re: Saw a man stealing at the store WWYD?

Not drunk. Was with a male friend at concert. Invited on to the tour bus. Nameless roadie said "come see". I am not stupid but I can be trusting, felt safe. Wish he would have bashed my brains in because then I woulda filed charges. Instead, it was an unwanted act of sex. And I complied, like a good girl, though no permission was asked or granted (I totally regressed). Still sucks. I see both sides of the coin, his side (she wanted it) and mine (never saw it coming).

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This is why you need a conceal carry permit.

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You don't get a concealed carry to become a vigilante. You get one to protect yourself...not to be a pretend badass.

What. The. frick.

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complied

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Try a different word

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. I was the kid who did what she was told, always.

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Ok?

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Do NOT pretend you know what I went through and back the frick off.

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Use your words to explain it better. You're on the OT lounge discussing it. Go see a psychiatrist if you need to talk it out

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ETA: How about you say, sorry you went through that, must suck. You people are amazing.

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I won't consent/comply with that request. I don't know you, but you need to seek help via professionals, not on the OT lounge

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Sorry the words confuse you.

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Sorry you don't understand the way words work.

Seriously though, you need to seek professional help. You brought it up in this thread about theft. I won't respond again.

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I would have told an employee

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This- you confront the dude and you are likely to get hurt or even shot...is it worth it? The store has cameras...they can prosecute.

When I was a kid, I caught another kid stealing my bike. I caught him and pushed him down a creek bank. I saw him about 20 years later and he still walked with a limp...just saying !

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This is why you need a conceal carry permit. You should have put him down and defended the store. The fact that you didn't makes you as guilty as he is.

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not saying this guy is innocent, but you going to end a life over something you may perceive as stealing? get real. what if he worked there and was messing already or already paid and didn't want a bag.

i don't like stealing either, but geez.

i think if i was to say something. i would alert an employee and let them handle it. not worth a personal confrontation.

i know certain situations judges are actually easy on people who steel food for family in poor circumstances.. not saying this qualifies when the guy is possibly taking beer.. but shoot, Lolo Jones use to steal when she was younger and had a struggling upbringing. again, I'm not saying it's right whatsoever.. now she shops with a recycle bag and says people assume she's stealing.



so before you go all Rambo on assumptions, perhaps find out exactly what is going on..

any ways, this related viral video is wild. this man tried to steal the whole meat section in his pants
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There was a woman who is prescribed ninety 2mg alprazolam monthly... As soon as she gets them filled she is usually in the newspaper for shoplifting. It's like people on Xanax just have the urge to steal.

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people on Xanax just have the urge to steal

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I lost two good friends to Xanax for this very reason