re: So, dilemma with a woman

Have you considered that she's not really interested in you at all but is pretending to be in order to make her Ex Feel uncomfortable?

Is ‘jam session’ the best term to use for a 54 year old’s weekend band group? I’m not musical so honestly don’t know.

I have a friend from HS I still hang with about once a month. Nice guy, but completely unmotivated. Works odd jobs for cash, works mostly for other buddies landscape company and that’s mostly when I see him. I don’t care about his work ethic in our friendship for the most part but it definitely comes out occasionally.

But his ex wife is a hot Asian with a good career that dumped him for being worthless. I don’t know why I included Asian but she is. My point is just this, bros before Ho’s is fine if all you want is to get your dick wet. But if it has serious possibilities to become a relationship and he’s not a great friend then it’s always possible she is a better catch then he’s worth worrying about.

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Have you considered that she's not really interested in you at all but is pretending to be in order to make her Ex Feel uncomfortable?

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There is likely some truth in this but makes it all the more likely she wants to frick him and she’s likely game for anal.

Seems to me that 54 is too old to be worrying about things like Bro Code If you like her, ask her out. If after a couple dates you think there is a possibility of something long-term then tell your buddy because its best to hear it from you.

If he has an issue with it, then exert dominance by pissing on him and proving to her you are alpha by PIIHB.

after he bones the ex the first time, he can give his buddy a hug and kiss and say "we're eskimo brothers now".