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re: (NO PICS) So my wife just spent $700 on my daughter's homecoming dress

Posted on 8/16/15 at 6:02 am to
Posted by BuckeyeFan87
Columbus
Member since Dec 2007
25249 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 6:02 am to
Yeah, with your salary that's absolutely not ok. Hell, it's not even prom, it's homecoming. Just be prepared for how much she'll be planning to drop on prom now if you can't get her in line by then


And I honestly hope your lady works.
Posted by its1999
Member since Aug 2009
1040 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 6:11 am to
quote:

I'm in the military, not an officer.


Ok, you absolutely CANNOT afford this then. Take it back. Good suggestions for alternatives on here.

Tell your wife I'm a military spouse too, and she should be ashamed and should know better. Our household income is higher, but no way in hell would I spend more than $100 on a one use dress.
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 6:17 am to
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Does that not seem like a frick load? Or am I just old?


I spend money pretty profligately and that seems pretty excessive. The most I've ever spent on a suit was $1100 and that was due to time constraints (Brooks Bros was the only decent store that could have it ready for a funeral I had to attend in 24 hours) and I still felt like an arse. Keep in mind I'll be able to wear that suit for 20 years.

You may think you're being good to your daughter, but all you're doing is (1) screwing up her expectations and (2) wasting money.

Put that money aside for when she goes off to school.
Posted by JJBTiger2012
Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
1891 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 6:22 am to
Do they plan on selling it when done? I've heard of ppl doing that and getting SOME of their $ back. OP I have a young daughter that will one day be needing shite like this. If the situation ever happens when it's "daddy I have to have it", I'll prob break down and hand her my card. You sound like a sucker!l but agh, it takes one to know one
Posted by Voorhies7
Rounding 3rd
Member since Oct 2012
5591 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 6:30 am to
quote:

(NO PICS) So my wife just spent $700 on my daughter's homecoming dress(Posted on 8/15/15 at 10:38 pm) 22


Where did she by a $700 dress at 10:38 pm?

Story sounds like BS.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
46865 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 7:05 am to
It is a power play by your wife. Your daughter is in high school and too dumb to know this is not acceptable.

Your wife will use the excuse of your level of love for your daughter for justification. It will eventually come down to "You cannot tell ME how I can and can't spend OUR money."

It is a test and so far, you are a sucker.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 7:23 am to
Want to feel worse? Go to dillards and see all of the perfectly fine dresses there for far less than $700. I bet at least one even looks like the dress your wife bought and I bet if you bring your daughter she will pick at least 3 that she likes just fine.
This post was edited on 8/16/15 at 9:04 am
Posted by Hoyt
Alabama: The Beautiful
Member since Aug 2011
5693 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 8:02 am to
To the OP: You need to get this under control ASAP. It will only get worse if you do not and lead to secrets and lies.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 8:24 am to
Your wife is out of control. You need to PIIHB immediately.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40230 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 8:39 am to
I'm a mom ... That's insane. My daughters was $100 and that was the most I was paying. Is your daughter a senior and on court or something?? It's early to be announcing I would think but no way on earth I'd spend hat kind of money. And we can definitely afford it.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 8:50 am to
That's outrageous. Where did she go?

Posted by threeputt
God's Country
Member since Sep 2008
24807 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 8:51 am to
That's expensive but not super crazy. I think the wife spent $500 for a dress for the daughters one year old pictures.

Who really cares how much it is if she really likes it
Posted by tracytiger
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2009
3631 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 8:52 am to
There are really nice dresses out there for $300-350. Who is your wife trying to impress.

The dress should be returned.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 8:54 am to
I buy my nice dresses at nordstrom. The most I think I've paid is $350
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32065 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 9:27 am to
She might have spent $50 because she won't be wearing it long.

Joke only applies to daughter if she's 18.
Posted by dpd901
South Louisiana
Member since Apr 2011
7899 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 9:34 am to
The real shittyness of this situation is the wife put OP in an impossible situation. If he makes a stink about the dress, the daughter will develop daddy issues and rebel by blowing the basketball team. Man... So glad I only have sons.
Posted by Delirium
Member since Dec 2008
2415 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 9:49 am to
So damn glad I have all boys. Dodged multiple expensive bullets there.
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32737 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 9:50 am to
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So glad I only have sons.


Knowing my luck whenever I have kids I'll probably get stuck with all girls.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21868 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 9:54 am to
Rent a dress. That works for lots if people for a one time scenario!
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39661 posts
Posted on 8/16/15 at 9:58 am to
You can't re-wear them b/c pics. We have a closet full of homecoming, prom, sorority,,etc dresses.

Most girls are pretty knowledgeable and won't spend over $200, at most.
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