re: So I'm suppose to help a woman move UPDATED #6

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Who cares, he gave her his availability. I

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I answered the question. This question is extraneous.

Some people have a hard time refusing their parents.

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If that doesn’t fit her needs then she can get fricked imo. This guy obviously is a massive pussy if he can’t figure this out on his own and comes here seeking guidance

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You sure are angry.

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I have fantasized about it over the years, but in reality no. Talking to her is exhausting. I like to minimized my time with her. She's the type of person where most jokes go over her head. She smart but she's kind of stupid smart if you know what I mean. She older now, but she dresses really well and not bad looking. Most guys would hit it. Probably the most I'd get out of her is a handjob, but I don't think she would handle it well mentally, because she would feel very, very guilty about it. I'm pretty sure something happened to her sexually a while back and it took her a very long time to get over it. She has a religious vibe that's almost a turn off. We're both Christians but she took it to another level when she was going thru her shite.

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Honestly sounds like someone I would screw. You'd be surprised how much more honest and interesting she is after the act.

There is a great book you should read called:

“Boundaries” by Henry Cloud.


Seriously.

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This little bit just convinced me you’re a huge, and I mean gigantic, poonaner baw. Just go ahead and help her move.

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I was going to begrudgingly help her move only because she is too fricking stupid to take many, many hints that I don't want to help her move. She's like a goddamn stray cat that keeps asking for food. After the third week of kicking at it and telling it to frick off you finally give in and feed it. She asked me when I was available. I set the fricking time when I was willing to help, which is Wed afternoon to Friday. Then she comes back with "Is tomorrow bad?"

frick it. I still haven't responded. She's gonna have to text me again before I respond to her. And I'm not going to help her unless it's Wednesday afternoon to Friday. If that's not convenient for her or too late, then too fricking bad. I'm gonna make this hard for her. And hopefully she never asks me to do shite again.

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She only calls you to move and nothing else? Eff that shite. I'm sorry but I am just not available I can't help you.

She's using you and then you're not even an afterthought.

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I know this. She is using me. Men get used. That's pretty much life for most men. We get used up and die. I don't want to help her and I've told her no in the past. And I would have told her no this time, but she asked me several times in front of our parents. I think it was obvious to everyone but her that I didn't want to help. And as I was leaving she ask me again because she was too stupid to take the hints I was dropping, so I begrudgingly say yes.

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I can't make it to help you move tomorrow, but I am free tomorrow night if you want to make me a nice dinner. We can talk about logistics for getting you moved later in the week then

Any response other than a yes on her making you dinner, and something comes up to prevent you helping at all. If she agrees on the dinner, make your (classy) move and go from there.

You're welcome.

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If I was interested in a relationship with her then this would be a great plan.

Then, I'm not sure what you're asking. You've said you fantasized about her and indicated that she is fairly attractive. We're not talking about marriage here, just a dinner and a shot at your fantasy.

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We're not talking about marriage here, just a dinner and a shot at your fantasy.

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The fantasy is nice. Reality would suck. I have a conscience and it is telling me that even pretending I want to spend time with her would be many times worse than helping her move.

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I can tell you are a nice guy

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Nothing gets a bitch wetter than a nice guy.

Op’s Probably gonna go over to his house tomorrow night to help her move and walk in on some other dude porking her.