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re: Paging married folks. Is Marriage really the end of sex ?

Posted on 7/27/23 at 8:38 am to
Posted by Don Quixote
Member since May 2023
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 8:38 am to
Nope, doesn't have to be.

After being married over 30yrs it's better now than it ever was. Obviously there are changes:

multi-hour sessions and same-day multiple sessions are rare events any more but they do still happen;

every day is out the window, sometimes back-to-back days, a few scattering 3 days in a row, but honestly 3-4 times per weeks is plenty now;

and because we know what each other likes and are unselfish givers the quality is off the charts better than I ever would have believed when I was much younger and earlier married.

One of the important things to remember is to view your life and relationship(s) in terms of "seasons" not taking conclusions day-to-day.
This post was edited on 7/27/23 at 8:51 am
Posted by Kay
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 8:40 am to
Yes.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:05 am to
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Please locate and identify the clitoris on a diagram before posting this nonsense
FALSE!

The existence of the clitoris is an artificial construct of BigAnatomy.
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:06 am to
I miss you when I’m not around
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:12 am to
Missing me is easily the best part of knowing me.
Posted by runningdad85
Member since Mar 2013
314 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:17 am to
We have a 3 and 5 year old and our sex life is the best it's ever been. Ya never know.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:19 am to
quote:

We have a 3 and 5 year old and our sex life is the best it's ever been. Ya never know.
In Arkansas, this statement would be disgustingly accurate but not as you originally intended it to impart.
Posted by Woodlands Tigah
Tejas
Member since Mar 2021
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:40 am to
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Please locate and identify the clitoris on a diagram before posting this nonsense



#3! I learned all about the clitoris while watching the documentary "Deep Throat"!


Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:41 am to
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this is one big issue i see. not just husbands but wives gain lots of weight and get low self esteem.


Yup, it goes both ways. A lot of the dudes I mentioned will also complain if there wife gains a lil bit. Glass houses, bro.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:43 am to
That’s a kid’s mouth there knucklehead.

Posted by CaptSpaulding
Member since Feb 2012
6966 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:47 am to
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Women have forgotten what marriage is biblically about bc feminism retards…..a woman gives herself to the husband..no not as a sex object. But women don’t understand what rejecting sex does to a man’s psyche…


Posted by LSUfanNkaty
LC, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2015
11944 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 9:59 am to
Ehh... the end of a good bj, yes. But I'm coming up on 13 years and we do it every other day
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
15777 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 11:09 am to
quote:

Ehh... the end of a good bj, yes.



yup. They get progressively worse.

Posted by iwyLSUiwy
I'm your huckleberry
Member since Apr 2008
40844 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 11:28 am to
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Every married guy I know says the following:

After a year or two of marriage, the frequency of sex plummets.



We're in year nine and it's gone down a little, but we're still 2-3 times a week. Not even remotely close to plummeting. I'm still very much attracted to my wife though and I'm sure she'd say the same. we're both in good shape as well so the energy is there.

You're friends don't speak for everyone. I had a friend complain about this not long ago and I just rolled my eyes because he and his wife have gained a bunch of weight. Maybe if you'd lose some weight or get your energy back up you'd increase your sex drive.

Posted by saintkenn
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 11:28 am to
My wife and I got married later on in life. Both of us had been previously married and had been single for a while. My wife is in her early 40's and has hit that stride where she is all about it. Hell, I find myself faking headaches sometimes now! She would be perfectly happy with twice a day everyday!
I recently got on trt so the frequency has picked up even more now. We travel when whenever we can and keep things fresh. Having older kids that can watch themselves helps obviously.
Posted by SantaFe
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2019
7652 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 11:30 am to
Lots of variables involved , probably could construct a flowchart.

Banged first wife (no pics) 3 to 4 times a week even with having two children. Then out of the blue she decides that I am boring and she needs a millionaire so I get tossed out and cast aside.

Got a better second wife ( no pics), no kids ,but she just lays there and only wants one position and I have to do all the foreplay activity, so 3 times a week can be an effort.

I've accepted the fact that something is wrong with me.
Posted by iwyLSUiwy
I'm your huckleberry
Member since Apr 2008
40844 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 11:36 am to
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Would be like eating the same meal every night for the rest of your life and getting excited about it.



I guess this comparison would work if you were doing it in the same position every time and not cumming at the end.

We're not on decades yet but it's still pretty easy to mix things up and when you're actually good at it, it's not at all monotonous.
Posted by Don Quixote
Member since May 2023
4245 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 11:41 am to
quote:

Ehh... the end of a good bj, yes.

yup. They get progressively worse.



sorry to hear that, my experience has been very much the opposite
Posted by Big Daddy Kayne
Member since May 2020
437 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 12:51 pm to
in my case...yes
Posted by cmayes56
Alabama
Member since Oct 2015
3237 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:32 pm to
No..
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