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re: Should I Propose?
Posted on 12/30/21 at 6:38 am to BayouBengal21
Posted on 12/30/21 at 6:38 am to BayouBengal21
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Should I propose (and settle down) or wait a while.
I’m a 43 y/o lifelong bachelor so take this for what it’s worth: If you have any doubts the answer is no.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 6:45 am to BayouBengal21
Ya'll go to church together but have you nailed it yet ?
You don't want to propose to a girl who isn't good at the sex
You don't want to propose to a girl who isn't good at the sex
Posted on 12/30/21 at 6:53 am to BayouBengal21
The only person who should matter to is you.
Well and your girlfriend. If the topic has come up, you already know the answer.
As to the morons who complain about the sex, lack thereof or kind they get they’re either really lousy at it, terrible negotiators, or both.
Well and your girlfriend. If the topic has come up, you already know the answer.
As to the morons who complain about the sex, lack thereof or kind they get they’re either really lousy at it, terrible negotiators, or both.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 8:02 am to BayouBengal21
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9 months now
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don’t believe in divorce


Posted on 12/30/21 at 8:08 am to BayouBengal21
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I graduated from LSU in 2020
NO!
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24
Definitely NO!
Posted on 12/30/21 at 8:08 am to BayouBengal21
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we pray together,
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blowjobs
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no issues in that department
God doesn't hear the prayers of those who fornicate outside of marriage.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 8:17 am to BayouBengal21
Does she let you PIIHB?
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:21 am to BayouBengal21
As someone who is proposing tomorrow, it seems like you are trying to do too mucn too fast. I suggest that all couples buy a house first before they are engaged.
Because if you can get through that then you can get through anything.
You don't want to be busy with planning a marriage while you are in your first year of law school.
You are also going to be living like paupers unless the parents are involved, which imo they shouldn't be if you're going to take that step.
I've been with my gf for over three years. Yea, she gets frustrated sometimes that we aren't engaged but we have a lot together. We've traveled alot of places, got a dog after the hurricane, got our house and just need to get her a new car in the next year or so.
Basically, it's very manageable. I wouldn't take it to that level yet, nine months is nothing. Frankly, you do not even really know everything about your person yet.
Conflicts bring that resolution in time, I have a friend who is marrying someone they have never had an argument or a fight with, and I think that is a time bomb waiting to go off or isn't real at all.
Just my cents.
Because if you can get through that then you can get through anything.
You don't want to be busy with planning a marriage while you are in your first year of law school.
You are also going to be living like paupers unless the parents are involved, which imo they shouldn't be if you're going to take that step.
I've been with my gf for over three years. Yea, she gets frustrated sometimes that we aren't engaged but we have a lot together. We've traveled alot of places, got a dog after the hurricane, got our house and just need to get her a new car in the next year or so.
Basically, it's very manageable. I wouldn't take it to that level yet, nine months is nothing. Frankly, you do not even really know everything about your person yet.
Conflicts bring that resolution in time, I have a friend who is marrying someone they have never had an argument or a fight with, and I think that is a time bomb waiting to go off or isn't real at all.
Just my cents.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:24 am to BayouBengal21
Stopped reading after school teacher.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:25 am to BayouBengal21
Jesus Christ. FTGE. She’s banging someone else already. Deal with it.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:28 am to BayouBengal21
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Btw we’ve been together for about 9 months now & spend every weekend with each other.
Usually I would say not to get married because 1. Your young age 2. Been together less than a year. You seem very religious though, so I guess go for it
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:31 am to BayouBengal21
Do not propose after 9 months if you are starting law school. Finish law school and if you are still together after riding that freight train into hell then you are meant to be.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:34 am to BayouBengal21
9 months is insanely short
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:42 am to hometownhero89
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I suggest that all couples buy a house first before they are engaged.
If serious, this is hands down the dumbest advice I have ever seen on this board, and that is a highly competitive sport.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:43 am to BayouBengal21
Ask her if she believes divorce is a sin. If she says no, then don’t marry her.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:43 am to BayouBengal21
About exactly where I was when I gave Mrs FCP a ring. Except we had dated for 4 years at that point. Also, I had just enrolled in law school locally.
Only concern I’d have in your situation is that you haven’t made it a year on the dating side. In my experience, they can keep a lid on the crazy for a while, but it eventually pops up.
Only concern I’d have in your situation is that you haven’t made it a year on the dating side. In my experience, they can keep a lid on the crazy for a while, but it eventually pops up.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:53 am to BayouBengal21
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I’m currently waiting for my acceptance letters into law school
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definitely in love with he
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we’ve been together for about 9 months
Jesus what a recipe for disaster. If its that special, she'll be there after you finish law school and get a job. Chill TF out before you do something stupid.
Posted on 12/30/21 at 9:57 am to Kafka
God was telling this dude something....


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