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re: Need some advice from anyone who's been thru a divorce

Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:38 pm to
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80483 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:38 pm to
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make a little over 100K a year. She made 48K last year.


You are both about to be making the same amount of money.
Posted by jeff5891
Member since Aug 2011
15910 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:38 pm to
Go looking on Craigslist for a hot guy to seduce your wife so you can claim infidelity.

Make sure PI films the whole thing
This post was edited on 5/23/17 at 9:39 pm
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
19978 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:38 pm to
sounds like you're relatively ok with it? i'm assuming the spark was never really there?

if it was, i'd say convince her to separate first before making a final call.

Cali divorce is gonna be expensive as hell, alimony and standard of living bullshite. sorry man
Posted by mach316
Jonesboro, AR
Member since Jul 2012
4924 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:38 pm to
Child support is a set amount. Alimony is a different story. Only being married 8 years may save you on that. She's still gonna get half of the assets.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68568 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:38 pm to
Was she cheating on you? Sucks dude. I'm sorry. I know plenty of guys in your position. Definitely not easy.
Posted by Sterling Archer
Member since Aug 2012
8230 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:39 pm to
Outside of the lawyer advice, don't forget to hit the gym and delete Facebook.

People say it as a joke but the gym gives you something to put your energy into and you'll feel good about the changes your body makes. Assuming you don't work out now.

Social media just isn't productive and you find yourself reminiscing on old pictures or something
Posted by nateslu1
Mr. Belvedere Fan Club
Member since Apr 2012
6933 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:39 pm to
First bit of advice... don't take marriage or divorce advice from the OTL
Posted by weagle99
Member since Nov 2011
35893 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:40 pm to
Women don't leave a marriage unless they have somewhere to go. There is another man somewhere guaranteed.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68568 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:41 pm to
For sure. They ALWAYS monkey branch.
This post was edited on 5/23/17 at 9:41 pm
Posted by RLDSC FAN
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Member since Nov 2008
58833 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:41 pm to
No doubt. I've always been into fitness, but I'll definitely be spending a lot more time there.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120070 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:41 pm to
quote:

the sake of your child.



This is all that really matters. It's sad when parents can't put their differences aside and put their children in the middle of it..
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
68568 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:41 pm to
I'm out in Fontana here and there for work. Let me know if I can help brah.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60691 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:41 pm to
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Fight for joint custody and I'm assuming you'll pay little to no child support. You may have to pay some spousal support since you make more than her
all of this is wrong
Posted by Kankles
Member since Dec 2012
6096 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:42 pm to
quote:

Wife and I are splitting up.

Pics?




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Posted by ScottFowler
NE Ohio
Member since Sep 2012
4598 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:42 pm to
No social media...
Ask a lawyer you know through acquaintances for a good divorce attorney.


Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:44 pm to
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I'll be honest, the thought of going back out to the dating world is a bit scary. Its been so freaking long since I've been single.


One problem at a time, playa.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112624 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:46 pm to
quote:

Don't split up.

Make it work.

Church, prayer, a pastor, counseling, weekend getaway, draw up a dating each other contract, whatever you have to do.

You made a promise and vow to each other.
I wish that meant more these days.
This is real life, not a fairy tale.
Posted by lsufan112001
sportsmans paradise
Member since Oct 2006
11050 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:48 pm to

Women don't leave a marriage unless they have somewhere to go. There is another man somewhere guaranteed
----

That's a fact. Someone has someone.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34400 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:49 pm to
quote:

This is all that really matters. It's sad when parents can't put their differences aside and put their children in the middle of it..
Man you think that comment belongs in this thread? Like the guy doesn't know that? That's probably the only thing that kept him there the last few years to begin with so why rub his nose in it?
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13447 posts
Posted on 5/23/17 at 9:49 pm to
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Go looking on Craigslist for a hot guy to seduce your wife so you can claim infidelity.

No need for Craigslist. I'm right here, OP. I do this for a living, just give me the word.

I'll seduce her and get all the evidence you need just before bringing her to climax. She won't get a cent. Let me know.
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