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re: 'Silicon Valley' star Thomas Middleditch says swinging 'saved' his marriage

Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:20 am to
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
17714 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:20 am to
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Does it ever "work out" long term?

What's the point of getting married in that case?


I only know one couple who lifestyles, they are celebrating 10 years together and have been doing it from the beginning of their relationship.

Both are similarly rated in terms of attractiveness. The wife also tends to favor women rather than men which probably reduces some of the jealousy
Posted by finchmeister08
Member since Mar 2011
40134 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:20 am to
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It appears that he is the one that brought this up and she is going along with it.

that tells me she was already doing it.
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
39015 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:23 am to
He looks like a cuck.
Posted by 225Tyga
Member since Oct 2013
19714 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:27 am to
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one of my best friends and his wife are in an open relationship


What are their names?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86177 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:29 am to
Bill and Suzy Smith
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33050 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:30 am to
They sound ugly.
Posted by hawgndodge
Member since Jun 2009
5425 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:33 am to
Well they wear khakis
Posted by Pechon
unperson
Member since Oct 2011
7748 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:33 am to
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They have been married for 4 years. Do we know how long they have been swinging? What if they have already been doing this for 3 years and have it worked out?


I know of a few couples that have done it and none of them worked out eventually. It never does.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86177 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:34 am to
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I know of a few couples that have done it and none of them worked out eventually. It never does.


maybe you don't know about the ones they do work

Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64356 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:34 am to
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Marriage is more than just sex



Sex is still extremely important in marriage. I dont know how this world has got to this point where sex is a fully mechanical and none psychological act. This is how Hollywood operates and is not a universal truth by which most people live.


If you are uncomfortable with other dudes plowing your wife then you dont adopt this Hollywood view that sex is merely a physical act and nothing more.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86177 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:36 am to
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Sex is still extremely important in marriage. I dont know how this world has got to this point where sex is a fully mechanical and none psychological act. This is how Hollywood operates and is not a universal truth by which most people live.


Never said that sex wasn't important, nor any of the other nonsense you stated.

Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
177300 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:38 am to
lsunurse, word is this is big out in Arizona, huh?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:40 am to
If it is, I am unaware and NOT in that loop
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
59312 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:50 am to
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It seems more like he has a higher sex drive than she does,


So he’s in the exact kind of relationship that we all are.
Posted by donRANDOMnumbers
Hub City
Member since Nov 2006
17456 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 8:51 am to
so she didn't want to sex him and he was annoyed with it so he wanted to hit strange and she had already been hitting strange.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92246 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 9:01 am to
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So he’s in the exact kind of relationship that we all are.


dunno, old lady's seems to be picking up speed and surpassing me
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
59312 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 9:03 am to
I don’t have the patience to wait until I’m old like you old farts.
Posted by ladyluckUGA
Member since Feb 2014
6432 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 9:08 am to
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Sure, but sexual intimacy is a cornerstone of marriage. I don't get how sharing that with random people doesn't destroy a marriage.


are you implying one cannot have sex without sexual intimacy? I'm pretty certain every guy on this board can say they've had sex without having the feels for the woman. The emotional component is needed to have that intimacy with your partner.

I think the fact that he communicated this need to her after they were married seems to speak to some very good communication skills between the two. How many marriages suffer due to lack of communication? I suspect this marriage won't last simply because most Hollywood marriages don't...not because of this though.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
92246 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 9:11 am to
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I don’t have the patience to wait until I’m old like you old farts.


wait for what?
Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 9/18/19 at 9:11 am to
Some people seem kind of jealous of his hot wife who is fine with him banging other people.
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