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re: Never date older women

Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:45 am to
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:45 am to
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Generally speaking, Americans don't share the same value system, so they turn to the one thing people do share in common, a love of money/looks/status. It's not leading to more marriages, or societal stability, or even family stability.



If you’re dating or marrying someone without the same value system, I think I know what the problem is.
Posted by N2cars
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:46 am to
Dating in your 50s sucks.



There's a lot of unhappy women, too, and they can carry baggage around.

I just assumed everyone had great marriages, but that wasn't the case. AT. ALL.
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:47 am to
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. Half your age plus 7 is another good formula but don’t go over 30.



I’m not sure how I feel about that. Most women don’t begin to get their head together until 30, and by that time they’ve had a chance to let the crazy phase surface or not. 20-25 sound like real fun, but there’s usually a real cost that comes with that too, and the older you get the less tolerance you have for that kind of drama.



Posted by Adajax
Member since Nov 2015
8206 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:48 am to
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Younger women


quote:

will try much harder to make the relationship work.


Psycho stalking is not her trying to make the relationship work.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85220 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:49 am to
I’ve dated over a 38 year range. The women I’ve fallen in love with haven’t been on the lower end of that scale. It depends on what YOU value. And the human heart is a mystery.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17475 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:49 am to
1 and done.

If the first woman dont work out just stay single.

Why get into what you already know you are getting into. Just find one that lets you tap that arse but send her old arse home after. She doesnt need a man remember.
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
32665 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:49 am to
You sound like a virgin loser who still lives at home

Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64012 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:51 am to
quote:

If you’re dating or marrying someone without the same value system, I think I know what the problem is.



My comments don't contradict this. Not sure if you're agreeing or not. I agree with your statement, but I simply don't see it in practice. I see socioeconomic arrangements largely absent of lots of value discussions.

But it seems very few people present themselves as a seeker of values and more or less looking for the socioeconomic match (i.e. college, white collar, similar yuppie lifestyles and consumer habits).

With enough money of material you could possibly fill an entire lifetime of a relationship with a long chain of dopamine hits in the form of consumer purchases (cars, homes, etc.) And vacations.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53050 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:51 am to
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I’ve dated over a 38 year range. The women I’ve fallen in love with haven’t been on the lower end of that scale.

It seems a lot of us relate to people somewhere around our own age. Very odd
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
44877 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:51 am to
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There's a lot of unhappy women, too, and they can carry baggage around.



Oh, I know those women. Other women can’t stand to be around the, either bc their shallow existence is choking. I wouldn’t even know how to start dating again if I were single.
Posted by patnuh
South LA
Member since Sep 2005
7418 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:52 am to
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You better have some deep pockets to be dating 25 year olds when you are 45+.


My wife’s friend went this route. Now she is 50, he is 70, and she is miserable bc she is married to an old man.
Posted by BengalShark
Member since Jul 2017
4163 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:53 am to
I agree with all the downvotes to his OP and I even downvoted him myself…

But did anyone else laugh their arse off reading that?

Posted by N2cars
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Member since Feb 2008
37885 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:54 am to
The guy I sold my old RV to was dating a woman 1/2 his age for awhile.

He said he finally quit b/c he realized he had pants older than her.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17475 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:57 am to
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God forbid, if anything ever happened to my husband I would much prefer to spend time with a man who was already proven capable of being in a long term, committed marriage and understood what it takes to work.


Man I hope my wife isnt prepping for a proven capable man for a long term relationship when I die already.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17475 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:00 am to
quote:

I agree with all the downvotes to his OP and I even downvoted him myself…

But did anyone else laugh their arse off reading that?


I did.

Women in their 30 - 40s are hottest in my opinion. Hell, the women who hit the gym regularly and eat healthy look good into their 60s now as long as they didnt get fillers.
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
44877 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:01 am to
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Man I hope my wife isnt prepping for a proven capable man for a long term relationship when I die already.


Yeah. That’s what I was doing

Maybe you should date younger if you’re that sensitive.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116815 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:06 am to
Watch out. He gets his feelings hurt very easily and will thread stalk you projecting like hell.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
35672 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:07 am to
I see you’ve found the daily woman hating thread.
Posted by glassman
Next to the beer taps at Finn's
Member since Oct 2008
117800 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:08 am to
It's like radar. Go Aspy.
Posted by Aspercel
Member since Jan 2009
116815 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:08 am to
As an old woman my only contribution was to help him out with his grammar. His dumbass probably should stick to younger idiots
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