re: Red flags when you start dating someone

Posted by OweO

Plaquemine, La

Member since Sep 2009

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Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:30 pm to GermantownTiger

Bad breath.

Posted by Goldrush25

San Diego, CA

Member since Oct 2012

33963 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:33 pm to GermantownTiger

quote:
Mine is when they are constantly on their phone

I dunno, this is most women under 30.

Posted by Chiefagain

Member since Nov 2016

1808 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:34 pm to 50_Tiger

I've been known to make some gnats jealous.

Posted by 50_Tiger

Arlington TX

Member since Jan 2016

43444 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:35 pm to Chiefagain

Post more Chief

Posted by cwil177

Baton Rouge

Member since Jun 2011

29612 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:44 pm to GermantownTiger

She hacks your Facebook/phone and looks at your private messages.

Posted by SpqrTiger

Baton Rouge

Member since Aug 2004

9701 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:05 pm to 337tigergirl

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I don't get this... you all don't want a clingy woman but if a woman has a life.. it's too much for you. On the other hand, men shouldn't have to shift their schedule.

Maybe explains why I'm single... I travel for work all week so it makes it hard to date and keep a schedule

That's not what I'm saying at all. Sure, it's okay for a person to have a life... it's preferable, even.

What I'm saying is to watch out for those who have a life out of balance. Now, we all work. I'm mostly talking about those hours outside of work, that, hopefully, work doesn't intrude upon.

A good relationship is not something that you "fit into" your schedule. It should be a main focus of your life, neither distracting from, nor dominating who you are. Rather, it makes things easier. If that's what you want, and you don't have it, then perhaps you should take a look at how you spend your time. I say this in a friendly way. I mean no disrespect to you or anyone.

In my opinion, the best thing anyone can do to improve relationship success is to bring your "life" to your relationship, and not squeeze your relationship to your "life." Too many people have it backward.

The same advice goes for men and women, by the way. I was speaking from personal experience.

Posted by illinitiger

North then South

Member since Feb 2009

3320 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:21 pm to SpqrTiger

1. Has more guy friends than girl friends because "I just get along better with guys"
2. Short unnatural hair color
3. Multiple visible tattoos
4. Has more guy friends than girl friends
5. Wears multiple rings on multiple fingers (sounds weird but is true)
6. Smokes
7. Has more guy friends than girl friends
8. Has a little girl sing-songy voice
9. Talks shite about all her friends
10. Has more guy friends than girl friends

Posted by Havoc

Member since Nov 2015

39180 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:49 pm to Crimson1st

quote:
quote: Male friends.

This x 1000 as I know some of the action I have had with females that I referred to as "friends", you know there is more to that "friends" story...

Yeah, It's one thing if a girl has a friend group because of whatever that includes guys or something like that, but when it's like consistent FMMM or something similar, some long term boning or other weird shite is likely going on.

Posted by terriblegreen

Souf Badden Rewage

Member since Aug 2011

12267 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:53 pm to ThatMakesSense

Once had a chick tell me how huge her ex husbands cock was. I immediately stopped talking to her.

Posted by Havoc

Member since Nov 2015

39180 posts

Posted on 6/5/17 at 4:59 pm to 337tigergirl

quote:
I don't get this... you all don't want a clingy woman but if a woman has a life.. it's too much for you. On the other hand, men shouldn't have to shift their schedule.

I think the reasonable expectation is we both have our own lives and as we get to know each other and getting closer we make room to fit our thing into each of our lives. When one person doesn't appear to be moving in that direction, (always busy, etc) best to move on.