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Sorry to post on Christmas night
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:14 pm
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:14 pm
I’ve been dealing with overdrinking for years. It has always been a point of contention with my wife. I grew up in a family with a mother and a grandfather that were alcoholics. I always pick up a small Jamison or two at the gas station before going to the grocery store on Sundays and always make sure to grab one before we go out during the weekend to make sure I don’t look like an alcoholic with over ordering at the restaurant/bar we end up going to. I don’t ever crave liquor but when I start drinking I can’t stop. I don’t want attention but I guess I just need some answers as far as if anyone has dealt with this? I have a good job and it’s never affected it. Just when I start boozing I can’t stop. I live in New Orleans so also my life revolves around booze. It’s kind of frustrating. Also my hobbies revolve around it too: Hunting, fishing, and golf. It’s frightening to think about just giving up drinking. Sorry if this post is too much but I’m trying to look for answers somewhere. Also I know this can be echo chamber so sorry if this is too much.
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Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:16 pm to Newrow
quote:
It’s frightening to think about just giving up drinking.
With this line of thinking, you aren't ready to give it up
This post was edited on 12/25/20 at 11:16 pm
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:18 pm to Newrow
quote:
Just when I start boozing I can’t stop
Do you enjoy life without drinking? Seems like a pretty easy thing to avoid given you recognize your inability to stop after starting.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:19 pm to Newrow
Maybe try a different, better drug
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:20 pm to Newrow
Reaching out for help is the hardest & most important part. You can do it! Praying for you. God bless!
Srv-Life By The Drop
Srv-Life By The Drop
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:20 pm to Newrow
quote:
Also my hobbies revolve around it too: Hunting, fishing, and golf.
I do all these things frequently without drinking and it’s just as fun. Give it a try.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:22 pm to Newrow
What specifically brought you to post this on Christmas evening?
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:22 pm to Tyga Woods
quote:
Also my hobbies revolve around it too: Hunting, fishing, and golf.
Yeah it sounds like your drinking revolves around your hobbies and elsewhere.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:23 pm to Newrow
quote:
Also my hobbies revolve around it too: Hunting, fishing, and golf
Sorry but these hobbies don’t revolve around drinking. You have just warped your mind to thinking that. I do all of these without drinking.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:23 pm to Newrow
Sorry dude you are an alcoholic and probably close to loosing your family. It will only get worse. Get help or next Christmas you will be posting about the divorce... 
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:24 pm to Newrow
Friend,
Do not be embarrassed or ashamed for posting this here. It is important step in recovery for recognizing the grip alcohol has around your life. It truly is the first step in loosening it and allowing you to breathe and enjoy life again. Let this just be the first step. The next step, may I suggest, is getting in touch with AA: AA of New Orleans. You will be able to find a meeting every day of the week, or even do it virtually if you would prefer.
It takes a brave person to recognize what you have recognized, especially in a culture like ours. I will pray for you that you might wake up with the same urgency you have now, take action, and turn from this addiction.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
Do not be embarrassed or ashamed for posting this here. It is important step in recovery for recognizing the grip alcohol has around your life. It truly is the first step in loosening it and allowing you to breathe and enjoy life again. Let this just be the first step. The next step, may I suggest, is getting in touch with AA: AA of New Orleans. You will be able to find a meeting every day of the week, or even do it virtually if you would prefer.
It takes a brave person to recognize what you have recognized, especially in a culture like ours. I will pray for you that you might wake up with the same urgency you have now, take action, and turn from this addiction.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:24 pm to Newrow
Go to 90 AA meetings in 90 days
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:25 pm to Newrow
quote:What kind of answers are you looking for? Are you drinking every day? Have you had a physical lately to check your health/blood panel from drinking? Drinking takes a toll on your vitamin D levels and your body more than people realize.
don’t want attention but I guess I just need some answers as far as if anyone has dealt with this?
I didn’t drink alcohol until I turned 32. My fiancé died unexpectedly and I went down a pretty dark path of overdrinking like you’re describing to try to cope with the depression. It almost destroyed my health and ruined a few of my relationships. After a few years, by the grace of God, I quit cold turkey and have never looked back. It has been the best feeling.
If you think you have a problem, you probably do. I’m praying for you.
This post was edited on 12/25/20 at 11:27 pm
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:25 pm to TulaneLSU
I love you.
This post was edited on 12/25/20 at 11:27 pm
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:26 pm to Newrow
Sounds like you’re an alcoholic in quasi denial. You should stop putting yourself in social drinking situations. At that point, you can stop lying to yourself about the source of your problems, admit that you need to take corrective action, and move on from booze.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:29 pm to Newrow
It’s not easy to post what you did. Many in this board will make jokes, but it sounds like you are at a place where you are ready to make some changes. Talk to some trusted friends, pastor, or even AA. if you or your loved ones are thinking it’s an issue, it’s time to make some choices before it gets worse. It doesn’t go away without genuine commitment and a plan. Make plans, goals and agree to them publicly with your family and friends and they will help you meet them. If you can’t, then it’s time to increase the structure.
Cling to what matters: God, Family, Friends...in that order.
If you need to talk, or need help: username@yahoo.com
Cling to what matters: God, Family, Friends...in that order.
If you need to talk, or need help: username@yahoo.com
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:33 pm to Newrow
Good first step, seems you know there is a problem. Now you need motivation to quit. Don't lose your family over this, you'll regret it.
Quitting drinking is terrifying for all alcoholics, but it takes a lot of bravery to follow through.
Quitting drinking is terrifying for all alcoholics, but it takes a lot of bravery to follow through.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:36 pm to Newrow
If may be the whiskey talking, but you sound A-OK to me.
Posted on 12/25/20 at 11:36 pm to Newrow
You're an alcoholic. The consequences of your drinking will escalate. You should quit drinking. If you can't do it on your own you should go to rehab or AA. I am an alcoholic too. Merry Christmas.
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