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Should the firm handshake be only restricted to men?

Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:09 pm
Posted by Street Hawk
Member since Nov 2014
3460 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:09 pm
When you meet women in a professional setting and shake their hands, do you shake them as hard as you would a guy, or should you go easy? What's the right protocol?
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:10 pm to
I shake the same way with everyone.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:10 pm to
quote:

When you meet women in a professional setting and shake their hands, do you shake them as hard as you would a guy


Hell no

I give a semi-firm handshake, but I think a person would come off as an a-hole with hard grip on a dainty female hand.

ETA:

Except the butchy lesbian who does our landscaping. I give her the heat and she gives it right back.
This post was edited on 12/9/16 at 4:12 pm
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20877 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:12 pm to
quote:

only restricted to men


It's getting harder to tell who's who these days.

Are you sure it's a man you're shaking hands with?
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:15 pm to
I can't wait for the day an SJW chick tells me to shake her hand like man. I will crush her like Ivan Drago crushed Apollo.

Posted by nes2010
Member since Jun 2014
6756 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:17 pm to
How about the women that overcompensate and grip harder than most men? I knew one of those, she was the type that also had to let you know how smart she is. Insecurity.
Posted by NikeShox
Toula Baw
Member since Sep 2016
1251 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:18 pm to
I usually give the illuminati handshake
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43084 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:18 pm to
Ease up on a bitch.
Posted by TigerstuckinMS
Member since Nov 2005
33687 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:18 pm to
quote:

When you meet women in a professional setting


Why are you having meetings in kitchens? Are you a chef?
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
55441 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:19 pm to
I shake a woman's hand just like I would a child. Firm, but gentle. Slightly condescending.

Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69059 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:21 pm to
I shake firm, but I hate people that squeeze, when I am shaking the hand of a military friend I always grab further up so they can't do that military tough guy squeeze.

Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47365 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:22 pm to
I've had some men crush my hands when they've shook my hand to the point that I had to grab it back in pain. They lose immediate credibility with me for having such a lack of common sense.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43084 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:23 pm to
Are you a bit on the linebacker side of average?
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27369 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:29 pm to
I do the finger shake with women.

I lightly shake guys' hands.

If they pull some hulk shite while we shake hands, I will establish dominance when we shake hands upon leaving.
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:31 pm to
I usually just grab them by the pussy.
Posted by VABuckeye
Naples, FL
Member since Dec 2007
35494 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:32 pm to
I match their grip. It isn't that hard.
Posted by VABuckeye
Naples, FL
Member since Dec 2007
35494 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:34 pm to
quote:

I shake firm, but I hate people that squeeze, when I am shaking the hand of a military friend I always grab further up so they can't do that military tough guy squeeze.


Do people really not understand that if you grip in all the way to the thumb joint that they can't crush you hand? Just be sure to quickly go in all the way. Then it's just a matter of matching their grip.
Posted by ihometiger
Member since Dec 2013
12475 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:35 pm to
It can go either way--either you don't squeeze hard enough and the woman thinks you did it on purpose because she is a gentle woman (i.e. you are patronizing her) and not strong enough or you squeeze the shite out of her hand causing said female to accuse of trying to exert dominance over her.

I have avoided this trap altogether as all I do know is act like I'm Japanese and bow to them. It takes them by surprise.
This post was edited on 12/9/16 at 4:37 pm
Posted by MorgusTheMagnificent
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2014
1852 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:41 pm to
It's amazing has much you can tell about a baw by his handshake.
Posted by MorgusTheMagnificent
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2014
1852 posts
Posted on 12/9/16 at 4:44 pm to
My preferable handshake is the one ace gives roger prodactor when they first meet
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