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re: Never date single moms.

Posted on 6/29/25 at 3:54 pm to
Posted by goofball
Member since Mar 2015
17324 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 3:54 pm to
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I don’t care how hot she is. She will hold you financially responsible for her children but you will have no authority in how they are raised. You will be reduced to an ATM machine. Furthermore, you will never be a priority to her.


Seeing a man as a walking ATM machine that spends all of his free time on home repairs, maintenance, and earning $$$ is exactly how a lot of women objectify their husbands/boyfriends. I see this crap and it frustrates me to no end. It’s not at all limited to single moms. Married women sometimes treat their husband that way.

I will teach my son to stay away from women like that. We are more than wage slaves to support the feminine imperative. Women need to either be a relationship partner or they can literally frick themselves while their more suitable, less selfish peers get the good men and stable marriages.

Men need to stop marrying these selfish women. Stop valuing them. They don’t value you. It there anre any women in their social circle or family that does shite like that….run away. If you see a hint of this, immediately stop fricking them and move on. Let these bitches be alone and miserable with their collection of vibrators and house cats.

We have got to change this behavior. The only way we can is if women like this are valued for what they bring to a relationship - which is very little if the sex isn’t awesome and they don’t appreciate their partner.

There are good women out there. And since there are bad guys out there, some good single women do have kids. But don’t rush to settle down with a bad one. And don’t panic if you don’t find a good one right away.
This post was edited on 6/29/25 at 4:09 pm
Posted by bdavids09
Member since Jun 2017
1311 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 3:55 pm to
What caused her to break your trust and have an affair like that? Was the marriage on thin ice or was it just a complete shock?
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
52854 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 3:56 pm to
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Bro, you need to see a doc and start getting testosterone shots. It will help you get the magic back. You’ll feel like a teenager again.

I still have a pretty decent sex life. Our youngest kid is almost 18 and about to start college. Why would I want to chase 29 yr olds at this point in my life? I'm married, but even if I wasn't, that doesn't appeal to me anymore.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56504 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 3:57 pm to
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I still have a pretty decent sex life. Our youngest kid is almost 18 and about to start college. Why would I want to chase 29 yr olds at this point in my life? I'm married, but even if I wasn't, that doesn't appeal to me anymore.


Men eventually settling down from being complete pussy hounds is what allows civilization to happen. Why we want to fight against nature is beyond me.
Posted by Uga Alum
Member since Jul 2022
5288 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 3:57 pm to
Oh, well if you’re married then of course not.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
52854 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 4:04 pm to
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Men eventually settling down from being complete pussy hounds is what allows civilization to happen.

Yep. It's the natural order of things I suppose. The big head eventually gains control over the little one
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
35784 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 4:16 pm to
Damn, an Incel got a bunch of dudes to admit they’re raising another man’s kids in this thread. Yeesh
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14871 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 4:20 pm to
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Never date single moms.


Really? Nah
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
39890 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 4:54 pm to
My mom and stepdad got married when I was 4. HE made all decisions along with my mom. HE walked me down the aisle. HE was a parent.

Not all situations are as you mention.
Posted by Volvagia
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2006
52877 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 5:00 pm to
It is the white girls video. Her whole shtick is to point out the absurdity of these things. It’s why she’s smirking and cringing through most of the video and breaks out in a big smiles when he drives away. She typically speaks in the rebuttals tho.

I don’t know how you could have seen that and thought the intended message was her saying those things.
Posted by Tempratt
Member since Oct 2013
14871 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 5:50 pm to
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HE walked me down the aisle. HE was a parent.

Exactly as it should be.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17179 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 5:53 pm to
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Half of all marriages end in divorce so most divorced people have multiple kids.


Gross

Start picking women better guys. This is so bad.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
Premium Member
Member since Jan 2005
78670 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 5:56 pm to
If she's single because she let this guy shoot a load in her, it's a red flag:



If she's single because her husband died, give her a chance
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
28890 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 6:09 pm to
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Not trying to be a dick, but is the one year old yours? You may want to get a paternity test.


Yes. Paternity test confirmed.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
28890 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 6:11 pm to
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How’s the kid? You doing better?


She’s a year and a half old. She’s incredible, and it has changed many things for my life.

As for me, I’m doing much better. The world can be a great place and a cruel place. I’m just doing what I can to control what I can control. The dating world is crazy.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
28890 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 6:13 pm to
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What caused her to break your trust and have an affair like that? Was the marriage on thin ice or was it just a complete shock?


We were in our second year of marriage. I had some flaws, and she decided that instead of communicating with me and trying to get me the help I needed, she would confide in a coworker who happened to be my friend. Said coworker divorced his wife of 20 years and left his two young kids.
Posted by Narax
Member since Jan 2023
5485 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 6:16 pm to
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who happened to be my friend.

He was no friend.

Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
28890 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 6:17 pm to
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Nah baw, don’t lower yourself to that.


Don’t lower myself to what?

Maybe my previous posts offer some perspective. I’m not looking for single moms to date, but in my city, there’s a plethora of them. When I was in HS, this county had the highest teen pregnancy rate in the state.

After going through some shite, I’ve decided to look for women that have some common interests, will do anything for me (when the time comes), are loyal, and can communicate well. I want someone that likes me for the person I am now and accepts my child (again, when the time comes).

Someone joked earlier, but child support will prevent some from becoming rich, so she won’t want me for money, that’s for damn sure

All in all, if I find those things and she has a child or two, who cares as long as she provides for them?
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
35784 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 6:21 pm to
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I’m not looking for single moms to date, but in my city, there’s a plethora of them. When I was in HS, this county had the highest teen pregnancy rate in the state.


Don’t you live in Dallas? There’s a bazillion women under 40 that don’t have kids
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
19681 posts
Posted on 6/29/25 at 6:27 pm to
Worst of all… deep down, they know they aren’t worth shite, and will eventually view you as weak for taking on a relationship with them
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