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re: No More Sex - How would you react?

Posted on 8/27/16 at 1:48 pm to
Posted by Mud_Till_May
Member since Aug 2014
9685 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 1:48 pm to
I'm headed to the titty bar at least.
Posted by ShermanTxTiger
Broussard, La
Member since Oct 2007
10835 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 2:01 pm to
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Let go of what?


My wife can't let go of the girls to grow up and deal with the issues life brings. My 22 year old calls and has a melt down if anything goes wrong. My wife picks up the pieces every time. It is not only doing them a dis service but it pisses me off. Like I said, it is the only thing we have issues with. Sex and money are fine.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22290 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 2:07 pm to
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Sex and money are fine.


The two caveats that lead to divorce, especially money. I think you're fine dude. 22 yr old girl drama will subside. Girls at that age overreact to the slightest issue. The key is to let them work through their problems and don't become an enabler. You have to step back from time to time, however, remain close and make them aware you're there for them when real trouble arises.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 2:12 pm to
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, but 100lb spinners disproportionately love them some fat guys.
no they don't
Posted by Buck Magnum
Springdale
Member since Dec 2003
11610 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 2:18 pm to
It happens. Nowadays I can just farther in front of her and not care anymore. I'm not getting any on the side. Women just don't find screaming kids and car seats sexy.
Posted by Sody Cracker
Distemper Ward
Member since May 2016
3409 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 2:49 pm to
On second thought, your friend should start hiding money on a regular basis, if possible. Once the kids are grown he can hit the door. Meanwhile, he should get some side poon. Unless it is physical, I don't think his wife is worth the oxygen she breathes.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
27321 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 2:57 pm to
You don't brag abouthe quantity. You brag about quality.

On that point, I kept quiet.
Posted by Tempratt
WRMS Girls Soccer Team Kicks arse
Member since Oct 2013
13262 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 3:16 pm to
This is crap. She's getting from some other place.
Posted by sealawyer
Coonassganistan
Member since Nov 2012
3138 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 3:31 pm to
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He's also very confident she's not getting any on the side


This has been mentioned a dozen times in this thread but I need to chime in, have him hire a Private investigator, find out who she's fricking, document it, then live the life of a single guy again without having to pay spousal support (and if you get a really good lawyer, child support).

She absolutely is fricking someone on the side. How you don't see this is more frustrating than laughable at this point. You are being a shitty friend if you tell him to do anything else.
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 3:33 pm to
I know a woman who used to be a hooker. She said that was most of her middle aged clients. Wife doesnt take care of the business, any more so husband goes and rents a slice now and again.
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 3:35 pm to
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She absolutely is fricking someone on the side. How you don't see this is more frustrating than laughable at this point. You are being a shitty friend if you tell him to do anything else.


Well, even if he trusts his wife and she is NOT getting any on the side, then at least he has peace of mind.

Some women especially after menopause, just lose interest.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 3:53 pm to
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She absolutely is fricking someone on the side
are you retarded?
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and if you get a really good lawyer, child support
exactly how retarded are you?
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22290 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 4:53 pm to
What's the going rate for hookers now?
Posted by Soft_Parade
Member since Sep 2005
2501 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 4:59 pm to
Posted by 62Tigerfan
Member since Sep 2015
4614 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 5:27 pm to
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He says he respects her wishes and just faps a lot.




Dr Phil: "She sounds like a challenge. Send the little lady to me for three hours."
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 5:29 pm to
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Some women especially after menopause, just lose interest.



That's not an excuse.

I don't have any interst in half the dumb shite my wife wants to do. I do it anyway.

At bare minimum, a hand job here and there right?
Posted by StreamsOfWhiskey
The Woodlands, TX
Member since Jun 2013
570 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 6:01 pm to
You guys obviously aren't Pogues fans.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 6:05 pm to
My reaction to my wife cutting me off and being patient as hell for three years was to finally file for divorce. Wound up getting the house, full custody of kids, and giving her a vehicle, all of her jewelry, and a modest cash settlement. Best investment I have made in a damned long time.
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 6:13 pm to

"Then she would probably leave and take all his money with her. Cheaper to keep her, as they say."

No, trust me from personal experience. You just need to find the right lawyer and nail the future ex before she finds one and nails you. Timing and getting a good pit bull lawyer is everything.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 8/27/16 at 6:45 pm to
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That's not an excuse.

I don't have any interst in half the dumb shite my wife wants to do. I do it anyway.


This.

If both parties are invested in a healthy relationship, there are constantly going to be times that you're doing something with the other that you'd probably rather not. Gotta compromise a bit in any relationship to make things work.

Once one side refuses to budget on something as big as intercourse for vague/selfish reasons, that's a problem. Especially if they refuse to seek counseling.

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