reason why. Either they were batshit crazy or the were impossible to please and had their standards set way too high that no man could ever make them happy.
Haven't dated a chick that had been divorced twice so hard to compare. I do have two buddies that have been divorced twice in their late 30s. Both are really solid guys, just gullible and easily taken advantage of.
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