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re: Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Posted on 2/1/18 at 11:36 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Posted on 2/1/18 at 11:36 am to Roadkill Gumbo
Cheating is kinda like using cocaine, and people tend to fall into one of two types:
the ones that can do few bumps one night, and never touch it again...and the others that just can't put it down. Problem is, by the time you figure out which one you are, it's too late.
the ones that can do few bumps one night, and never touch it again...and the others that just can't put it down. Problem is, by the time you figure out which one you are, it's too late.
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Posted on 2/1/18 at 11:37 am to Roadkill Gumbo
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Once a cheater, always a cheater?
Yes
Posted on 2/1/18 at 11:41 am to The Torch
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A Whores A Whore
^^^^^
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:00 pm to LNCHBOX
What is that old saying, you can paint one picture and not be a painter, and you can build one house and not be a carpenter, but if you bang one goat, you are always a horse fricker?
That is a cheater.
Also, if you do not have the respect to not cheat the first time, that does not just magically come to you.
That is a cheater.
Also, if you do not have the respect to not cheat the first time, that does not just magically come to you.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:07 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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Have to look at her situation. My wife cheated on an ex with me, but when she did she was done with him. It was all over but the moving van. She was cheated on multiple times.
I think "transition" cheating is harder to judge and use as a warning sign. I mean, a girl who has 2-3 serious relationships in her entire life and cheats on one on the way to the next? I'd put that in a different category with girls that have flings during relationships.
In other words, a girl cheating in an attempt to build a new, serious relationship is probably different than a girl cheating because she gets bored or needs more sex.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:40 pm to Roadkill Gumbo
I think it depends on th situation. Bad relationship, got drunk one night, made a mistake... I could understand that. Not saying it’s ideal, but it would be an outlier and not an established pattern of behavior. It would make me suspsicious, though.
If she cheated multiple times, though, then that is a pattern of behavior and it would be a deal breaker.
If she cheated multiple times, though, then that is a pattern of behavior and it would be a deal breaker.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:41 pm to Roadkill Gumbo
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One day, somehow you find out that she cheated on a former bf of hers, someone that she told you about but she neglected to tell you the whole truth.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:42 pm to TH03
"somehow found out" = she did not tell you about it. Not trustworthy, although I am not sure how many people would disclose something like that.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:43 pm to crispyUGA
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got drunk one night
Worst excuse ever. I've been drunk a lot and it hasn't made me cheat. In fact, a lot of people get drunk every day and manage not to frick someone else
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:46 pm to jchamil
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Worst excuse ever. I've been drunk a lot and it hasn't made me cheat. In fact, a lot of people get drunk every day and manage not to frick someone else
Yup, being drunk has only made me bang fat chicks.
I lie. I would probably have banged them sober too. Call me Ahab, but damn do they appreciate it. Make sandwiches after too.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 12:49 pm to mtntiger
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Sorry, but once a cheater always a cheater. Sadly, I know several people (men and women) who have cheated and they just can't stop. They may go a while before straying, but all they need is an excuse.
I'm going to have to agree here. For example, I was involved with this chick who - I didn't find this out until later - was married three times. She cheated on her second and then on her third. And I found evidence that there was another affair partner (making it 2) on her third marriage.
So, yes. They don't say a leopard can't change its spots for a reason.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 1:42 pm to Pettifogger
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I think "transition" cheating is harder to judge and use as a warning sign. I mean, a girl who has 2-3 serious relationships in her entire life and cheats on one on the way to the next? I'd put that in a different category with girls that have flings during relationships.
You’re right. The main difference is the last time they do it it leads to divorce...
Posted on 2/1/18 at 1:47 pm to TH03
Agreed
Posted on 2/1/18 at 1:49 pm to fr33manator
Better than doing heroin,crack or meth, but I wouldn't trust a cheater anymore than I would a junkie/crackhead/methhead.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 2:03 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
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You’re right. The main difference is the last time they do it it leads to divorce...
It's just another variable. I imagine there are a ton of those "transition" stories that work out fine.
My point is that I don't think a girl doing that in college is necessarily indicative of a girl who is going to do that in marriage, with kids, etc.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 2:05 pm to Roadkill Gumbo
All females hit an exploration stage in their early 20s.
Posted on 2/1/18 at 2:07 pm to Roadkill Gumbo
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One day, somehow you find out that she cheated on a former bf of hers, someone that she told you about but she neglected to tell you the whole truth.
Boyfriend does not equal husband. Did she break any oaths to him or God?
Posted on 2/1/18 at 2:09 pm to Roadkill Gumbo
Never leave her alone after an argument..... your key want fit the lock anymore
Posted on 2/1/18 at 2:09 pm to Roadkill Gumbo
Dating someone else while not married---is that cheating???
Posted on 2/1/18 at 2:33 pm to Roadkill Gumbo
Ask her about it. If she freaks all the frick out and/or starts screeching about you "getting in (her) business", get the ring back because she's probably cheating or getting close to cheating on you.
If she tells you about it just listen and don't judge. Afterwards she's going to be extremely emotionally vulnerable so do your damnedest to be as supportive as you can. Let her know that what she did with/to other guys is in the past as long as you are concerned but that you'll not tolerate her cheating on you.
If she tells you about it just listen and don't judge. Afterwards she's going to be extremely emotionally vulnerable so do your damnedest to be as supportive as you can. Let her know that what she did with/to other guys is in the past as long as you are concerned but that you'll not tolerate her cheating on you.
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