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Opinion on cash wedding registries?

Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:11 pm
Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:11 pm
I talked my fiancé into doing this, but she was reluctant. She thinks people will see it as tacky. We already own a home and have furnished it. If people are going to give us gifts, I would rather it be cash than a bunch of items we don't really need - even if people think it's weird.

We are explaining our situation and saying the money will go to home improvement projects and the honeymoon (which it will), but curious to what people in general think about this?
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:12 pm to
Asking for cash is absolutely tacky.
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
19374 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:13 pm to
I would probably spend more on a gift than give someone cash.

But if you already have all the shite you need then go for it.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:13 pm to
things like HoneyFund? I've given cash to a couple that was registered on a site that went towards their honey moon. Like I paid for one of their excursions while in the Caribbean.

anyways go register here: LINK
This post was edited on 4/5/17 at 1:16 pm
Posted by LSUvegasbombed
Red Stick
Member since Sep 2013
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:13 pm to
rather cash as well

Also, as a guest i would rather it as well. I dont have to go shopping and out my way to get you a present.

However, I am a dude
Posted by HammerheadLincoln
The farther west the farther out
Member since May 2015
5807 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:13 pm to
Doesn't sound like a bad idea to me really, but people really enjoy giving gifts. Expect a few people to get mad
Posted by iknowmorethanyou
Paydirt
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:13 pm to
I'd still buy you a 5 piece flatware set from BB&B fwiw.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
52834 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:14 pm to
I don't give a frick. Better than buying some pointless shite for the couple who already has everything IMO
Posted by Count Chocula
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Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:14 pm to
No offense but:

Trashy, and Im thinking your wedding will also have a cash bar? = Trashy Squared
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:14 pm to
Ask for gift cards instead of straight cash. You'll get plenty enough of that already.
Posted by dat yat
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:14 pm to
Tacky. Just have a couple extra Money Dances instead.
Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:15 pm to
quote:

Also, as a guest i would rather it as well. I dont have to go shopping and out my way to get you a present.


There's this nifty thing called the internet. You can buy a wedding present and have it delivered wrapped and with a card all from your couch.
Posted by Sneaky__Sally
Member since Jul 2015
12364 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:15 pm to
I don't buy wedding gifts, my presence is a gift in and of itself
Posted by Major Dutch Schaefer
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Member since Nov 2011
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:15 pm to
quote:

Asking for cash is absolutely tacky.


/thread
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:16 pm to
Even tackier. If that's a word.
Posted by BeerMoney
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Member since Jul 2012
9008 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:16 pm to
I was in a similar situation. We asked people not to bring gifts at all. So we got rando shite and a few gift gift cards. Just about every single person brought something.

Just sign up for stuff that's easy to bring back and make your life easier. People expect to give shite at a wedding.
Posted by NYCAuburn
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Member since Feb 2011
57015 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:17 pm to
quote:

I would rather it be cash than a bunch of items we don't really need


You can return the gifts and combine to get what you really want

quote:

cash wedding registries?



Trashy as frick.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11637 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:17 pm to
I can't believe she agreed. Asking for cash is the #1 faux pas, and every bride is made acutely aware of this during wedding planning.
Posted by Count Chocula
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Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:17 pm to
quote:

my presence is a gift in and of itself
Keep telling yourself that..
Posted by iAmBatman
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Member since Mar 2011
12382 posts
Posted on 4/5/17 at 1:17 pm to
Asking for cash is tacky and trashy, no matter what the occasion
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