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re: Parents with adolescent age boys

Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:51 pm to
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
86119 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:51 pm to
quote:

"then we will fight".


Beat his arse before he gets too big.

You should be able to take a sixth grader.

Also, puberty. I got in trouble way more in middle school. A lot of it was acting up to impress girls.

Don't drug your kid. Discipline them. Kids are dealing with a lot at that age.

Do they not suspend kids? I set off a stink bomb in 7th grade. Got suspended for 3 and got my arse beat by my rents.

Never was suspended again. Never even got a detention in HS.
This post was edited on 9/21/18 at 12:54 pm
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
176134 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:53 pm to
quote:


A 6th grader with a phone is the first problem. If anything they should have a phone that only makes calls.
quote:

Areddishfish


you either had a child in the 90's or you don't have kids over the age of 5
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27818 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:55 pm to
quote:

kid sounds like he's fighting inner demons because he is learning of his conscious desire to be gay


quote:

He could be gay


No gays are allowed in my family so this can't be the case.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
176134 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:57 pm to
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No gays are allowed in my family so this can't be the case.


ahh... i see why your boy is so angry. water is always wet.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53103 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:58 pm to
Your marriage still rocky baw? He could be acting out over that. My parents split up when I was about that age.
Posted by TOSOV
Member since Jan 2016
8922 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:59 pm to
quote:

threatened to take his phone, he said "then we will fight"....(and didnt whup his arse, and took it)



You know how I know you are a cuck??
Posted by Deep Purple Haze
LA
Member since Jun 2007
68316 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 12:59 pm to
quote:

6th grade


one word. pussy
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48999 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:00 pm to
quote:


Time to break out the pimp hand.


Yea. My son snapped at me one time for walking in front of him during a Fortnite match. I gave him one warning:

"Son you talk shite like that again, I'm going to beat the everlovin shite outta you while your mic is still hot so all your buddies can hear you crying and make fun of you at school the next day."


True story. He STFU right quick.
Posted by eatpie
Kentucky
Member since Aug 2018
1575 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:00 pm to
your job as a parent is to prepare him for real life. If you acted stupid in real life, say at work, you'd have consequences. You lose things you have earned. He was a good kid, got video games and a cell phone. He acts up, like real life, he loses things he's earned.

Keep in mind though, if you didn't take his phone away immediately after he threatened you, you just broke him. It'll take a lot of work to get that back and fix what YOU broke.
Posted by Kcrad
Diamondhead
Member since Nov 2010
65314 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:01 pm to
quote:

he said "then we will fight".


The fight would've been on immediately after that statement. Dad was undefeated against me.
Posted by PurpleKnight88
Laplace, LA
Member since Jan 2009
856 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:02 pm to
quote:

We have never had any problems with him until this year. I took the PS4 away and threatened to take his phone, he said "then we will fight".


You should have told him to follow you into the garage with the phone, taken a hammer and smash the phone to pieces right in front of him. Then unplugged the PS4, taken it into the garage and asked him if he still wanted to fight.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
108534 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:03 pm to
I acted up at that age and turned out normal. Well, im not normal but I am a CPA with a wife and kids so I can at least pretend



Now you help me since your son is adolescent. What the frick is the deal with my 2 year old. He literally tears apart our house daily
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
108534 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:04 pm to
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Kick his arse then.....and keep doing it until he gets his shite straight

If I was a betting man, I would bet the odds lean pretty heavy that fathers who literally fight their adolescent and teenage boys have sons that end up in jail later in life
This post was edited on 9/21/18 at 1:05 pm
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32990 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:05 pm to
quote:

You should have told him to follow you into the garage with the phone, taken a hammer and smash the phone to pieces right in front of him. Then unplugged the PS4, taken it into the garage and asked him if he still wanted to fight.


Start with the PS4... It's cheaper than the phone.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
108534 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:06 pm to
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arse Whipping,he needs one.
I am all about being tough as a parent. I really am


But do yall really think the way to teach a kid who is already being physical at school is by being physical back towards them? You are simply reinforcing to him physicality and fighting IS THE ANSWER
Posted by tss22h8
30.4 N 90.9 W
Member since Jan 2007
18791 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:08 pm to
quote:

"then we will fight".
Those would have been my last words.
Posted by Fourteen28
Member since Aug 2018
1156 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:08 pm to
quote:

We have never had any problems with him until this year. I took the PS4 away and threatened to take his phone, he said "then we will fight".


Sounds like your son is the alpha in your house
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27818 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:09 pm to
quote:

Your marriage still rocky baw? He could be acting out over that. My parents split up when I was about that age


Yep, this is most likely the problem.

I'm pretty much a single parent, my soon to be x comes and goes in his life every 3-6 months depending on how drunk she is.

Guess I need to seek professional help, not sure I want to beat his arse when I'm about all he has.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
108534 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:10 pm to
quote:

not sure I want to beat his arse when I'm about all he has.


The OT is retarded. Having his father beat him up while he already is fighint at school and having a drunk mother is the worst thing you could do for him

quote:

Guess I need to seek professional help
This isnt a bad idea
This post was edited on 9/21/18 at 1:11 pm
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20543 posts
Posted on 9/21/18 at 1:11 pm to
quote:

Guess I need to seek professional help
Both of you.
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