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re: OT advice. First breakup after my marriage

Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:53 pm to
Posted by GuiceIsLoose
Member since Dec 2016
73 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:53 pm to
She said communication was the biggest reason for ending it. She did seem to be on her phone a lot lately though even though she said she "only dates one person at a time"
Posted by lsuson
Metairie
Member since Oct 2013
15011 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:57 pm to
Move on. End of story
Posted by statman34
Member since Feb 2011
3594 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:57 pm to
I'm of the opinion that 99% of the time a man or woman ends it because there is another person they are already with. Most people don't quit a relationship if they are not already banging someone else.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
148226 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 4:58 pm to
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GuiceIsLoose

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1. She's beautiful

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2. Young and smoking body


No she isn't... she may be young, but that's about it
Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11594 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 5:00 pm to
quote:

GuiceIsLoose


She's not ready for anything long-term (plus based on your description of the situation, it would be a 99% probability to never work anyway) and, clearly, neither are you.

Move on and get your shite together. It's bad enough to be a divorcee, and it would be exponentially worse for you to do it again.
Posted by goldennugget
NIL Ruined College Sports
Member since Jul 2013
26083 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 5:08 pm to
quote:

She said communication was the biggest reason for ending it. She did seem to be on her phone a lot lately though even though she said she "only dates one person at a time"


Watch what they do not what they say rule #1 in dealing with women

Women will only leave a man for one reason and that's because the woman believes she has a better male option to branch swing to
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108131 posts
Posted on 7/3/17 at 5:11 pm to
You forgot the cons concerning you other than you were divorced not so long ago.
Posted by GermantownTiger
Member since Jan 2015
3337 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 7:55 am to
Does she have friends?
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19978 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 7:59 am to
not naw, but hell mother fricking naw, baw. git!
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
25126 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 8:26 am to
No job despite not being in school....run. Those type of women are just looking for a man to take care of them financially so they can sit at home all day and not have to work.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19978 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 8:29 am to
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5. She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff



dude, this bitch is barely a grown woman and already welfare queening it?! 10 years or fewer she'll be fat as frick waiting on her check eating nutella out the jar.i think you know the answer to this.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
58483 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 8:31 am to
Where does an old arse like you meet a 20 year old? Work at a restaurant?
Posted by BeachDude022
Premium Elite Platinum TD Member
Member since Dec 2006
36406 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 8:35 am to
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That is a ridiculous amount of baggage. move on brotha


What he said
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45383 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 8:36 am to
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1. She doesn't have a job nor an education after high schoo


She sees you as an ATM. I bet she likes to travel and needs many things she cannot afford. You would be responsible for paying for anything she decides she wants on a whim. There goes your boat.

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2. She has been in and out of the hospital all her life for things like brain surgery



Once you are responsible for her med bills you can start shopping for a $2500 car. You will never be able to afford anything nice.

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3. She lives with her mom and they aren't sure whether they will even stay in the area


You will become responsible for paying for her flights to visit mom. There goes your ATV.

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4. She was married at 18 to a military guy, moved to Italy and then got divorced. Abusive relationship


There goes your sex life. Once she has you hooked, her mental issues will make it impossible for her to have sex.

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5. She may never be able to go to school or work full time be of her medical stuff


There goes your retirement fund. Since she has no money of her own, or an understanding of what it takes to make it, she will take ownership of the money you make and decide how it is spent.

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she said she didn't think I was ready for a relationship yet


Somebody else is stretching it now. Be thankful she found them and run like a scalded monkey from this succubus.
This post was edited on 7/4/17 at 8:38 am
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
45383 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 9:18 am to
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SuperSaint

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1. She's beautiful

quote:

2. Young and smoking body

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No she isn't... she may be young, but that's about it


You have forced him to show his hand by adding pics. He doesn't want to but not only is he obligated, he has been called out.
This post was edited on 7/4/17 at 9:21 am
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
21446 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 9:20 am to
That's a whole lot of baggage for a 20 year old
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
27575 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 9:26 am to
quote:

'm 28 and have been dating a 20 year old for the last month and a half or so. I


There should be zero question. Not in the age of Tinder or whatever replaced it.
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1. She's beautiful
2. Young and smoking body.


Advice. Take her out one night and pop a viagra. Drink only a drink or to tops, and tear that arse UP one last time. put that shite in the spank bank and move on.

In 2 years you will be 30 and she will be 22. That alone will cause stress and embarrassment with your friends. Much less if she is crazy.

Travel. Move. If that is at all an option hop to it. I love my life and wife and family, but that is a regret. While I was single I should have traveled more BY MYSELF. I enjoy going to bars alone sometimes. At 26-28 I thought it was odd. Now I enjoy it.
Posted by tylercsbn9
Cypress, TX
Member since Feb 2004
66599 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 9:29 am to
That baggage would make the airlines light up with all the fees they'd collect from it. Christ.
Posted by Walking the Earth
Member since Feb 2013
17390 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 9:38 am to
I think you realize that this is for the best.

You just need to let the sting of being dumped by a brain damaged and jobless 20 year old subside first.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
53525 posts
Posted on 7/4/17 at 10:02 am to
I'm watching the Twilight Zone Marathon on SyFy and this question popped to mind:

Is it possible that she's an Android? Those frequent "brain surgery" trips might be tune-ups and oil changes.

You don't want to be married to an Android, so, the break-up is for the best.
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